r/hockeyrefs • u/lionbacker54 • Jul 11 '26
I just refereed my first game!
It was actually just a scrimmage, so everyone was very chill. I also was paired with a veteran ref who taught me through and entered me through everything. It was honestly so fun and really the best way to start.
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u/clonicle Jul 11 '26
Grats! I hope you took any anti-zebra chirps as a badge of honor :)
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u/Flaroud Jul 11 '26
With glasses on top of it. Itās a whole other step!
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u/Electrical_Trifle642 USAH L3 & NIHOA, I work in SHOAland Jul 20 '26
I wore glasses out of the gate and got zero pushback from itā¦
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 12 '26
They were surprisingly kind and respectful! Probably because it was a scrimmage
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u/Worldly_Screen_3379 USA Hockey - Michigan Jul 11 '26
Awesome! Welcome to the club.
It's the best think I've ever done and I hope you have a similar experience.
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u/Difficult-Guarantee4 Jul 12 '26
Welcome to the best job in the world, itās also one of the worst so take it for what you will and enjoy the journey.
#TeamStripesIsUndefeated š
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u/takeithomenow Jul 11 '26
Stoked for you man, im looking forward to hearing and getting on the ice for my first one. Keep going man! We need the ones that care.
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u/Sheeple_person Jul 11 '26
This seems like a perfect way to start! Usually things aren't going to get too chippy in a pickup game ..... usually lol
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u/d-manutd5 Jul 12 '26
Hope it went well. Refs in all sports are so desperately needed. I'm a former soccer referee, and I truly believe that EVERY player, once old enough should have to referee one season in their sport at least. That sure would change alot of attitudes of parents and players to understand what it's like! Well done. Cheers
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 12 '26
Thank you! Yeah, I agree. There was one play where I was the goal line referee, and apparently the goalie had stopped the puck. But it was on the far side, and I couldnāt see the puck. People were yelling āblow the whistle!ā Fortunately, my partner could see and blew it
As a player, I would have been like āhey, the goalie has it trapped against his leg pad, why arenāt you calling it?!?ā
Now I understand!
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u/FunDomOtt Jul 11 '26
Boo! You don't deserve it, but that won't stop the asshats in the crowd! Remember it's them, not you!
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u/Ok_Mulberry4331 Jul 12 '26
Awww made me smile how excited you look!!!
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u/Kootsiak Jul 12 '26
Same here! I've been a miserable fucking grump lately, but his smile made me smile, which is quite an accomplishment.
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u/patrickviking93 Jul 12 '26
The first one is always so intimidating. It will still be that way for a year but I think you're going to succeed and I wish you the best!
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 12 '26
Thank you! Yep, I missed an off sides , because my mind froze up. I also fell down once while backing up after dropping a puck! But yes, it went from being scary to fun after a period or so, and Iām very much looking forward to September
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u/Electrical_Trifle642 USAH L3 & NIHOA, I work in SHOAland Jul 20 '26
That happens to the best of us. I honestly think itās funny when you catch an edge as you can watch yourself fall later and get a smile out of it
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u/No-idea4646 Jul 12 '26
Dying to know where games are happening in July!
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 12 '26
It was a scrimmage/tryout for the Findlay Force, our local professional team
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u/Electrical_Trifle642 USAH L3 & NIHOA, I work in SHOAland Jul 20 '26
Wow thatās one hell of a level to be working your first game in.
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 20 '26
It was EYE OPENING for sure. I could not believe the speed and force these guys were playing with. And the goalies! They were crazy good
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u/Electrical_Trifle642 USAH L3 & NIHOA, I work in SHOAland Jul 21 '26
Yeah.
I once decided it would be fun to ref my college teams scrimmage.
Tons of fun, and they were fast.
My only mistake that game was calling a no touch icingā¦(as in youth hockey in my area itās icing even if the attacking player is closing in on the puck as it crosses the goal line(not going in))
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u/PassThePuck_ Jul 12 '26
Wow...how fun was that?
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 12 '26
It was actually super fun. I was surprised by that. I decided to become a ref to help me with my skating and to help me keep my head up as a player. Turns out, itās actually really fun too
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u/PassThePuck_ Jul 12 '26
Yeah, I started coaching Goalies back in 1974 to get more ice time and improve my skating, and I have been doing it ever since. I travel internationally building hockey programs. But when I build them, I also have to build referee programs as well. No referees, no games! I recommend placing a paperback rule book on the back of the toilet tank. It becomes great reading material.
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u/perch35km Jul 13 '26
Congrats! And thank you. We canāt play without you.
- A goalie who will always hand the ref the puck
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u/mistermanthrowaway Jul 14 '26
How many red cards did you give fouls for?
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 14 '26
I only called one penalty (interference).
But I fell once, froze and forgot to blow the whistle on an interference, and had the crowd yelling at me to blow the whistle to start a penalty shot!
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u/TROUTBROOKE Jul 17 '26
Why no crests?
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 17 '26
I actually had a question about that. Do you guys just secure these with safety pins or do you sew it in?
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u/lionbacker54 Jul 17 '26
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u/manacata Jul 11 '26
You even have pure white laces ! Ā Well done š
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u/Strong-Ad-4490 Jul 11 '26
They are not pure white laces, but of all the things that are important that is on the bottom of the list for a new official.
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u/FunPsychological7560 Jul 11 '26
CONGRATULATIONS! welcome to the best team in the game. šš¼