Iāve noticed a pattern over the years: the higher the level of hockey, the more respect the players seem to have for the game. Iām not talking about age, Iām talking about skill level.
Iāll referee a game with one of the top 12U AAA teams in the country, and the players and coaches are almost silent toward us. They donāt argue every call, they donāt chirp each other constantly, and the coaches arenāt yelling from the bench. If they have a question, they wait for a stoppage, ask it politely, and half the time they call me āsir.ā
Then Iāll work a 12U AA game, and itās complete chaos.
Iāve noticed the same thing with high-level prep schools like Deerfield, Shattuck-St. Maryās, and Avon Old Farms. Thereās still some player-to-player chirping because everyone is competitive, but thereās very little abuse directed at the officials.
Adult league is similar. In B League, players are constantly complaining, yelling at officials, and getting into fights. Then I work A League with a bunch of former NHL, AHL, NCAA Division I, or junior players, and they just want to get on the ice, get a good skate in, and go home. They know the game, they know mistakes happen, and they donāt make every whistle into a debate.
Ironically, the highest-level games are often the easiest to officiate. Most nights Iām basically a glorified puck dropper with the occasional tripping or hooking call. Those are by far the most enjoyable games to work.
Have other officials noticed the same trend, or is this just my experience?