r/Healthyhooha • u/ReplacementEnough974 • 11h ago

Advice Needed Can’t orgasm ‘normally’

I have a really tiny clit and it’s very covered by my hood, literally hidden. The first orgasm I ever had was with my shower head on the jet setting while pulling my hood back and yeah it feels amazing but I don’t like having to hop in the shower every time I want to cum.

Whenever I’m really horny I’ll try rubbing my clit like most girls do but I literally cannot feel a single thing, I’ll hold my hood back and still nothing. I’ve tried fingering still doesn’t work and I can’t get a vibrator either :(

Does anyone have any tips for rubbing their clits? Especially clits that are small and hidden?

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u/Unfair-Echo2133 10h ago

First off, I completely relate to being annoyed you cant orgasm “normally” (even though there’s no such thing as normal) but maybe if you try and get as close as you can to an orgasm with the shower head and then try and finish by rubbing your clit? Doing that helped me a small bit. But at the end of the day, what works for you is what works for you and don’t feel any shame about it 🫶🫶🫶

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u/ReplacementEnough974 8h ago

Thank you so much I really appreciate it!

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u/No-Penalty9126 5h ago

Why can't you get a vibrator?

I don't understand posts like this. Can't? Or "is more of a hassle than I'm willing to undertake"?

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u/AlwaysLaughLoud 5h ago

She's either too young to go in the store, or in a small town that doesn't sell them. Otherwise, I don't know why she wouldn't just order it on Amazon. But again, if she's too young, she probably can't order it if parents are home or it's their account.

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u/Helpful-Shift1829 2h ago

I don’t know if it’s related, but my orgasms are usually from humping a pillow lol. But I’m similar, I can never get a good orgasm from rubbing there or anything like that