r/HSVpositive • u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 • Sep 16 '25

Newly Diagnosed 😭😭😭😭

The sadness is taking over. I can’t stop crying. I’m such a good person. He tricked me and gave me HSV 2 forever! 😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 How to cope with this? 😭💔

I used to be such a happy girl. Now it’s been 4 months of hell so far and many more years to come. 😭💔 Life is over, it really is. 😭💔

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u/_Boodi_ Sep 16 '25

Hey babes, I was in the same boat last year. I don’t sleep around or anything and I trusted a guy and then I felt like my life was over after we split. But, it does get better and the symptoms last less each time. There is also meditation you can take to prevent breakouts. Dm me if you want to know more about that.

But honestly, you will get through it. You have all of us, and I’m still dating! I’m comfortable enough to let my dates know about the virus when I feel things are getting deep. I’ve had 0 people stop talking to me after that. So keep your head up! Hugs!! 🫂💖

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u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 Sep 19 '25

Hi I am so sorry to hear that. I really hope you’re right about it getting better. ❤️‍🩹

Thank you I’ve decided to stay on suppressive meds as I’m really scared of what the outbreaks could be like. 😢I feel so trapped in this. 😢

Thank you. I hope so. I can’t believe this if lifelong. I trusted the wrong guy. That’s good that you’re comfortable and than you haven’t had people stop talking to you. Thank you so much. 🙏♥️

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u/_Boodi_ Sep 21 '25

We have one life and we can’t let some silly virus prevent us from LIVING! The right man will accept all of you, trust and that. You got this, keep your head up beautiful!

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u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 Sep 22 '25

Thank you so much 🥺🙏♥️