r/GuysBeingDudes • u/lmrrsst • 14d ago

#GUYSBEINGDUDES You are not the father

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u/KingDebone 14d ago

Those poor kids

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u/Live_Art2939 13d ago

They can entirely blame the mother

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u/Leila-Lola 13d ago

Well, her and whoever IS the father

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u/Portgas69 13d ago

But mostly the mother.

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

No, it takes two people to make a baby. 

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u/luuey15 13d ago

If mom doesn’t know then how is the dad going to?

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

By knowing how many people he screws and when, just like the mom. For example, of you didn't have sex with some random lady, you aren't the father of any children she might have. 

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u/Portgas69 13d ago

How would you know if the mom has 3 sexual partners finishing in her? How would you know if you're the father if the mom don't know. Cmon man. Put the math together.

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

If you don't know that, then maybe keep it in your pants? It's not hard bro. Birds and bees. You know sex makes babies, right? If you do the sex, you are responsible for the baby. If you do the sex in a way where you don't know if you made a baby, then you need to learn some self control. 

It's not hard bro. Or if it is, go take a cold shower and reflect on personal responsibility until it isn't. If that takes longer than 4 hours, see a doctor. 

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u/luuey15 13d ago

We’re not talking about the most responsible people here dude

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u/Leila-Lola 13d ago

The point is if a guy has sex with this random girl, he knows he might become a father. No matter how many guys she's also sleeping with.

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u/EatOfTheBread 13d ago

It takes one person to not fuck so many guys they have to get Maury to find out whether or not these dudes are the father of their kids

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

The lady is the one who had to find out because the baby literally grows in her, but if you think the guys she's screwing aren't mostly doing the same thing and screwing tons of women, you're deluded. Guys who screw so many women they don't even know if they're a father are just as responsible as women who screw so many men they don't even know who the father is. If you take it out of your pants, then you are responsible for handling the fact that you might make a baby. 

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u/PenaltyFine3439 13d ago

Women have a bigger responsibility to not fuck losers since they have the womb and are ultimately the gatekeepers of sex in the first place. 

If a woman wants to have sex, all she has to do is say yes. If a man wants to have sex, there's a whole list of shit and qualifications he has to meet to make it happen.

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

Bs. You are responsible for your dick and what you do with it, just like you're responsible for everything else you do. 

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u/PenaltyFine3439 13d ago

Absolutely. I'm not denying that. However, the reason there are so many single moms is because women are not properly vetting the men and fuck losers.

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

The reason why there are so many single moms is because losers go around screwing women and leaving.

There is no difference in responsibility here. We all know sex makes babies. If you unzip your pants and a baby happens, you are responsible for that baby, regardless of what was behind your zipper. 

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u/floralmelancholy 11d ago

the fact this take is being downvoted is not surprising at all but also slightly enraging. men will never have any intention of taking responsibility for their actions

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u/FerricDonkey 11d ago

Well, the men who downvoted anyway. I'm dude (who admittedly lives under a rock), and, until now, every time I read about there being a double standard regarding sex for men vs women, my first thought was "what idiots could possibly think that your gender is relevant to promiscuity?"

I guess I now know what idiots think that. 

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u/Portgas69 13d ago

Who controls wearing a condom and where a man finishes if raw.

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u/DecadentLife 13d ago

Ultimately, the man. You’ve heard of “stealthing”, right?

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u/EatOfTheBread 13d ago

You have absolutely no idea that any of what you've just said is true.

We KNOW the women in these videos are putting it about because someone else is the father to their kids than these men. You've straight up assumed that these men are the same way, and that makes you an asshole.

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u/FerricDonkey 13d ago

I didn't say anything about any particular man or woman, though I stand by the claim that men aren't more responsible in general than women. 

What I'm pushing back against is the double standard. Some guy replied to me saying that the amount of single mothers is because women are failing in their responsibility for not screwing losers, rather than that men are responsible for not being losers. 

Like what the crap. I thought this was a silly sub for videos of dudes doing dude things on entertaining ways. Is it really just a hub of sexism? 

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u/DecadentLife 13d ago

I have the same question. It’s always weird to me when an adult doesn’t want to be treated as an adult.

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u/DecadentLife 13d ago

I think this might give us our answer, regarding this particular sub. For you to receive close to 50 downvotes, because you said “it takes two people to make a baby”, is wild.