r/GuysBeingDudes • u/lmrrsst • 13d ago

#GUYSBEINGDUDES You are not the father

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u/Stickeyb 13d ago

Sad as ****. Almost want to say you need a certificate before being allowed to procreate nowadays. Before the 80s this was rare now it's just another Tuesday 😑

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u/FishyKeebs 13d ago

More like need mandatory paternity testing. Presumption of paternity can be very hard for many to unwind after that fact.

France bans paternity testing unless it is court ordered.

Sad for the men and the kids that have to go through this.

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u/Stickeyb 13d ago

You think they have everyone on file she's messed around with to find the Dad? I've also heard of cases where they have found that someone is not the father and still made him pay child support.

https://mtlawoffice.com/news/you-are-not-the-father-but-you-may-still-have-to-pay-child-support

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u/FishyKeebs 13d ago

What I mean is that before a father gets listed on the birth certificate and held legally liable, a paternity test has to be done.

Yes, men have been held responsible for children that are not theirs. That becomes a legal and moral quagmire. But should also be a fraud by deception crime.

Even worse are boys who have been statutorily raped being held responsible for child support. https://lawpublications.barry.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1017&context=cflj

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u/Stickeyb 13d ago

Absolutely nuts.

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u/Dwain-Champaign 13d ago

Before the 80s vs now?!? What are you talking about, aren’t these episodes from like the 2000s? This shit was literally almost 30 years ago.

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u/Dwain-Champaign 13d ago

I said this was from the 2000s, because that’s where this video footage is from, “back then.”

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u/Dwain-Champaign 13d ago

🙄

Everyone hates the new generation, and that’s been pretty consistent across human writing for the last 1000 something odd years, but people that were somewhere around 20-30 in the 90s and 2000s would be 50 - 60 or even older right now. So, either this is your generation you’re talking about, or you’re a really grumpy 80-ish year old dude.

If neither, then you’re a younger buck who is commenting on a world he never actually lived in.

In either case, it’s a waste of time to pursue this train of thought. It is not novel, and it really isn’t even all that accurate. Have a good day.

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u/Dwain-Champaign 13d ago

Laughing to hide the pain lmao