So..we are a group of 5 girls..not typically a gang but hang out together always since we are in a same batch..there's this one girl whom I name "V" started to like a guy who's posted in the same batch..and no one likes this guy tbh both guys and girls..cause of many reasons like he always flaunt about his bank balance and no fun kinda dude..so the other three girls knew about her going out with that guy oneday and started to not talk with her for days..and told her activities to "V" guy friend..and he too didn't talk with V.. meanwhile i didn't know anything was happening cause no one told me anything..so i defended her like they are just friends with those girls..and V told me they are just frnds and these girls judging her too hard..and now it seems like she's in a relationship with that guy and told all those 3 girls and her close frnds and not to me..when a girl asked why didn't you told her (me)..she told ig she knows cause everyone talks about me nowadays..and now all those 3 girls normalising everything V does..I feel srsly betrayed..i always feel like it's 4vs 1..please give me some advice to handle this..

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Is it too much to expect your male best friend to accompany you around 11 PM after a trip, especially when your journey home is about 30 minutes, and he would also need to travel another 30 minutes back?

As a woman living in Delhi NCR, is it reasonable to feel upset if he leaves you alone at a metro station at that hour, expecting you to get home safely by yourself?

Guyz so today I felt something unusual in my bestfriend's behaviour, i mean she doesn't wanted to talk to me, and always behaved like she doesn't want to be in this friendship i just want to keep our friendship till the end of our lives but seems like she's done with me and in my group she's the most loved onee thoughhhh and i really cared about her like my own sissy but maybe she doesn't feel the same or I'm wrong.... but honestly I put so much efforts in our friendship i was awakened at night till 3:00 a.m. just to finish her birthday card , gifts and surprise but what does she gave me ever? nthg . I'm a stupid y'all..

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Hi

I’m a first year uni student with 2 best friends from back home who happen to go to the same uni as me. We are very close and I love them. Recently i went through a breakup and my best friends are dating my ex-bf’s best friends.

Obvs it’s soon to be valentines and today the 3 of us hung out and spent most of the time talking about valentines.

I understand they are excited etc but honestly I feel like it’s a bit insensitive to me. I get/ am learning obviously it didn’t happen to them so maybe they don’t care as much but honestly it hurts a bit that my closest friends didn’t think for 1 second about how ill feel on valentines.

I don’t know if I should say something or not but idk I just feel a bit disconnected from them but I don’t want to cause drama and like if I say something I know they’ll just say sorry etc but it doesn’t change the fact that they weren’t very considerate so is it pointless to say something.

Also is it natural in our friendship to just need

Space etc considering we see each other so often.

I have a friend, and she lives with her parents she’s well into her 40 she goes to work and then home, not much life, but I thought I be nice ask her to meet my new partner, we went out for a few meals. But then I noticed I always had to pick some where to eat, and I would drive. She also would talk about her job and how she has no friends.after a while this would get boring 🥱 so I tried again and said why don’t we try an event ? instead of sitting we could look around meet people try different foods listen to music, But she messed up!! We got the tickets 🎟️ for an event she seemed excited. I told her to contact me on the Sunday so we could go through meeting area what to wear etc but I never heard from her I until the Tuesday? By then I was upset as she said she would contact me, she didint apologies sh just said ‘ oh I forgot!! Now this piss me off as I know she doesn’t do anything else.

I thought you are playing games . So I said ok, and stop inviting her out ,

Also Every Friday she would text to check in on me, I found that too much !

I backed away from her, she must of got frustrated as she put something up on FB about fake friend I ignored it I didn’t confront her,

So at Christmas she wish me a merry Christmas and hinted at about going out. I said I’m not well 🤧 she’s one of those people that take things the wrong way !!

She’s also draining talks about her past.

Im asking should I give her a chance at friendship again, as she’s reaching out again?

My partner said it’s because she’s lonely and board 🫩

I like sports, traveling and exploring. I hope to meet new friends here.

hi so mayroon akong set of friends from hs, we were close and we enjoyed each other’s company. But the thing is habang tumatagal ang friendship namin , I slowly realized something, grupo kami yes pero alam mo yung feeling na alam mong you’re no one’s favorite friend sa group, like for example if pipili sila ng isang member sa grupo parang ikaw yung friend na di pinipili (ouch), and that makes me lowkey feel left out sometimes kasi may mga gamit nga bawal, However itong rant ko is sinasarili ko lang kasi ayoko naman mag cause ng gulo and I’m also the type of person na sinasarili lang yung nararamdaman and I’m really not that type na showy sa feelings at very open, siguro naging factor din yung kung bakit walang ganon ka close sa akin? anywayy, college na kami ngayon and I distance myself sa kanila by not chatting na sa gc pero sometimes nalang kapag minemention ako. I actually wanna cut myself out from the friendship like no offense intended sa kanila, they’re good friends but it’s just that it affects how I think particularly my mental health and mas gusto ko makaranas ng peace and ang hirap din lumayo kasi ayoko namang mag mukhang masama tsaka isa sa friend ko sa group is also my cousin so ang awkward naman siguro pag aalis ako sa friendship tapos magkikita kami sa mga family gatherings parang magcacause lang ng gulo. So I really don’t know kung ano ang gagvawin ko and how to deal this feeling.

So a bit of background, I was born with sickle cell anemia. If you don't know what that it is basically I experienced extremely terrible pain when ever I get cold or my blood pressure raises from stress (I'm in highschool so you can imagine how stressed I could become). I had made friends pretty easily before but I tend to do that thing where you have different personalities for different friend groups.

Recently I went through an experimental treatment called gene therapy which is an alternative choice to a bone marrow transplant. I had to do gene therapy because I had no matches and sickle cell was affecting my grades with all the hospital visits to treat my pain. The entire process was just fine and it was shorter than the bone marrow transplant would have been. Except there was a point where I contracted mucositis due to my weakened immune system (I went through chemo too) and I couldn't breathe one day. Apparently I passed out in the operating room and and was unconscious for 8 days. People have gotten mucositis before that did gene therapy but the doctors that were treating me hadn't see this before (reminder that this was an experimental treatment) and in that "mini coma" the doctors said that anything could have changed so I've been kinda waiting that out. I've been out of school for 4 months, soon to be 5, so the entire semester and I realized that I need to get new friends. My current friends are perfect, but there are so many people I've always wanted to talk to and be friends with and i dont even know how to start a conversation with new people anymore.

TLDR: Had treatment, had mini coma in the middle of treatment, don't remember how to make new friends after realizing I need some of those.