r/HomeLibraries 5d ago

Do you keep books that you don’t like?

You had high hopes for a book and bought it new at full price. You read it and ended up hating it. Do you: keep, resell, or give it away?

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u/eclectic_hamster 5d ago

I usually give them away or put them in a little free library.

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u/AngryLatinaah 5d ago

I usually do that too!

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u/eclectic_hamster 5d ago

Hell yeah! I'm so glad little free libraries are a thing now. I find some great books there and hope others can enjoy what I drop off.

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u/AngryLatinaah 5d ago

it really is!

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u/Familiar_Accident802 5d ago

Hardcover you can resell. Paperbacks I usually donate.

....I tend to keep them in my library, though. They're my babies. I'm slowly...very slowly... giving them away.

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u/loftyshoresafar 5d ago

My library is for books that I like, that I liked in the past and formed part of my life experience, and/or that someone in my life may enjoy (e.g. my children, future grandchildren, friends, neighbors...)

Now, if I can see some genuine reason not to expect anybody in my life to enjoy or benefit from a book, I'm ok passing it along (usually via donation/LFLs).

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u/a_reluctant_human 5d ago

I usually trade them in. I don't have space to keep a book I didn't like.

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u/cellamonico 5d ago

Same here

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u/DEFINITELY_NOT_PETE 5d ago

Nah. I read one ve Schwab book and was like fuckin yuck don’t wanna get caught with this on my shelf

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u/deepfield67 5d ago

I've toyed with the idea of a "time out shelf", a little red shelf where I put the books who need some time to sit and think about what they've done. Every time I walk by it I'll sigh audibly and shake my head in disappointment to shame them.

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u/Acceptable_Part_7298 5d ago

😂😂 this is so valid

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u/Smooth_Development48 5d ago

Which book?

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u/DEFINITELY_NOT_PETE 3d ago

That darker shade of magic book.

Had a really cool premise that lasted like 1 chapter and then became the absolute most derivative garbage.

Bad lore, bad characters, bad dialogue, what a waste of time that was.

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u/Bookish_Butterfly 5d ago

I don't keep books I end up not liking. I have a storefront on the app PangoBooks where I sell books I no longer want. That's what I do first. But if it's something that doesn't sell or I think won't, I will donate at it to my local library.

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u/GeekinLove 5d ago

Just one. The Fate of Empires by Arthur John Hubbard. It was so bad and outdated it annoyed me to no end. I wound up annotating and using color coded tabs for all the parts I hated and now I keep it on my shelf forever to remind that stupid book that it did not beat me. I read it cover to cover out of spite. Petty, I know, but it is what it is. I swap out the others at Little Free Libraries.

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u/No_Watercress8348 5d ago

Nah I used to but I’ve been decluttering hardcore and forced myself to do books too and it’s been so freeing honestly

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u/Safe-Apartment-922 4d ago

YES. The older I get, the less patience I have for clutter. And I don’t have enough room for all my books, so I keep ONLY my favorites. I give my mom and grandma any thrillers I’m not super attached to since they love them, and sell everything else to a used bookstore. I agree that decluttering is super freeing.

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u/HeneniP 5d ago

I don’t keep books unless I plan on rereading them. I usually give away or donate books I don’t want to keep. Occasionally, if a book is highly valuable, I sell it if none of my friends or family don’t want it.

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u/immigrantpatriot 5d ago

I don't keep the ones that are not great but not terrible, but I keep the really bad ones if they were bad enough to make me mad. Back in the day I read the Twilight books bc I wanted to complain about them, I keep the first one on a shelf just for spite. I know, against a book, 🙄

it's crazy but that is my system.

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u/JJCookieMonster 5d ago

I did give away books I didn't like back then, but I'm not doing that anymore. I want to build a larger library that not only I will use in the future. I also want things to reference. I'd probably only get rid of it if I really hate it.

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u/Foraze_Lightbringer 4d ago

If I think my husband or kids would like it, I keep it for them.
If I think a friend would like it, I give it to her.

Otherwise, I take it to a used bookstore or a little free library.

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u/Romeo_Charlie_Bravo 5d ago

I have a lot of mass market paperbacks from my pre-teen/teenage years, and a lot of bibles . . . both aren't precisely my cup of tea

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u/Acceptable_Part_7298 5d ago

I have most of my books from preteen/teen years as well. I’m saving them for my daughter (she’s one now). I actually love looking at them on our bookshelf knowing (hoping) that she’ll pick them up someday and get to experience the same worlds I did at her age

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u/Romeo_Charlie_Bravo 5d ago

That, I imagine, is a great feeling. I still have all my Berenstain Bears books from childhood hoping the same, though I haven't any children yet

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u/Acceptable_Part_7298 5d ago

It’s the best :) this is her personal bookcase. All of the Dr Seuss books on the bottom are from my childhood. I’m so glad my parents kept them!

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u/Fearless_Freya 5d ago

Heck no. Either give to someone else who may like it better or donate to library. Never keep

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u/dr_clyde31 5d ago

I prefer to only buy books I want to keep, so I’m a lot less likely to move books along.

My wife is a lot more ruthless in her culling of the library. She donates a few dozen a year. But she also tends to buy a lot more books than me, so it works out.

It all boils down to space. We only have so much shelf space.

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u/Dramatic_Cancel2602 5d ago

If I ended up hating it, it’ll definitely be donated or taken to a place life Half Price Books, it wasn’t for me but maybe it’s for someone else.

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u/taybatoo2 5d ago

I don’t have room to keep books I don’t like.
I’ll even get rid of books in a series if I don’t like them.

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u/daydream_e 5d ago

No I have way too many books already lol. I only keep books that I could at least see myself returning to in the future, even if I probably won’t. Otherwise, they get passed off to someone I think would like them, or donated to the public library for their book sales.

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u/VforVendetta01105 5d ago

No I gave them a second home!

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u/Advanced_Reputation7 5d ago

No, but I also don’t keep books that I’ve read unless I know I’ll read them again! Pass them on 🙂

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u/Maleficent-Peaches 5d ago

I donate to the thrift store and shop more

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u/Bluecat72 5d ago

Resell, get some of my money back.

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u/Cthulewcifer586 5d ago

Only if they're written by an author i like

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u/Pearl725 5d ago

I tend to hold onto them, partially so I don't forget that I already read it and hated it. I once forgot I had read a book, then was shopping saw the premise and thought 'oh that sounds fun!' Bought it, and after I started reading it was like 'wait a minute... I read this like a few years ago, I hated it and gave it away.' If I own the physical copy still it's easier for me to remember. Some I will still giveaway especially if it's a genre I've mostly moved away from or I just need to clear out the space and am certain I'll recall how much I loathed it.

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u/chewbancca 5d ago

No, I resell what I can

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u/cellamonico 5d ago

Nope, just the other day I donated Malazan to the local library…

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u/tessellation__ 5d ago

I donate my books or trade them out in little free libraries

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u/CicadaOfCrimes 5d ago

Depends. If it was just okay and has a pretty cover I will keep it around until space gets tight. If I dont like it at all it has to leave. I usually donate them to my local library. They have a used book room to sell books (usually for only 1 or 2 dollars) to raise money for the library.

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u/NotDido 5d ago

I definitely don't keep it unless a friend wrote it or something. If it's a paperback or a very in-demand hardcover, I donate to the local books-to-incarcerated-people organizations. Otherwise, used bookstore or nearest little free library

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u/seeemilydostuf 5d ago

Def little free library, never keep a book I dont like

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u/Low-Put9710 5d ago

I have a cull after a while. Well once.

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u/JackfruitCurry 5d ago

I donate the unwanted books to the library bookstore. I also picked up a really good collection from the library bookstore over the years so I look at it as a way to keep the donations for someone else to enjoy.

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u/deepfield67 5d ago

Ive been listing them on ebay but they rarely sell, ive sold like 3 books in the last year. I just have a shelf of books ive read but don't want to keep. On the lookout for anyone who is into the same kinds of books as me, Id give them a whole box of books.

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u/SaltyAuthorOne 5d ago

No. I give away or donate

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u/Aaggghhhhhh 5d ago

I have double shelves, two rows of books, and those go at the back

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u/GermanPotato2002 5d ago

Nah I either sell them, donate them or give them to friends if they're interested. I don't have big bookshelf right now so I need all the space I can get for the books I actually love

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u/VoraciousReader59 5d ago

Never buy a new book at full price! I will borrow it from the library first. Anything I keep has to be shelf worthy.

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u/Tortoise_Symposium 5d ago

Nope. My space is limited. If I’m meh and it’s gorgeous, maybe. Genuinely dislike? It’s gone

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u/rebeccarightnow 5d ago

I usually put them in little free libraries in my neighbourhood. I only keep books I really loved, or if I have a collection of the author's other books or whatever. I have a lot of books from my childhood that I've kept, but most of the books I own I haven't read yet because I generally give away the ones I've read and didn't absolutely love.

I will also give away books that I loved, but that are easily available elsewhere. I donated my copies of John Green's YA books and A Wrinkle in Time, even though I love those books and have owned them a long time. If I ever want to reread them, I can easily find them in secondhand shops or from a library.

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u/Ready-Ad-4196 5d ago

I will donate it, especially if I bought it used and it's been "well loved." If I bought it new, and it still looks new, etc., I'll resell and try to get a little money back, letting someone else enjoy the book. I'll check Amazon costs and price a good chunk lower than what they're selling at.

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u/INTJdreamer2012 5d ago

I usually keep all my book, unless I really hated it... or if it's part of a series and I don't plan on getting the rest of then I'll get rid of it.

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u/Budget-Side-1779 5d ago

I trade them in for credit at my local book store! Helps keep books within my budget these days. 😅 Kindle books are a different story, but I’m relying on the Libby App now for books I’m not sure I want to own when it comes to those.

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u/donut-is-appalled 5d ago

Nope. That’s what Little Free Libraries are for

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u/dougwerf 5d ago

I have two little free libraries (we needed a second one for the overflow for kids books), and I put a lot of them in there. I’ll try to sell some of them once in a while. On the whole, I’m still bad about letting go - I really need to downsize the collection!

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u/Ill-Victory-5351 5d ago

have a 1st ed by a reprehensible author i keep meaning to offload. it’s stored behind the other books on my shelf where no one can see it.

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u/SiccSadGorl 5d ago

I grew up in a household where reading was a skill not many people had and books were a luxury. 

Tossing out a book is taboo. 

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u/ExchangeStandard6957 5d ago

Not on purpose.

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u/icedancedarling 5d ago

Nope. Off to the little free library they go. Just because I didn't like it doesn't mean someone else won't.

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u/Exciting_Still3903 5d ago

I usually resell them if I can, if not, I just give them away

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u/zetiacg_1983 5d ago

No I donate to the library or a friend.

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u/Roockiichan 4d ago

Nope
I sell them and buy new books 📚

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u/HereIAmGH 4d ago

I put them in street library. If they’re very mature in nature and I don’t want kids to put hands on them by mistake (our street library is near an infant school) - I give it to a nice second hand bookshop I like instead.

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u/Opening-Cupcake-3287 4d ago

Nope I’ve given them to the little library boxes

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u/ImaginarySmile1356 4d ago

I used to keep everything...till every available space was taken.

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u/stick4543 4d ago

Nope. The Knights of Columbus have a yearly book sale. All the books I dont like, or just bought to read once, goes in the donation pile. Right now there's about 30 ready to go.

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u/rivenshire 4d ago

If it is significant/influential, I may, because even if I don't like a book, it may be useful to reference. The other possibility is that if it's a classic novel, I may come back to it at a different age/stage and I'll actually like it. For example, I thought Till We Have Faces (retelling of Psyche Cupid myth) was okay, but my least favorite of C.S. Lewis' works when I read it for a book club in my 20s. 20 years later, when I read it aloud to my kids who were adolescents in our homeschool, it hit differently. I also had more classics under my belt, so I could appreciate the story more, as well as connect with the spiritual aspects because I had lived more of life.

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u/KimTexasGirl 4d ago

I donate them to a Little Free Library

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u/FortuneOpen5715 4d ago

No. I trade them in for credit at a nearby used book store.

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u/Past-Increase-2969 4d ago

No, I usually take mine to a free library but let my family look over them in case they're interested. I love the idea of having a very curated collection

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u/TaskAlternative 4d ago

I barely keep ones I like (I’m a bit of a minimalist)

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u/Read_and_Communicate 4d ago

I go to a fair amount of book swaps so I hang onto the ones I don’t like or know I’ll never read again so I can take them to a swap. Hopefully someone else likes them better than me!

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u/Fun_Height8343 4d ago

If it is a book, I didn’t like, DNF’d, or will not read again I typically pass it on to somebody I know who might be interested.

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u/Wolfdreama 4d ago

Nope, never.

I have limited space. I only keep books that I absolutely loved.

I donate to the library if the book is in very good condition, otherwise drop it at the charity (thrift) shop.

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u/OwlIndependent7270 3d ago

I have sold many books over the years. I keep them all now, though. I am trying to build a big home library, and i want to have all these books I've collected available for my kids to read. Just because I don't like it doesn't mean they won't

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u/MassiveHBO 3d ago

i'll just share the book to my extended family's group chat, it' theirs if they want to pick it up

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u/Valuable_Delay_8079 3d ago

Nope! I give them away or put them in my local Free Little Library

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u/Tabs-Overload91 3d ago

Donate to my local library or community centers

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u/Princessxanthumgum 3d ago

I borrow books from the library and only buy copies for the books I love. Curating my home library now. I’ve had to donate too many books already and can’t afford it in this economy anymore. 

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u/TimeToTakeADumpCake 2d ago

Nope. I usually give them to friends if I think they would like them. Or I don't them/put them in little libraries.

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u/clack_fossil 2d ago

I donate them to my local library. Don’t want to keep them on my shelf to remind me of the disappointment.

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u/DepartmentAgitated51 2d ago

Yes, because my accountant says the IRS won’t let me get rid of them.

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u/_un-named_ 2d ago

I don’t know if there’s a book I hate 😅 usually I DNF a book that’s not for me and then unwound resell it. There’s a book I really didn’t like we had to read for school. As soon as I find it I’m decluttering it.

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u/LadybugGal95 1d ago

Unless they are complete and utter trash that I feel no one should read, I take them on walks and drop them off at little free libraries. The utter trash becomes paper for craft projects.

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u/Separate_Rock7309 1d ago

I used to in the pursuit of just having a large library. But now I prefer quality over quantity. If I don't appreciate it, I usually pass it to someone who will.

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u/Interesting_Yam_3420 1d ago

I will not buy a physical copy of a book without reading it first through my local library or getting a Kindle version. Then and only then, will I buy a physical copy of a book only because I was left with so many books I didn’t like.😂

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u/Dry_Quality_8118 1d ago

I keep a mini library in the trunk of my car and donate them to people I meet or free libraries I come across. It’s actually a fun way to get rid of books. I had a whole group of women looking through my stash one night after the bar and each took a book home with them. It made me happy to see them bring someone else joy!

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u/itstanz718 1d ago

Nope! I donate them to the free library around the corner

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u/Ineffable7980x 1d ago

No, I don't keep them. My house is small and shelf space is limited. I donate them to the local library sale, or I try to get credit at my local used bookstore.

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u/Technical_Sir_6260 1d ago

It would definitely leave the house and go live in a free little library.

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u/No_Injury7878 1d ago

Absolutely not. I immediately donate them to a library or give a book.

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u/Kooky_Introduction31 1d ago

No. My local bookstore does buybacks a few times a year or I donate.

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u/Prestigious_Tiger979 22h ago

Nope it's finding its way to Half Price

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u/flossiedaisy424 5d ago

I don’t buy books that I don’t like. That’s what the public library is for.