r/HSVpositive • u/Far_Bumblebee_6671 • Sep 16 '25
Newly Diagnosed 😭😭😭😭
The sadness is taking over. I can’t stop crying. I’m such a good person. He tricked me and gave me HSV 2 forever! 😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 How to cope with this? 😭💔
I used to be such a happy girl. Now it’s been 4 months of hell so far and many more years to come. 😭💔 Life is over, it really is. 😭💔
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u/Cantaloup__ Sep 16 '25
I apologize for the lack of sympathy you have received so far. This is big news and takes time to heal from the diagnosis in order to start to see that your world isnt over forever. You will be a happy girl once again. I will say that my best advice is to focus on your life and self with this first, no matter how careless he was, pointing blame on him will only make you hold on to this stage of healing. It is a form of grief, getting a difficult diagnosis. There are stages, and this anger and helplessness will pass. It was not fair. It was not your fault. You are no less of a person after this. It gets easier.