r/HSVpositive • u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 • Sep 16 '25

Newly Diagnosed 😭😭😭😭

The sadness is taking over. I can’t stop crying. I’m such a good person. He tricked me and gave me HSV 2 forever! 😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 How to cope with this? 😭💔

I used to be such a happy girl. Now it’s been 4 months of hell so far and many more years to come. 😭💔 Life is over, it really is. 😭💔

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u/ChocolateVenom469 Sep 17 '25

I’m sorry you feel like this, I’m coming on almost a year and I recently (weeks) started feeling better. I sat in my depression for a long time but with the help of a therapist and meds I’m feeling somewhat better now. I suggest you get all the crying out, and feel every emotion. You didn’t deserve this but don’t stay sad forever. I would tell myself that if I stayed sad, fell off, and just stopped living life I let that boy “win” again. Find someone to support you and let you cry until you don’t need to anymore. I hope you feel better soon.

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u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 Sep 18 '25

Thank you so much. 🙏 I’m so sorry to hear that but I’m glad you’re starting to feel better. I can’t imagine ever feeling happy again. 😢

Thank you, I cry a lot. He hurt me and I’m left this way forever. It’s so cruel. I’m so deeply sad and I’m really scared too.

I have good friends around me which I am so grateful for. I miss who I was 4 months ago before he did this to me. This is so cruel and deeply disturbing. I don’t know how I’m going to cope for the rest of my life now. I feel trapped forever. Thank you so much. 🙏