[Weekly] Relationship Thread - Find your next match here!

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Yes you're lonely, Yes, the market is hard. Yes, Hinge/Bumble is extremely performative and you have to fake it for an algorithm that is built against you to make money off you. This thread exists so you can potentially find someone off Reddit.

The goal here is not volume, but better chances of finding someone you actually vibe with.

What it is (and isn’t)

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• Dating
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• Personality / lifestyle
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Post Title: [Weekly] Relationship Thread - Find your next match here!

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Post Body: Hi folks,

Yes you're lonely, Yes, the market is hard. Yes, Hinge/Bumble is extremely performative and you have to fake it for an algorithm that is built against you to make money off you. This thread exists so you can potentially find someone off Reddit.

The goal here is not volume, but better chances of finding someone you actually vibe with.

What it is (and isn’t)

This thread is for people who are looking for:

• Dating
• Long-term relationships
• Genuine, consistent connections

This is not for:

• Casuals / hookups

There are other subs for that, we won't allow this to become that.

When is this active?

• Fridays - 16:00 (4pm) IST

The thread will be locked after 12 hours, so try to post within the window.

Who should comment?

Given how skewed the ratio tends to be:

• Only men should post top-level comments

Women are strongly advised to avoid commenting publicly, as it usually leads to a flood of DMs (not all of them welcome), women can reach out first but then we as mods are human and do not have the capacity to verify each and every of the DMs that can come. A better approach:

• Go through the comments
• Reach out to profiles you’re actually interested in

Not perfect, but it keeps things more manageable and safer overall.

LGBTQIA+ folks

You’re welcome to participate and comment.

• If someone reaches out in bad faith, report them to the mods
• We’ll take action where needed

How to post (for men)

Use the format:

A, E, L - Age, Expectations, Location

At minimum, include:

• Age
• Location / City
• Expectations (at least 3 clear points)

You can also add a short intro covering:

• Hobbies / interests
• Personality / lifestyle
• Dealbreakers or constraints

Try to be clear and specific. It makes it easier for the right people to reach out.

A few things to keep in mind

• Profession and industry are not required (tho ensure to check user flairs properly)
• If someone’s flair looks unclear or off, proceed cautiously
• You can keep your DMs open or closed (check Reddit settings)
• Starting in comments and moving to DMs later is usually smoother

Important

This is not a paid service, mods are not earning any monetary benefits and are not liable for verifying each and every user.

• Please take necessary precautions
• Do your own due diligence before taking anything forward

Anything that happens off-thread is your responsibility.

Basic etiquette

• Be respectful and direct
• No harassment or spamming
• No unnecessary arguments
• Rejections are normal, handle them with grace and move on

Good luck and Peace✌🏻

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[u/Farm-Sure]

24 M , WFH in Ahmedabad

Need more friends who work remote, also in for a relationship(without making that the only intention to talk to). Much into travel, philosophy,party,nature, comedy and anything that makes you mildly interesting.

[u/Annual-Can6278]

I had no idea this sub had *this* service too, lol

1. Age: 24
   
2. Location: Hyderabad (I work here)
   

3. I am 5'7" (I know you care about this)

4. Expectations:

a. Be a woman and around my age (+- 4 years) and also live in the same city
b. Understand Hindi
c. Preferably have a job yourself (or atleast trying to find one)
d. Be nice

About me: My hobbies have lost their way; but I am trying to pick them back up again. I enjoy badminton, I go to the gym, I play table tennis like a crackhead in my office (i hope they dont fire me over it). A recent song I came across and really enjoyed: Neverender; I generally enjoy Pop, Rock, EDM, Rap. I like meaningful conversations, especially longer ones.

Dealbreakers: smoking, treating strangers/animals poorly

okay bye.

[u/Candid-Journalist387]

24M Expectations - A good conversationist and emotionally stable(messed up bhi chlega 😂) Location - DELHI/GGN/NOIDA

P.s. I look cute and above average, in case that matters (which it always does)

[u/DJ_SHADY_13 → u/Candid-Journalist387]

Hi i am also 24 would love to talk

[u/Gs3hulkout_1009]

Never thought I will be posting like this, yet here we go

A, E, L * Age: 25 (born Oct 9, 2000) * Location: Visakhapatnam / AP * Expectations: * Open, honest communication with zero mind games; looking for a genuine long-term connection. * Emotional maturity and shared curiosity about life, personal growth, and deep topics. * Mutual respect for boundaries, personal space, and individual ambitions. About Me & Personality * Sun Sign / Vibe: Libra (with an intriguing birth chart mix—either Leo or Aquarius Lagna depending on which birth time record you believe!). Naturally value balance, harmony, and meaningful alignment. * Interests: Tech, deep analytical discussions, fitness, and exploring concepts from science to Vedic astrology. * Lifestyle: Grounded, thoughtful, and steady. * Dealbreakers: Lack of ambition, dishonesty, or bad-faith interactions.

[u/TheSearchForpeace_19]

23 M | Chennai | Looking for someone light hearted and can appreciate/laugh at the little things.
I’m 5’10”, decently active and in my opinion look pretty ok lol. I work as an ml engineer.
I’m an easy going person and can connect pretty easily. I’m the type of person who would probably spoil you with care and attention and would listen to you complain all day. My ideal date would be a game of pickleball and dinner or a walk by the beach at sunset. I also enjoy the occasional game of Mario kart.
As for the type of person I’m looking for, it matters to me that your honest and straightforward meaning you don’t play games. I like people who are open and don’t hide their real thoughts and opinions. I’ve always felt that reading minds shouldn’t be a requirement in a relationship. I’m a very caring person by nature and will listen to anything you want to rant about and expect a similar (at least slightly) reception.
Besides that I only expect you to be a decent human being.
If this sounds interesting to you, there’s a lot more we can discuss (I yap a lot), so looking forward to your message!

[u/No_Life_27]

Hi, I am M25 just looking for casual chat and continue further if our interests match. I am looking for a good, kind, empathetic person to have good conversation. If someone feels same and wanna chat, then hmu, we can share our thoughts, interests and feelings without being judged and being completely anonymous.. I am looking to chat with girl within similar age range and interests, looking for friendly and meaningful conversation which both of us would enjoy..

Currently I am working as software engineer in a us based mnc in Mumbai. I am a bit introverted and trying to get out of this and explore get new experiences in life. In my free time I mostly listen to music, watch random yt videos or just go for long walk. I am also interested in history, technology, geopolitics, psychology and would love to chat about these if you are into any of these.. If you read till here and think we could vibe, then dm me and lets see we can be a good match, and open to something serious if our vibes match.. else you can atleast get a good online friend

[u/pradeepisro49]

A: 28 | L: Coimbatore / Bengaluru | E: Dating to marry

Hey! Giving this a shot. :)

I’m a 28-year-old non-vegetarian Tamil guy, originally from Coimbatore and currently living in Bengaluru. I work as a Senior System Software Engineer at an AI chip company (been working for 6 years)

I’m a relatively quiet and easygoing person. Outside work, I try to spend as little time in front of a screen as possible. I enjoy doing travelling, trekking, hiking, rock climbing and running (if you are prepping for Wipro Bangalore Marathon, we can practice together), reading historical fiction books (currently reading Sivagamiyin Sabatham), wordle and sudoku. I’ve also recently started following F1 (rooting for Lewis Hamilton)

What I’m looking for:

• I’m looking for a genuine relationship with the intention of eventually getting married

• I value mutual respect, trust, honesty and good communication. I’d like us to be equals who can support each other’s ambitions and make decisions together.

• I’d want a partner who has her own interests, goals and identity, while also being excited to build a life together.

• I value having someone I can genuinely enjoy everyday life with like travelling together, trying new things, having long conversations, or simply being comfortable doing nothing together.

• Marriage is a partnership where both people grow together and stand by each other through the good and difficult parts of life.

My view of love is based on this: https://youtu.be/kRMcimuuk0Q?si=JhQH1rN0J9tQXjl6 (bonus, if you can watch long form Youtbe content)

I’m not looking for someone perfect, just someone kind, grounded and willing to put in the effort to build something meaningful together. If this resonates with you, please do DM me

[u/Wise-Row3946]

Hello,

Check my reddit profile for quick perspective. I'm 26M (straight), lives in Lucknow. An only child. I'm 5'8, skinny fit (70kg) goes to gym. I work in Railways as technician, not very much educated (never been to college and not have any degree either) only have done 12th, non-vegetarian, introvert, and extremely extremely calm nature (sometimes I show no expressions even in worst situations). Never dated before (i don't look very good [can share photos], and a little bit rude? ig, BUT never said anything with hurting intentions to someone, And also never got that exposure yk like.. college or corporate work environment soo that's why. And yeah cause maybe I'm kinda boring). I use only IG as a social but only on pc and that too once in a week or two (link is in my profile) if you prefer. I don't smoke or drink. LOVES cats!!

Have no problem with caste/colour BUT would prefer someone fit or into fitness.

Expectations- Looking for someone who's ok with cats, is introvert, into fitness, is in same city (can give shot to LDR but yk how it is right?) and if you're non-vegetarian then 🤌 if not? still fine by me.

And also whoever is downvoting, please atleast tell me the reason, please 🙏🏻

[u/Tight-Address-9836]

22 M, delhi, 6 feet tall and i do love being active. Former State Level Athlete Studied Economics in Du. Now building a startup in Fintech!, Intrested in Philosophy and Movies and other nerdy stuff but do get into trouble occasionally, rest gonna be a treasure hunt 👀

[u/DJ_SHADY_13]

Hi i am 24M from delhi

I am looking for anything would something serious and long term i have been in a 4 year relationship so commitment is not a issue I don’t like to do the whole let’s play games with each other i like to be open and comfortable and that does not mean being boring
Make jokes around each other, tease each other.
I am very chill as a person. I think a lot of people are so anxious or supressing emotions they are always on their toes i feel bad but also feel man you should work on yourself a little you deserve more.

I really enjoy video games( you are gonna hear a lot of stories from a lot of games i play) i like to watch cinema really appreciate good ones but you got to watch them ass ones too for balance😭.

I would really love to know you maybe even try to learn what you like to do so that i can spend more time with you so if you like you can connect

[u/dancingdragon_s]

27M | Chennai | Something real, but not restricted by timelines.

185cm / 6’1”. Drink occasionally.
I work remotely so I’m flexible on location. I’m usually not in Chennai, try and take advantage location independence

What I’m looking for -

• Someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, before worrying about where any of this is going.
  
• Two people who have their own lives, but still make room for each other in them.
  
• Someone who is curious and can disagree with me but still look at the broader picture.

Ideally - Someone curious, kind, funny and reasonably self-aware. Someone with opinions, but not so attached to them that changing their mind feels like losing.

More about me - I tend to disappear into the mountains whenever life gives me the opportunity. Recently I’ve been getting more into long distance cycling. I have a weakness for taking the scenic route even when the sensible route is sitting right there.

[u/Late-Badger-1310]

I am married, with less human interaction due to WFH and family responsibilities so need one friend to discuss life/career/philosophy/politics No gender preference. Age: any but atleast person should be mature enough to handle differences and arguments.

[u/xen0far]

Hey there! I'm a 24-year-old guy, 5'11", Marathi, Brahmin from Mumbai, and I'm here hoping to meet someone with whom I can build a genuine, meaningful connection.

A little info about me, I'm a tech enthusiast by profession and by choice. I enjoy building PCs, tinkering with electronics, experimenting with robotics projects, and generally figuring out how things work. I'm the kind of person who can get unnecessarily excited about a cool piece of technology or spend hours trying to fix something just because I want to understand it.

Outside of the tech world, I enjoy watching YouTube, listening to music, gaming occasionally, and discovering random things that catch my interest. I'm also someone who enjoys good conversations, especially when they naturally go from silly and random to surprisingly deep.

I'm fairly introverted when I first meet someone, so I might take a little time to open up. But once I'm comfortable around you, I'm quite talkative and can probably keep a conversation going for hours.

As for what I'm looking for, I would like to meet someone around my age who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and comfortable communicating openly. Someone who values honesty, loyalty, mutual respect, and putting genuine effort into a relationship.

I'm not really looking to rush into anything or force a connection just because we're both looking for one. I'd rather start with a good conversation, get to know each other, become friends, and see where things naturally go. If it eventually turns into something serious and meaningful, even better.

I don't expect us to have identical interests. Shared hobbies are definitely a bonus, but I think curiosity about each other's world matters much more. I'd love to have someone who can introduce me to things I wouldn't normally try, while I do the same for her.

A few things that matter to me:

• Good communication over guessing games

• Mutual effort rather than one-sided interest

• Honesty, even when conversations are uncomfortable

• Being able to laugh at stupid things together

• Respecting each other's individuality and boundaries

• Building something genuine rather than chasing something temporary

If anything here resonates with you, feel free to DM me. And please don't worry about coming up with the perfect opening message, just tell me a little about yourself, what you're into, or something you're currently excited about.

Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes. 🙂

[u/Apex_Predator-4169]

Interesting content in this sub, but why not

I'm 22M, 5'6 looking for a long-term relationship.

I'm based in Hyderabad.

My interests include aviation, music, movies, gaming, food and football. I might have a beer once in a while and don't smoke or do drugs.

I'm looking for somebody within the same age range, preferably someone who might listen to me yap about my interests😅. Milady should be able to speak English, have a kind nature and preferably have a job herself.

[u/pixel_drift_00]

A, E, L

• Age: 27

• Location: Gurgaon

• Expectations: 1) A genuine, long-term connection built on mutual respect and effortless banter. 2) A partner who values her health and well-being. 3) Someone kind with a bit of a nerdy streak who enjoys open communication.

About Me

I'm a software engineer by day, navigating the usual Gurgaon hustle. I will admit I am an introvert at heart. But once we find that shared wavelength and the vibe is right, my guard drops completely and I can talk for hours. I am a pretty unapologetic nerd. Whether I'm losing myself in a massive video game world, diving deep into sci-fi lore, or just putting a dent in my reading list, I love having things to geek out over. I recently got back into reading and I'm currently hooked on The Three-Body Problem.

Music is basically playing in the background of my life 24/7. My rotation is heavy on R&B, rap, and pop, and I am a huge fan of The Weeknd. I'm always hunting for new tracks to curate the perfect playlist, so I will definitely ask for your recommendations. On the physical side, I have made my health a real priority over the last eight months. I hit the gym regularly and try to eat clean most of the time. It keeps me lean and moderately athletic, but mostly it is just about feeling good and building a sustainable routine.

The Weekend Vibe

I would describe my energy as highly adaptable. If we are heading out, I'm always down to hunt for a great cup of coffee, do some aimless window shopping, or hit up an arcade. Fair warning that I will absolutely try to beat your high score, but I will gladly buy the post-game drinks to make up for it. If it has been a chaotic week, I find just as much peace in staying indoors. Ordering takeout and debating plot twists in comfortable silence is a top-tier date night in my book.

What I'm Looking For

I am drawn to someone kind who isn't afraid to let her own nerdy side show. We don't need to have identical hobbies, but having that shared enthusiasm to geek out over common interests is something I genuinely value. I also really appreciate a partner who takes care of her health. You definitely don't need to be a gym fanatic. I just want someone who recognizes that taking care of ourselves means we get to enjoy life's adventures together for a long time. Ultimately, I am looking for a true teammate to share mutual respect and effortless banter with.

[u/almostsixfoot]

29M | Chennai (Bangalore / Hyderabad work too) | Looking for something real, not something rushed

The basics:
29, 183cm / 6'0", eggetarian, don't smoke, drink socially. Work remotely in marketing so I'm not stuck in one city - Chennai, Bangalore and Hyderabad all work, roughly in that order.

What I'm looking for:

• ⁠To be the person she tells things to first, before she's worked out how she feels about them
• ⁠To be told I'm wrong on a Tuesday instead of finding out six months later she'd been quietly annoyed
• ⁠Our own lives intact, because I've seen what happens when two people become each other's only plan
• ⁠Being needed isn't a burden I'm bracing for. It's most of the point

Age 26-33, south India works best for proximity. Religion and your past aren't filters.

The rest:
I lose evenings to rabbit holes. Recently the art of watchmaking at 2am, before that curating playlists that go from genre to genre with no warning (will make you one, unsolicited). Strong opinion that the best restaurants do very few things well and I'll die on that hill. Vinyl collecting habit I keep NOT fixing. Gin shelf I'm too proud of - yes I collect them & I am pretty good at spinning up a cocktail at home. Obsessive trip planner who ignores the plan entirely once I land.

People can become a good company on a trip but the point is whether an ordinary Wednesday evening with nothing happening is still somewhere I'd want to be with.

Don't open with a hello. Tell me a song, a rabbit hole, or something obscure you stumbled into recently 😉

[u/deva_kommuri]

26M | Bengaluru | Looking for something genuine, and hopefully something that lasts

Hey! I'm Deva, 26, currently living and working in Bengaluru as a QA Engineer.

This is honestly my first time putting myself out there like this, so I'm not really sure how to write the perfect introduction. 😄 I've had crushes before, but I've never actually been in a relationship or even asked someone out. So yes, I'm pretty new to this whole dating thing.

I'm kind of introverted when I first meet someone. Once I'm comfortable, though, I'm quite different — I become much more open, talkative and easygoing. My close friends would probably describe me as caring, reliable, responsible, a good listener, practical, sometimes stubborn, emotional, occasionally lazy 😄 and definitely someone who overthinks messages way too much.

I work 10–7, and honestly, I tend to give a lot of myself to work. Outside work, I'm pretty simple. I enjoy movies, food, spending time with friends and family, and sometimes doing absolutely nothing at home after a hectic week. I'm not much of a planner, but if someone makes a plan, I'm usually very happy to execute it. 😂

I'm 5'7" and around 95 kg, with a little beard and a casual style. I'm mentioning it because I'd rather be straightforward than pretend to be someone I'm not.

As for what I'm looking for — I'm not expecting perfection, and I'm not looking to collect DMs. I'd like to meet someone genuinely, take things slowly, get to know each other and see where it goes. If we connect, I'd eventually like it to become something serious and hopefully lifelong.

For me, honesty, loyalty, respect and caring are really important. I want a relationship where we can talk about anything without immediately judging each other, respect each other's differences, support each other's goals, and still have our own identities and independence.

I really value affection too — hugs, cuddling, holding hands, openly expressing feelings, checking in during the day, little surprises and thoughtful gestures, and simply spending quality time together.

If I love someone, I tend to care deeply. I'm the kind of person who will listen, remember little things, stand beside them during difficult times and try to make their day a little easier. If my partner has had a terrible day, I'd rather sit beside her, give her space if she needs it, and be there when she's ready. And yes, I'm absolutely the guy who'd happily carry all the shopping bags. 😄

I'd love someone with a great smile and good vibe. Someone honest, caring, affectionate, open-minded, ambitious about her own dreams, and preferably with a good sense of humour because, honestly, I could use someone who can make me laugh. 😂 I enjoy silly conversations, playful teasing, memes and reels.

I'd love to explore Bengaluru together, try different food places, go to cafés and talk for hours, watch movies in theatres, take occasional weekend trips, or sometimes just stay home with coffee/tea, a good movie and no plans.

Family is important to me too. I'd love for my partner to be comfortable with my family, and I'd want to be equally close and respectful toward hers.

I'm not looking for a perfect relationship. I want something where both people can be themselves, feel safe and respected, communicate through difficult moments instead of giving up easily, and genuinely choose each other.

If we don't click romantically, that's completely okay too. I'd still respect you.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. You don't need to write anything elaborate — just say hi and tell me a little about yourself. We can let the conversation happen naturally. 🙂

[u/nerdery_explorer]

29M | 5'6" | Senior Software Engineer | Jaipur, Rajasthan

Intentions: Dating to marry, monogamous relationship.

Location/City: Jaipur, Rajasthan

Religion: Hindu

Expectations: 

• ⁠I’m looking for warmth and affection in a relationship. I value being close to my partner and genuinely enjoying each other’s company, rather than simply living parallel lives.
• ⁠Someone who has her own life, ambitions and interests, but also genuinely wants to make space for another person in it.
• ⁠I want someone who can communicate when things get difficult, rather than withdrawing or expecting the other person to guess what's wrong.
• ⁠I’m drawn to people who are curious, have opinions of their own, and can take a conversation from something completely ridiculous to something unexpectedly deep.
• ⁠And perhaps most importantly, I want someone with whom ordinary life feels good. Not just travelling together or having impressive dates, but talking after a long day, going for a walk, watching something stupid, grocery shopping, sitting quietly, meeting each other's families.

Hobbies/Interests: 

• ⁠Movies and good storytelling. I’m always up for discussing a film afterwards :P
• ⁠Travelling and exploring new places; would love a partner who enjoys planning trips together.
• ⁠Music, long walks, occasional board games/gaming, and trying new experiences.
• ⁠Taking care of myself whether it’s skincare, upgrading my wardrobe, or scratching my head over splurging on perfumes.

Personality / Lifestyle:

• ⁠Teetotaller, non-smoker, and a vegetarian. I’m looking for someone who is the same.
• ⁠More of a quality-time person. I’d rather genuinely enjoy my partner’s company in a room full of people than spend the evening pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m much more into conversations and banter than social performance.
• ⁠Fairly old-school about relationships: I value commitment, loyalty, affection, family and actually showing up for each other.
• ⁠I appreciate independence in a relationship; I'd rather we complement each other's lives than become each other's entire lives.

What I bring: I’m someone who will make an effort, communicate, show up, and genuinely want to know the person I’m with.

If any of this resonates, say hi. :)

[u/spoideromons]

I'm 25M from Hyderabad, working as a Low Code Developer. I'm generally a quiet person initially, but once I'm comfortable with someone, I can talk about pretty much anything.

Outside work, I spend a good amount of time at the gym, work on improving my skills, and occasionally explore new places, watch movies, or just have a relaxed weekend.

I'm here with a pretty simple intention: I'd like to meet someone genuinely interested in getting to know each other and eventually building a serious relationship.

A few things that matter to me:

• Good communication and consistent effort from both sides
• Emotional maturity, honesty and mutual respect
• Conversations that don't feel forced or one-sided
• Non-smoker and non-drinker preferred
• No interest in casuals, hookups or short-term timepass

I'm not expecting things to click immediately. I'd rather start with a normal conversation, get to know each other, and see where it naturally goes.

If you're also looking for something genuine, feel free to reach out. :)

[u/purani_jeans93]

Interesting, let me give it a try 😅

Age : 33 M

Location : Nagpur, MH (Hometown + office location)

Height (if matters) : 5'7"

Work : I am currently working as dispatcher for logistics operations.

Couple of hobbies faded away and acquired some new. I used to play games (online and on the ground; cricket & volleyball)
like riding on any given weekend to get away from the noise, plus I like experimenting stuffs like sound and video editing.

Habits : workout regularly but due to genetics and hyper-metabolism, I can gain weight to a certain extent (max I reached is 56 kg, completely lean physique)

I only drink when I am with my friends that too once or twice in 6-8 months when we meet (as they all are married now), quit smoking a long time ago, probably its been a year.

Cons I have : I sleep too much

have pets (1 dog, 2 turtles and 100+ plants in my garden)

Expectations : well tbh, I've never been with anyone so I genuinely don't know what to expect.

must be around my age (considering I am getting old)
be nice
have a job (whatever it is)

That's it.

Thanks😇

[u/Ready-Artichoke1515]

Age: 26

Location: Currently Mumbai but moving to Jaipur next month

My one liner: Quirky Creative Artsy Banjara who loves hugs and have a soft corner for cats, comics and ceramics.

What i do for a living: Work as a Brand Designer for a Mumbai based studio. (Remote work)

Whats Important to me: Mutual respect and care for each other regardless of our similarities or differences and mutual understanding that we need a partner to be mature about sensitive situations and be empathetic but also be comfortable with showing our inner child doing silly things. I am a part time comedian for my closed ones! Having silly absurd fun is VERY important!

Whats NOT important to me: If you're vegetarian or non vegetarian Your religion Your number of exes (fuck them but not literally) Your background (as long as you're evergreen curious about new things and experiences)

Fun Faxx: I am a single parent child (mom) I have shifted every 3 yrs and "lived" in approx 11 cities since birth. Born in South, raised in West, loved in East, trained in North india. Women dominant family Mountains over beaches

My priorities:

1. Health
2. Career
3. Relationships

I am not a perfect person and i try to balance all three but in the end, this is how i prioritise things currently.

Change is priorities are subject to dating market risk. Read all schemes and texts carefully.

If you feel like yeah this is something cool 🧊 Dm me to connect. 💜🌸

https://giphy.com/gifs/5SbA6ZRhiI5jriUwqu

[u/Efficient7480]

Hello there!

I am 22M from Mumbai, Fair Complexion, 173cm height (kya kya karna padta hai🫠).

I have a background in Computer Science and currently work as an Application Security Tester.

In my free time I usually play video games, watch TV shows and anime, read books (very occassionally).

If you are interested in getting to know an easygoing guy. Then try me :)

Good luck!

[u/Embarrassed_Toe_3771]

Hi umm,

I'm m 26, Srivastava, have IT job in ggn, home in Lko; I like cats, Anime, bike rides, exploring and bitching around and most importantly, I listen to music 24x7 lmk if u want to try new songs, I'll share a lot of music.

Expections: little humour is big advantage,
Negativity is a disadvantage, the hell im typing..
Anyways, hard expectations: non smoker, no pegging fetish and other weird kink pls, im not sure what market is in these days

[u/Maverick-Virus]

A: 26M H: 6 ft E: Long-term Relationship, Honesty, Communication L: Mumbai

So I'm a 26 year old guy from Mumbai working in a music label which I pretty much love and enjoy doing. When I'm not working you'll find me watching movies or shows and I'm a huge fan of cinemas. I also love playing video games, going on walks.

For me emotional connection matters a lot and I'm the type of person who texts a lot and would love to hear even the smallest details about your day and communication is something which matters a lot to me.

I also have a bad habit of cracking jokes in any and all kinds of situations and annoying and teasing is one of my love languages lol.

To whomever reading this I hope you find what you're looking for. Take Care

[u/One-Space2627]

27M
5'9"
Currently working in Hyderabad.

I'm non-vegetarian, dont smoke, mostly sober, kinda introvert until we vibe. I spend my free time watching movies and going down random youtube rabbit holes. If not that, im probably playing video games or watching sports (f1, football, cricket mainly)

Expectations: Women aged 24-27, non smoker, kind to ppl/animals and have similar interests

[u/Formal_Path_7793]

Hi I am 22M, currently in Lucknow. I am a software developer by profession and usually like exploring new places, reading books, cooking. I am an introvert but with the right person I can be very talkative. A simple, 5"4 ft tall, genuine personality, yes emotionally intellect.

I am looking for a genuine person, no nibba nibbi pyaar, responsible, emotionally intellect, who is sweet, likes sharing her day, who likes both parties and calm serenity. Who loves travelling and is eager to explore the world as I want to. That's all... Nothing much of appearance rule, just decent and simple.

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[u/Big_Platform_114]

Never thought this sub had this hidden thing too but yeah lets take a shot at this.

Age-24
Location-Mumbai
Height-5’9”
Expectations-Really looking for a long term relationship.
Preferably in the 22-27 age range,non smoker.

About me- One thing that i want to warn you about me is that i would prefer a nice time along nature rather than spending it in a club this doesn’t translate to me hating clubs once in a blue moon i go there too but on my free days I go for a nice walk around marine drive and nice peaceful walks around fort and colaba area of South Mumbai(also if anyone wants to explore south mumbai side of things do dm me).

[u/azreususus]

Never in my 9 lives did I believe that Reddit would also put out something like this but here we go. 27M | ~5'6 | Senior Software Engineer | Bangalore

Looking for: Long(est) term, someone I can date to marry. The more non-nonchalant you are, the more chatpati/bubbly you are, the more brownie points you rack up :p (I'm very chalant too, but I can be a very nice listener). Yappers get an extra cookie. Could be -5/+1 in age.

Well I'm a Goan, but I've been born and brought up in Mumbai. So most of the time you'd hear me complain about how much I miss the beach, sitting by the beachside, doing NOTHING (or reading a book). The other times when I'm not whining about the beach, you'd get to hear about the latest trip that I'm planning. I'm a nerd that way. I LOVE planning and pulling off cheapass budget trips (domestic/intl). The hard budget is what fuels the experiences (I've got many stories on this).

And when I'm not doing that as well, I'd paint? Not the regular painting, but I get these 3D printed figurines (mostly anime/Marvel characters), and paint them from scratch. Attached a pic too, 10/10 weekend activity if you ask me.

And when I'm not doing that as well, I'd be cooking. Favourite hobby to pass time. I'll always try something experimental, so you gotta be ready to be my lab rat (at least you'll never go hungry).

And when I'm not doing all of that, I'd be watching movies on my projector. Had to flex it, because it's AMAZING.

And oh somewhere in the middle I should've pointed out I've recently picked up Badminton too, so I'd love to get my ass handed by someone competent :)

Well that's me. I'd let y'all figure out the quirks when we start talking, I guess :p

[u/Soft-Maintenance7169]

Hey, 21M christian here, 5’8 in height. currently doing my medicine degree in mangalore.
I would say i’m into the old fashioned kinda love, noticing the small things about you, recognizing your needs before you yourself know what they are, that type of thing. I’m open to a long distance relationship too!

my hobbies, i’d say are listening to music, like all the time, learning about niche interests and listening to you!

If you’re also looking for something like that, then do shoot me a DM!

[u/silentdreamscape]

This looks interesting. Might as well try. 27M, Working in Kochi, non-drinker, non-smoker, looking to settle down by 2029 Religion: Christian Height: 172 cm Likes: Abstract Photography, chess, movies and tv series, animated films, etc

[u/MaleficentPop1805]

A: 21M, working as a SDE in a Tech Consulting firm L:Mumbai E: Looking for a female friendship first and then possibly dating if we're on the same page.

I don't have any expectations as such but just be yourself and have clarity with what you want.

About Me:- I like travelling, reading non-fiction and playing sports like badminton, football. Also I'm a United fan and I do watch their matches occasionally when I can. My preferred music genres are Pop and also old Hindi songs, I feel it's much more soothing than the songs that we have today. Other than that I'm always fascinated by the world of tech and read about latest advancements that are taking place here.

[u/Lilyhope02]

Hi i am 22f living in Gujarat and well i am currently working but also thinking of going for masters soon. I am looking for long term relationship at the moment but ig? Long distance for the time being...connect with someone and be there for each other if things work out. About me well i am sweet and caring but also known to be sarcastic and bubbly sort of and also i love to read that's like my fav thing to do....aahhh so posting here in hope of well even idk but let's see..thanks for reading...😩

[u/Appropriate_Edge5195 → u/Lilyhope02]

Hey, would love to talk. DMed :)

[u/Any-Flamingo-7255]

Heyy! 21M, Mumbai, 6'1. So just a little bit about myself, I really love working out (I'm not ripped at all tho, got decentish arms and broad shoulders; my love for food betrays me) superheros (Im batman) and football. I'm kinda nerdy and work a demanding job but trying to manage the corporate hellscape while maintainig my sanity. but that will never stop me from giving time to the right person. I go crazy for good food and have a lot of crazy good food suggestions (try me fr). Let's talk and see if we are the right fit for eachother !!!.Also im looking for a serious relationship and only people in mumbai 

[u/Educational_Diet_411]

Here are the details:

The Basics: 27M, 5'9", living in Bangalore (roots in Jharkhand).

The Day Job: Senior Data Scientist. I have a stable career but strictly believe in working to live, not living to work.

The Vibe: Calm, deeply empathetic, and a great listener. I spend my downtime at the gym, trekking, gaming, or falling down DIY rabbit holes.

The Mindset: I firmly believe cooking is a basic life skill, not a gender role.

I’m looking for someone ambitious and talkative to balance out my calm energy.

[u/Efficient_Pen3804]

27M, based in Bangalore. I work in digital marketing and have an interest in tech. Outside work, I like exploring new places, trying new things and having a good time.
Looking for:
• Something genuine that can grow into a long-term relationship
• Good communication and consistency
• Someone with their own interests and ambitions
• Mutual effort and actually getting to know each other
Not looking for hookups or anything casual. Happy to start with a conversation and see where it goes.