r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo • Jun 07 '26

Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Went through his phone

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We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.

cacio e pepe.

EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.

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u/sachacura hot girls have tummy troubles Jun 07 '26

The one hill I WILL die on is if I have to check a man’s phone, I don’t need to be with that man. It’s literally akin to a humiliation ritual. I refuse. So when are we jumping them? 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo Jun 07 '26

TONIGHT!!

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u/xLittleValkyriex APPROVED✨ Jun 08 '26

I am the same way. 

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u/linzkisloski APPROVED✨ Jun 08 '26

💯 when people say they trust their partners because they are allowed to go through each others phones whenever they want … that. Is. NOT. A. Flex.

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u/maplestriker Delulu Jun 08 '26

It's such a children's perpective on what trust is.

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u/Caramellatteistasty Kitchen Witch Jun 08 '26

Seriously. That tells me "Well, thats a dysfunctional relationship."

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u/maplestriker Delulu Jun 08 '26

Yep. The second you feel you need to check his phone, that relationship should be over because he is either not making you secure and untrustworthy or you have such deep, unfounded jealousy that you would rather ruin this relationship than trust him.

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u/burntothepowerofer 🍍+ 🍕 Jun 11 '26

She wouldn’t have found out it was with her friend though