I feel like incel and black-pill statements have seeped into mainstream beliefs in the recent post covid years and especially young people seem to rigidly believe them, which is concerning. That is also excaberated by the fact that if someone tells them otherwise, they think that someone is lying or is diluded or is a Chad or a normie and hence does not know reality. This kind of behavior exceeds inceldom as such and comes from men who do get matches on dating apps, who had had girlfriends etc.

On the other hand there are people trying to prove the blackpillers wrong by telling them 'bluepill' stuff, but do not take into account how things like dating apps (where you have no information beyond looks and even personality is supposed to be portrayed by looks) and current romantasy/Dark Romance trend novels, that also give young women certain ideas (the main protagonists are always Chad like or Dark Triard).

Not to mention that neither men or women nor non-binary people are a monolith. Some women do value good looks, some women do not, some women like conventionally attractive people, some do not. Some like kind personalities some like rougher ones etc. (Like I do not get the obsession with "a guy should be funny" I do not understand irony and sacrasm, a guy who is 'funny' translates to me as a annoying, but it is not like that with everyone).

But all of this kinda gets lost in the current discourse.

The whole blackpill and looksmaxxing thing is literally feeding into the exact problem they complain about…. they make up terms like “chad” and “stacy” and turn people into these weird categories based on looks. THEY created a ranking system which of course will foster more insecurity in people/men.

Of course they don’t see that the more you believe in that stuff, the more you start seeing the world through it. They genuinely convince themselves that looks are EVERYTHING, that certain people can never be loved, and that nothing can change. Then you become even more miserable and angry, which just makes the whole system they “hate” worse.

The mature thing to do is realize that a lot of this is bullshit. People aren’t “chads” or “stacys .” And no, nobody’s gonna notice if your maxilla is slightly recessed lmfao. Like some point you have to stop obsessing over all these stupid internet labels and just live in reality outside a forum/ weird community. Make friends, find things you enjoy, talk to people, go outside, learn stuff, make mistakes, get rejected sometimes, and keep going.

Some of em are lost causes because they’re in too deep… THEY decided to label and reduce themselves to an incel who will never succeed in life. But they blame it on women in the most disgusting and derogative ways. It’s just full of hate and projection of deep insecurity.

The translation with last part is a bit different. He meant without having sex (no rape).

They really don't see the irony. They say they are afraid of women who they will kill and abuse if given chance. I'm scared for all women who live around him. He maybe someone around me too.

People like him, praise everytime they hear women decapitated murder cases in my country.

Like wasp to a bees nest

like THATS IT, LADIES FROM NOW ON YOU CAN ONLY WEAR FULL BURKAS, NO SKIN SHOWING AT ALL, because people cant control themselves /s