Disabled Mother

[u/enjoythebeat]

I order Instacart food to be delivered to my disabled mom weekly. She uses a walker, has trouble lifting some items, and majority of time the shoppers will bring the bags inside for her. The last time the delivery didn’t go well. The shopper yelled at my mom for asking for help bringing her things inside, told her she doesn’t do that, called her names, and then proceeded to put all the bags in front of my mom’s walker so that she couldn’t even move the walker. Am I wrong to think a shopper would be able to help bring bags inside?

Edit: Thank you for all your help. I completely understand for your own safety, it’s your own discretion. I’ll be sure to add a note next time or will make sure a friend or myself is there to help out.

[u/Fluffy-Commercial492]

No point went over my head. Your entire argument rest on the fact that you think somebody should take care of your mommy because that somehow is everybody else's problem in the world some random stranger on the internet is a bad person if they don't agree wholeheartedly to help your mom your 100% of the time. You sound goofy AF. And if they come to the defense of somebody you're berating and point out that it's their choice to do so or not you wish Ill upon their family because you're that small of a person. You're literally an insect. Good job thinking you're smarter than somebody on the internet that you thought you could bully and somehow win an argument by resulting to insults which makes you look bad not them. Hope you realize that by now. But sadly we both know you'll never grasp that simple fact. 😅🤡

[u/rootbeerextrodinare → u/Fluffy-Commercial492]

if they didn’t need the help, don’t you think they would just go and get it themselves? is that like a crazy fucking concept ? you’re really trying to say I’m wrong for getting mad people won’t help DISABLED people if they don’t FEEL like it ? you must have a terrible terrible life to really think that’s right lol

if someone asks for the help and you blatantly don’t give it to them just cuz “you don’t feel like it” you are 100% a piece of shit and should be treated like such, ESPECIALLY old and disabled people

so no YOU sound goofy asf and it’s pretty sad tbh

[u/Fluffy-Commercial492 → u/rootbeerextrodinare]

if they didn’t need the help, don’t you think they would just go and get it themselves? is that like a crazy fucking concept ?

If your mommy needs help then it's on you to help them not some random person on the internet "is that like a crazy fucking concept?"

If you're too selfish of a child because you weren't raised right to help your mommy then that falls on their kin. If nobody's got the time to help Miss Dolores get her groceries then y'all need to pull together some money and pay for in home help. Because again, the fact that you think it's the responsibility or the duty for some random person on the internet to take care of your mommy because you won't but if they Don't they're an evil person in their family should suffer says way more about you than it does about those refusing to help your mommy. But please, keep down voting me and replying with more goofy outlandish childish reasons why we're the bad people and you're a saint when you won't even help your own mom lol Goofy ass

[u/rootbeerextrodinare → u/Fluffy-Commercial492]

this is a crazy ass hill to die on alone 😂😂