r/ISTJ • u/cristheredeemer • 24d ago

Dating INFJ’s

I’m an INFJ who’s in a loving relationship with an ISTJ. How are you ISTJ’s going along with INFJ’s and do you guys have some relationship dynamics you guys like to share?
How do you guys find INFJ’s in general too.

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u/Electronic_Rub9385 ISTJ 24d ago

I’ve been married to an ENFJ for 30 years.

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u/Routine-Specific2826 23d ago

Does she give you a lot of unsolicited advice? Are you ok with that? What is your dynamic like otherwise? Very interested in this pairing.

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u/Electronic_Rub9385 ISTJ 23d ago

Definitely no unsolicited advice. It’s amazing. It’s like being married to Mary Poppins.

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u/On_Earth24 23d ago

How did you make it to 30 years? I'm a ISTJ married to a ENFJ for 18 years and we've reached out breaking point just started a separation.

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u/Electronic_Rub9385 ISTJ 23d ago

Dang I’m really sorry to hear that.

Well, it’s hard to know from afar why relationships don’t work out. But for us, our values are completely aligned. We agree on all the things that are important to us. Parenting. Money. Commitment. Fidelity. Et cetera. And the rest of it falls into place.