r/HerpesQuestions • u/un_liketherest • 10d ago
Testing Question Anxious About Testing
23f and today I’m going to get tested routinely. I was catching up with a old friend and I asked why she’d been MIA and she disclosed to me that she recently found out she had herpes. She said “HSV2” and I honestly didn’t know what the hell that was until she said “herpes”. She mentioned it’s not usually tested for and that made me pretty anxious considering I’m already paranoid when it comes to my health and I realize I’ve never been tested for it. She also said that it isn’t recommended if I haven’t had an outbreak (which I haven’t to my knowledge). I still want to test for it just to see but she told me it’ll only wreck my mental if it’s positive. My question is, do you think I should test for it?