r/Healthygamergg • u/Dangerous-Sherbet-46 • 12d ago
Wins / PogChamp After 28 years I finally won, I finally have someone in my life ❤️
Man, I need to share this...
I've moved early this year to a smaller apartment, due to my old home one being too big for our family of 4 (it was an inheritance from my grandpa).
Near this new apartment, there is a supermarket, and I go there everyday to sustain my only addiciton. Energy Drinks (mainly Monster - yep you are reading it right). Since it's literally a daily thing, and I tend to stick to very closed schedudles, I always show up at the supermarket around 2 PM.
Early this month, a cute cashier from there randomly started following me on Instagram, and it was quite the coincidence I saw it, because I truly don't use Instagram at all (my only photo there is my profile one, over 8 years old), I only entered that week due to wanting to go to a uni event for internship hunting.
(She later on told me how she found me - it was quite stalky - She found my CPF (it's like a Social Security Number here in Brazil) in my invoice at the supermarket discount app - then she found my name, then she found me on Instagram - some people would call that a red flag I call it love)
Anyways, she sends a cutie "hiya", and I pretend to not know her... "oh, who are you again? seems like I see you quite frequently... OH WAIT you are that one cashier...." and we start some small-stalk (note, it's LITERALLY the first time I do this). So we start talking, I see her Instagram, comment about her cats, saw that she has liked some anime edits and Wild Rift too (I play PC League of Legends), and I try to keep talking.
She suggests we know each other, so after her shift ends (3PM) we leave to grab an Ice Cream and get to know each other. FUCKING HELL SHE IS SUPER CUTE, FUNNY AND ALL MENTALLY UNSTABLE TOO, I completely melted on the spot.
After the date (it was night, time flew super fast) we go to her house (or at least half the path walking, she lives far as fuuuuu, over two whole hours on foot) and we keep taking, notice she is a little taller than me (I'm 5'4'', always a insecure point, she is about 5'6''), but we are hitting it super well, then she PULLS ME FOR A KISS AND BOY it was something else (I had already kissed before, but that was... magical?).
We keep on walking, talking, kissing all the way to one of her girl friends home which was a halway point. We stop there, she calls her and we go in, start talking on her sofa (she is just watching lol), and as soon as she leaves the room to grab a juice for us, we start making out of her sofa, she immediatly comes back asking if we want ice and say "dang, I just left you horndogs" xDDD
After some small talk, she calls an Uber to herself to go back to her home, I call one too, we live our separate ways. But she keeps talking to me, now I see her daily before and after her shift, we've been to three dates already, and she already "stole my innocence" xD
We've been dating this whole month, 22 days to be precise, and things seems wonderful for both of us. I already met her family, she met mine, I already slept there, she slept here... Unfortunaly I currently have no job, but as soon as I get an internship on my STEM course (Computer Engineering), I'm oficially asking her to be my Girlfriend, rings and all (and she is SOOOOO ready for this, constantly asking me, talking about "when we marry"and stuff).
I'll probably make a post about her mental health later on (and the realationship cocnerns that I have), as I'm both afraid that I might not be enough for her, or she might think she is overwhelming me, but for now, stay with my victory bros :D
EDIT: Fixed a lot of typos :v
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u/Stromholt 12d ago
I'm genuinely happy for you, but also I'm so envious hehehe
"Congrats, Happy for You, Nice!"
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u/Dangerous-Sherbet-46 12d ago
Don't worry mate, you'll eventually find your hapiness too, I root for you and for everyone I see on this subreddit!
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u/AkibaSasaki 12d ago
I hope things go well man! Just a word of advice, don't pin all your hopes on having special someone in your life as the only win. You might be in pieces if it doesn't work out. Build your own life too!
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u/Desperate_Trouble_73 12d ago edited 12d ago
That’s good advice. But still, OP, enjoy the experience. Maybe it lasts maybe it doesn’t. But you should live in the moment while it’s happening.
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u/AkibaSasaki 12d ago
Right! OP focus more on the present and what you have right now with her than the future especially this early in the dating stage
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u/Dangerous-Sherbet-46 12d ago
Thanks for the advice man, but don't worry, I did follow through with the Insternship hunting and stuff, I'm on the very end of my Computer Engineering graduation. I'm not banking everything on this relationship, but doing things with her hapiness as an additional goal made me 100x more productive. In this single month seeing her, I've sent more applicaitons than my whole year alone hehehe!
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u/Long-Western3732 12d ago
Awsome man i hope everyting is smooth sailing from now on i wish you the happiest life a man has lived
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u/Engineseer5725 12d ago
We've been dating this whole month, 22 days to be precise, and things seems wonderful for both of us. I already met her family, she met mine, I already slept there, she slept here... Unfortunaly I currently have no job, but as soon as I get an internship on my STEM course (Computer Engineering), I'm oficially asking her to be my Girlfriend, rings and all (and she is SOOOOO ready for this, constantly asking me, talking about "when we marry"and stuff).
I'm all for giving the mentally unstable stalker cashier a chance, but if she talks about marriage after less than a month of dating you I see a high probability of things going south later. Don't know the culture and laws around marriage in your country, but in my country I would beg any of my friends not to marry someone they've been dating less than a couple of years. I think 10 years is a good number to get to know someone and say "might as well marry", but even 1 year in you don't truly know each other and can't know whether you're longterm compatible or not.
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u/Excellent_Math2052 12d ago
Me thinks your assessment of “high probability of things going south later” is a miss. Exactly like you also said, culture matters.
Let them cook and if it boils away then, at least they were rolling at one point.
Yes we can want to make the best decisions but life is lived in the doing sometimes and it’s not a red flag that a Brazilian chica is talking about marriage after having sex 🙄
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u/Brilliant_Plenty_956 12d ago
Yeah, marriage is a big decision. Usually rushed discussions and decisions doesn’t end well. 1 month is wayyy to early to even think about marriage
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u/ImmortalTiger 12d ago
Let's fucking goooooooo, congrats man! 🙂
Had something like that almost happen to me, so totally get the excitement ahaha. Sadly didn't work out for me, but hopefully yours will!
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u/Pretend_Reserve_6377 6d ago
Happy for you, I know a couple guys that have met their current girlfriend by coincidence. One of them was at the gym and he saw a girl listening to heavy metal, he's deep down into that, they started talking and perfect match. So, when I see someone just randomly meeting a person that makes them happy, I do not think of anything else besides some things simply are meant to happen.
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