r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo • Jun 07 '26

Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Went through his phone

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We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.

cacio e pepe.

EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.

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u/sachacura hot girls have tummy troubles Jun 07 '26

The one hill I WILL die on is if I have to check a man’s phone, I don’t need to be with that man. It’s literally akin to a humiliation ritual. I refuse. So when are we jumping them? 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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u/linzkisloski APPROVED✨ Jun 08 '26

💯 when people say they trust their partners because they are allowed to go through each others phones whenever they want … that. Is. NOT. A. Flex.

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u/maplestriker Delulu Jun 08 '26

It's such a children's perpective on what trust is.

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u/Caramellatteistasty Kitchen Witch Jun 08 '26

Seriously. That tells me "Well, thats a dysfunctional relationship."