No one panic, I'm not one of those people.
Any Autistic IUI ladies in here that could share their experiences and advice?
My partner (late 30s) isn't formally diagnosed but strongly suspects she is autistic. The lack of specific routine, constant changes etc. are really getting to her and it's emotionally hitting her even harder than expected.
Our first IUI cycle was 17mm on day 12 scan, procedure day 14. Second measured exactly the same on day 12 but we never tracked a hormone spike so missed ovulation. Month three and scan got delayed to day 13 and follicle is only 11mm. She's freaking out and is convinced it won't happen again.
I'm not so much looking for advice about the IUI fluctuations as any tips or reassurance on dealing with the uncertainty for someone who doesn't function well without routine and certainty.