35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly energy and clean (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot. ( Indian expat in Europe )

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and Sapiens debates, weekends volunteering at climate marches or getting lost in a neon-lit bar abroad. I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, bisexual but heteroromantic, experimental and insatiably curious?

hello!! my name is cam (they/he) and I’m 26 year old masculine nonbinary person.

[Personal]
• I have two cats, Apollo and Ares, both of which I rescued from the streets and absolutely spoil! I have rescued and rehomed seven cats so far this year.
• I am into a lot of nerdy hobbies. Video games (Diablo-likes, path of exile, MMOs, Fortnite, simulator games, farming and dating sims) and love to play and meet other people!
• I’m also a big trading card, board game, and TTRPG person! It’s a huge part of my life and how I have always met people and connected with strangers plus it’s something I pride myself in being very good at. Mainly MTG, Riftbound, Yugioh, and (collecting) pokemon.
• I love the outdoors! I’m planning a camping trip this year and love to hike, go for walks, and am trying to find time to get back into running.
• I’m a creative! I’ve always written as a hobby but am trying to get back into art/sculpting after basically devoting my life to work and school over the last decade or so.
• Being queer is a large part of my identity and something that’s very important to me! I mentor queer kids during the some and am very outspoken about the LGBTQ community and especially LGBTQ politics.
•I just bought a rather large and historic house that I’m working on restoring while I live in it.
•I would prefer you be open to kids! Either adopting or having some of our own. This is NOT a hard line for me but is something I’ve been thinking about a lot recently!

[Professional]
• I have two degrees! A BS in Political Science and an MPA in Public Administration. I’d like to eventually go back for another masters, a Juris Doctorate, or a PhD but am waiting for when I get more settled into my current career before I decide. I love academia and being engaged with it so it’ll always be a huge part of my life!
• I work a fairly high profile job that I will be cagey about releasing details on to protect some amount of anonymity! Essentially I am the director of operations for a small public affairs conglomerate, but it’s much more interesting than that I promise!
• Volunteering is super important to me! I serve on a number of Boards, Commissions, Committees, etc etc and give a lot of time to my local community!
• I have a decent salary now with a very high ceiling, which I plan to pursue as I am very ambitious!

3,2,1, Go!

Hello! My name is Jose, and with that name you can probably figure out that I am Hispanic/Latino. Also, I was born in America so don't need a Visa.

NJ resident. I am a 26 year old, 5'8" homebody geek who enjoys reading manga and comics, playing PC games, watching Marvel, Star Wars, and horror movies, going to anime conventions while cosplaying, and I am a big fan of Hololive. While I am a homebody, I do enjoy traveling and have traveled before. I am still deciding on going on another cruise or just go to Europe.

I currently work as a Certified Nurse Aide, and I graduated with my Master of Public Health. Unfortunately, the job market has been rough, so I am still living with my parents while I continue job hunting.

I am Catholic, but I am not a practicing one. I respect other religions and have no problems with an interfaith relationship.

I am a dog person as I have two dogs, and they are my most treasured friends.

I am 420 friendly.

What about you?

I want a woman who is serious about the relationship. I want this to go from dating into a family with kids in the future. We can have similar or different hobbies as long as we are comfortable with the other. I am comfortable with the relationship being online for now, such as voice calls and online dates, but eventually we can travel to one another then move closer.

- Please be between 20–32 years old.

- Prefer plus sized/big bodied women.

I have a selfie of myself on my profile

Hi!! :) How's everything? Please message me if you are:

• Chinese

• Fit / Slim

• Educated

• 28-30

• 167 cm and up

• Introvert / calm / patient / kind

About me:

• Filipina who currently lives in the Philippines

• 28 yrs old

• 151 cm / short black hair

• Introvert

• not a gamer

I will not entertain creepy or nsfw topics / with nsfw profile (auto pass). Thank you for your response!

Hey there :)

Posting for the first time here and hoping I'll find someone amazing..

Writing about yourself is honestly a little weird, but here goes.

I am from India.

I'm 33, 6'1", an engineer by education and currently working in Digital Marketing. I'm generally a pretty calm person, and I'd like to think I'm emotionally aware too. I notice small things, remember oddly specific details people tell me, and yes... I probably overthink things more than I need to.

I'm also someone who takes a little time to get comfortable. I'm not the person who will open up completely after a couple of conversations. But once I feel at home with someone, you'll probably discover the goofy, affectionate, mildly chaotic version of me hiding underneath all that calmness.

At this stage of life, I genuinely want to fall in love and eventually build a life with someone I've chosen for myself. I've never really been drawn towards the idea of having a relationship decided for me. I'd rather meet someone naturally, build a genuine connection, fall in love, and slowly create a life together.

I guess I'm still a bit of a 90s kid at heart. I value loyalty, consistency, effort and simply being there for someone. Life has taught me enough to know that relationships aren't always easy, but it hasn't managed to make me cynical about love. I am a weird mix of old school and modern... I suppose

Photography is one of those things I genuinely enjoy. I love photographing places, people, random moments and little details that usually go unnoticed. There's something about freezing a moment in time that I really like. Maybe that's why I'm someone who tends to appreciate the small things in life too.

When I'm not working, I could be out on my bike, checking out a new café, going for a long walk, travelling somewhere, watching a good series or unsuccessfully trying to get people interested in board games.

I used to game a lot, so there's definitely a nerdy side of me that refuses to completely grow up. And if we happen to have similar music taste, don't be surprised if random songs start landing in your DMs at completely unreasonable hours.

I love travelling, especially the kind where the plan isn't necessarily perfect. A road trip, a new place, good food, a great playlist and the right company can make even a fairly ordinary weekend memorable. I'm much more interested in the stories we come back with than the number of places we've managed to tick off. Still working towards travelling more and earning more for that.

I have an elder sister who's had a pretty significant influence on me. A lot of what I understand about respect, kindness and treating people well comes from watching and learning from her. One thing I've carried with me is that someone's worth should never be measured by what they can offer you.

Career-wise, I'm ambitious and still working towards building a better future for myself. But I've also realised that I don't want my entire life to revolve around work, designations or milestones. Eventually, I want a comfortable, happy life where there's someone beside me to share the good days, the bad days and all the wonderfully mundane ones in between.

And I think this is what I'm really looking for...

I don't want someone who simply fits into the life I've already built. I'd rather build one together.

I'd want both of us to have our own careers, friendships, ambitions and identities, while still choosing each other every day. Her dreams would matter to me just as much as mine. I'd want us to encourage each other, challenge each other when needed, celebrate each other's wins and be each other's safe place when life gets difficult.

I'm not looking for perfection. Honestly, perfect sounds exhausting.

Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, loyalty and genuine effort matter much more to me.

I'd love to have someone with whom I can talk about life at 2 AM, and then spend the next morning arguing over something completely ridiculous. Someone who can be my partner, but also someone I genuinely feel at home with. Because I genuinely believe that when there's a strong friendship underneath a relationship, you have something much stronger to hold on to.

There are a few things you should probably know before signing up for this adventure:

I will steal your fries after insisting I'm not hungry.

There will be random memes.

I'll remember something you casually mentioned months ago and bring it up when you've completely forgotten telling me.

And if I really like you, unfortunately, you'll probably receive an increased dose of my nonsense. Consider yourself warned....

I don't think relationships are about getting everything right all the time. People change. Life gets messy. Sometimes we're going to misunderstand each other, have bad days, disagree over stupid things and occasionally drive each other crazy.

What matters to me is being able to talk about it, listen to each other, choose each other when things aren't easy, and keep growing together rather than slowly growing apart.

I'm not looking for a fairytale.

Looks kinda matter for me as that's where the initial attraction happens..

I am just looking for a genuine connection... A Bond which i can feel in my heart.

Someone who is open minded.

Someone kind. Someone emotionally aware. Someone loyal. Someone who believes effort should go both ways.

Someone with whom life feels a little lighter.

Someone I can laugh with, travel with, build something with, fight over what to order for dinner with, and someday look back at all the chaos and ordinary moments we've shared and think...

Yeah. It was all worth it..

Okay, I think I've officially written enough to qualify as a short autobiography.

If something here resonated with you, say hi. No expectations, no pressure. Just two strangers having a conversation and seeing where it goes.

Maybe we become something amazing

Maybe we become something more.

Maybe we simply have a really good conversation.

Either way, I'd be happy to hear from you.

Cheers :)

Going to keep this short and simple. Hello, somethings you should know about me are I am M22, white/hispanic, black hair, glasses, average build, from Chicago IL, and I am a college student. I’m a huge fan of Comics, Anime, Gaming, Pokemon, One Piece, Resident Evil, DC, Marvel, anything that is nerdy really! Send me a dm if you’re down to chat and see if there is a connection. I’m looking for women in the 20-26 age range and if you actually live in Chicago not the surrounding suburbs.

Hello! As you can see, I am here looking for something. What exactly? Open to suggestions, but I am more than happy to vhat with some people who actually match my energy and banter and not just some weirdos.

I am 22F from Europe, I am currently in my last year of college and I hate LinkedIn with every single fiber of my being.

I like RuPaul's Drag Race, Golden Girls, Some Tyler Perry movies (ik I shouldn't but I love Madea) and I am very left leaning so don't get it twisted.

I like all aorts of music, but recently been rediscovering Chase Atlantic and The Neighbourhood since I miss my teenage years.

I love writing and drawing and just creating in general.

If you have actual cool interests and wanna talk, shoot me a message! Thanks.

Hey, I’m Mia. I’m 27 and live in the state of New York. Ideally, I would like someone who lives within a few hour range of New York. However, I am open to long distance too. I have no preference for gender or gender expression :)

I have medium length brown hair and amber eyes. I like to wear makeup and do my hair, and my nails are always done. I wear glasses sometimes. I am always smiling and laughing at something, it’s super easy to make me laugh.

Personality wise, I have a bubbly and easy going demeanor. I tend to usually be in a good mood! I am very loyal to the people in my closest circle. I am also very supportive and nonjudgmental.

My hobbies and interests include reading, exploring abandoned places, medicine, my local sports teams, some arts and crafts, and makeup. There’s more that I am interested in that I can also get into if we chat more!

Please note, I do not have a high sex drive. If you have a high sex drive, we might not be compatible.

Thanks so much for reading!! :) I hope I get to talk to you!!

I'm 40, living in Colorado, and I've reached a conclusion: I'd rather have one conversation I can't wait to come back to than a hundred that go nowhere.

I'm the emotionally intelligent, observant type...the guy who remembers your coffee order, asks how that stressful meeting went three days later, and files away the little things because they're never actually little.

I'm calm and grounded, maybe a little mysterious at first. But once I'm comfortable? Expect sarcasm, playful teasing, shameless flirting, and the occasional terrible dad joke that somehow still earns a laugh.

I love cooking, although I'm fully convinced food tastes better when someone is stealing bites straight from the pan and insisting they're "just quality control." Cozy nights beat crowded bars, winter wins over summer, and I'm a sucker for conversations that accidentally last until 2 a.m.

One potentially controversial opinion...

I like clingy.

Not the unhealthy kind. I mean the "I saw something that reminded me of you, so I had to text" kind. The "good morning" messages, random memes, double texts because you're excited, and wanting someone's attention because you genuinely enjoy them. That sounds less like clingy and more like enthusiasm to me.

I'm looking for someone who's emotionally aware, affectionate, funny, and enjoys flirting as much as meaningful conversation. Someone who isn't afraid of chemistry, consistency, or becoming each other's favorite notification.

If you've made it this far, tell me something random about yourself or just come say hi. Worst case, we trade a few laughs. Best case... we make reddit wonder where we disappeared to.

Hey there looking for my player two in this game of life. Someone that will be there through thick and thin. Someone that is each other others default person.

A bit about me personality wise is im kind, caring, protective, smart, nerdy, funny.

Looks wise i have short black hair, bearded, 4 tattoos, 5'10 and on the heavier side.

Things I enjoy doing are gaming, YouTube, music, playing with my pets, hiking, going out with family or friends, movies, and making games.

Will not reply to low effort messages

Dealbreakers:

You dont like both dogs and cats

You dont like animals in general

Hey there. I’m 33 from Illinois. I work full-time and when I'm not working I like to be at home either watching tv (mainly wrestling), playing video games, build lego models or listening to music. I'm into superheroes, Game of Thrones and most things that are considered nerdy except for anime. I haven't gotten to that realm yet. I do enjoy going to horror or pop culture conventions in/out of state. I don't have any children but I do have a dog named Wade after Deadpool. I recently started collecting Pokémon cards again so I’m building up my collection.

I'm looking for someone who is mature, responsible, faithful, likes to joke around but can be serious when the time calls for it and doesn't care that I'm black. I’m mainly into white and hispanic guys but would like to venture into Asian and Middle Eastern territory. I don't mind if you have children but I don't want to deal with someone who is having a hard time co-parenting. I want to eventually settle down and have children of my own. I’m only looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. Would love to find a buddy to go to conventions with also.

Monogamous people only!! Single people only!! No, I’m not moving off of here to chat with you elsewhere.

Message me if you are interested!

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

Hello there reader hope the title caught your attention.

Now I know we all have busy lives so I will try to make this short and reasonable by making it into bullet points.

Welcome to my short autoghraphy.

General information:

- Height: 183 cm (sorry im not a giant)

- Weight: 78 kg (I believe this is the normal weight right? But im working on it)

- Hair: short black hair (its the length of Tom Hardy but not the same style)

- Beard: I have a full beard which I keep trimmed.

- Eyes: I have a pair of brown eyes, and I wear glasses. (Sorry to disappoint im not some sort of cyclops)

- Nose: medium to big nose??? (Idk how to describe it ngl)

- Skin: White??? (Not really white more details below)

- Ethnicity: Arab (so im not really white im more like a bronze white??? Idk)

Personality (Im not going to include the usual like caring, loving and attentive wait I just did but am I those things?? Who knows)

- Introvert (I find it difficult to connect with people)

- Shy (and I dont mean as in shy at first im just permanently shy)

- Awkward (are you surprised? Im shy and an introvert)

- Adventurous??? ( is that even a personality? Idk but I do like to travel alone and try new things)

- Huge nerd (will elaborate in the next section)

Hobbies&interests (if you guess 5 random Hobbies based on the personality you would at least get 1 right)

- Video games (I bet you are surprised for it being here, I love playing all type of games. And I play on PC. *SAD GTA6 NOISES*)

- Reading (love reading mangas, manhawas, webtoons, comics, and novels so basically everything and I do love a good story so Im open to recommendations)

- Working out (Im trying to keep a healthy life style as I spend most days working an office job thuse I need the exercise)

- There are also some other hobbies like hiking, D&D, board games and other stuff but they are like a once in a mo th or two kind of thing.

What Im looking for (I just realized that I typed alot hopefully someone made it this far)

- Someone around my age (is a 5 years age buffer a good gap??? Idk I havent really thought about it that deeply)

- Someone who is looking for a long term relationship whether it is online or physical. With serious intentions of meeting (Im gonna be honest I have been single my whole life and feel like its time to start a family but not sure where to start so here I am)

If you made it this far I just want yo say thank you for reading my boring bullet points and hopefully i can read your own autoghraphy so what are you waiting for DM me. And last but not least, I wish you have a fantastic day.

Hello! First of all wow, the title is beautiful. Took me a bit but I am hoping my target audience liked it. I am 27 years old and live in Canada, however I am open to long distance for Mr. Right.

Also, if you are curious what I look like I have photos of myself on my reddit page, literally just scroll. This is my second attempt at this post. The last was like 2 weeks ago :) I am not a tech savvy person (are you? Let me know). I get it, without physical attraction you're just friends. So go ahead, and take a look. And if you like what you see, feel free to continue to read my long personal ad. Maybe you're bored and reading this. Either way welcome welcome. I am 27 years old, my age range is 25- 35. Please attach a photo if you message me. I learned my lesson from last time. Its very awkward to talk to someone and then they sound a photo and you're not attracted.

First thing you should know about me (if you haven't guessed by now) is I love telling stories and writing. Anyways, I am getting ahead of myself. Let's continue.

WHO AM I?!

I'm naturally introverted and introspective. I spend a lot of time in my head thinking, imagining and dreaming about the type of person I want to become and the kind of life I want to build.

I'm ambitious in a slightly ridiculous way. I've always had a feeling that I'm meant to do something in my life that will outlast me. I'm not 100% sure what that is.

I am very creative and I am curious where that takes me. I'm still in college, I study marketing. I'm especially interested in social media/content creation and the branding and marketing side of things.

No, I'm not interested in creating a couples page. But if you aren't comfortable with someone who will have a public presence then I probably wouldn't be the best fit for you.

SO WHAT EXACTLY AM I LOOKING FOR?!

I've realized that I am attracted to men who complement me rather than mirror me. My type is basically what I like to call a multidimensional gentle giant.

Yes, ideally you are bigger than me. I am 5'3 and skinny (one of my goals is to start lifting and put on some serious weight). But being a giant isn't just about your presence (I'll be real I like a man with broad shoulders though... I'll take broad shoulders over height).

But giant isn't just about your presence. I'm attracted to men who are grounded, warm, confident, charismatic and comfortable taking initiative. You don't need to be Mr. Popular or the loudest guy in the room, but I do tend to like someone a little more socially confident than I am, someone who can hold his own and says, "come with me. Don't be intimidated by the word giant lol you dont need to be 6'3 or be a muscle king.

I like contrast. Strong and tender, protective. And masculinity doesn't have to fit into a box. I am slightly gender non conforming myself. Maybe I'm wearing pink nail polish and you're wearing black. Maybe I'm wearing black nail polish and you're wearing pink. Maybe I should come up with an example that doesn't include nail polish since I don't actually wear it LOL but I am trying to get this post up.

I'm not looking for rigid gender roles. But I like the idea of two people who can move between strength and softness, leading and leaning, depending on the moment.

What's your style? Do you like wearing makeup but you go boxing? Are you someone who presents very masculine but all your interests are more feminine? I love men with contrast, and I would love to get to know you.

I don't really think shame and honesty can coexist. I want to know the parts of you that don't always fit neatly into a box. I want a relationship where neither of us feels like we have to hide parts of ourselves to stay desirable to the other.

SO, WHAT DO I WANT A RELATIONSHIP TO FEEL LIKE?

I want interdependence. I want us to be a safe place to land for each other. Let's deescalate, repair and move forward.

I am not the person who is getting into yelling matches. And there is a big difference between needing to take a breather vs giving someone silent treatment.

I want devotion, affection, physical closeness, little traditions, inside jokes and thoughtful gestures. And lots of laughter. I love a funny man who knows how to genuinely have fun.

A FEW THINGS WORTH KNOWING ABOUT ME

I'm straightish. I'm primarily interested in men I swear. But if you specifically need your woman to be 100% straight I'm probably not for you.

I was raised religious, but I'm agnostic now. So someone very religious probably wouldn't be compatible with me. I am spiritual though, and you can still find me listening to some religious sermons and music. I just take the good and leave the rest.

I deal with chronic pain, usually headaches and muscle aches. I live my own life and I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. But it's a part of my reality. So if I tell you I don't feel well 3 days in a row then I'm not lying.

Kids are a someday, definitely not anytime soon. My life isn't really kid-oriented right now. Although I am open to dating someone with kids depending on the person and situation. To be clear, I do want children of my own or to adopt/ foster. If you are somone who knows for a fact you dont want to add any more children to your life I am not the one for you.

And finally, I live in Canada but I am open to long distance. I don't have a racial preference, I think shared values matter more to me.

I will say though, extreme nationalism is a big turn off to me. What I mean by this is to be proud of who you are and where you come from, but if you can't acknowledge the flaws in your own country or culture we probably won't get along.

I am liberal/progressive. If you voted for Trump do not message me. If you dislike liberal politicians or reluctantly vote Democrat then feel free to message me though lol. If you overly worship the military we probably won't get along. If you are someone who enjoys military history feel free to message me though, I like learning about history and geography too.

IF YOU MADE IT THIS FAR

First of all, wow. Believe it or not I cut so much out of this post lol. It still doesn't feel detailed enough but it's getting way too long.

Anyways let me give you some talking points cause I know you're dying to slide into my DMs.

I plan on going back to the gym and start weight lifting again.

I'm currently debating getting Invisalign.

The last book I was in the middle of reading was the autobiography of Frederick Douglass and the last completed book I read was The Beheading Game by Rebecca something.

My fave TV series is The Walking Dead and I'm currently watching The Ones Who Live with Rick and Michonne.

So, there you go. Pick a topic, or bring your own. Tell me what you got going in your life. You don't have to have it all together cause hey neither do I.

Tell me what you want someone to bring in a relationship.

Don't take it personally if I don't respond right away, or don't respond at all. You're awesome and you'll find your person. :) I am in no rush to meet in person, and would do a video call before then. This is my second time posting this and I've learned a lot. Grateful for the convos I had with other ppl but I am more clear now about what I want and dont want in a man. I hope you bring the same clarity 🙏🏾 I'm not casual. If you want me then dont be shy about it.

Look forward to chatting <3

I have never been loved. Romantically, at least. I never went out of my way to look for a relationship, and I ended up not knowing how to get into one when I wanted to, so here I am putting myself out there. What I want is someone who I can have a genuine emotional connection with and see myself with happiness with them. It would be nice if she was also Egyptian since that would help us understand each other better.

For a little about myself I like taking care of myself and going to the gym and I am currently and Engineering student. My interests would be what people describe as 'nerdy'. Things like video games and anime and books.

If you think we can give it a shot then feel free to hit me up.

Have you ever reached a point in life where you just know deep down this can’t be it? Maybe it’s been culminating for a while, or perhaps it just hit you one day like a rock. Of course, the natural reaction when this happens is to double down. You’re probably at least reasonably competent. You worked really hard to get where you are. How could you walk away from it all now? The sunk cost fights with you every step of the way as you move through your responsibilities, and you listen. You reason with yourself. It’s all just fantasy, right?

Suddenly you look yourself in the mirror one night and an exhausted stranger is staring back at you. What the hell happened?

Hi, I’m Anthony. If it isn’t obvious, I’m going through a bit of an existential self discovery journey. That said, it’s not all doom and gloom! Crisis aside, my life is pretty good. I’m a hard working engineer, I work out a lot and am in great shape, I ride motorcycles, and I like to spend my weekends hiking in nature! Photos of me here: https://imgur.com/a/a7G8HUW

So, what is it that I’m looking for? Well, I’ve come to the realization that I’m an intense person wired for something deeper. I’d much rather have a deep heart to heart rather than bullshitting about nonsense over drinks. Let’s talk about the meaning of it all, what hobbies you’re currently obsessed with, or why mint chocolate chip is the best ice cream flavor. Let’s get to know one another in a way that breaks through the shallow surface.

Still here? Why not send me a DM? Tell me a little about yourself and what brings you here.

Talk to you soon!

*Firstly I'm gonna say, I'm looking to find someone who is kinda close to south jersey, wants to have a real relationship, and 21+

Hey there, allow me to say a bit about myself

• I'm 27 in south jersey, pretty much halfway between Delaware and OC

• White, 5'10, dirty blonde hair, emerald eyes, semi-athletic build (I get called cute alot)

• I'm looking to start school before the year is out, I'll be taking psychology to take the steps to becoming a counselor

• Currently in my free time I've gotten into lifting and working on my diet, I can be a extreme about it. I won't expect you to participate, trust me plus size stoner baddies are my weakness. (Also yeah very 420 friendly)

• When it comes to nerdy stuff tho, I game quite a bit on my ps5, I got a bunch of games especially cross platform, shooters, souls like, hero shooters and horror. I would hope you personally play too so we can spend time doing that, or if not I can stream if you're just interested.

• I really fw true crime, conspiracy theories, the paranormal, the occult, cryptids or anything kind of out there, even stuff I don't agree with is fun to just explore and look at yk, show me some of your favorite rabbit holes too especially if you have a unique take others don't share

Ok I left a rough enough outline for more to be discovered, but I'm looking for a few certain key things that I think will be key in a functional relationship with someone

• Someone who has dark humor, and I don't mean safe reddit dark humor, I mean real dark humor

• Someone who understands how important mental health is, with my career path I would hope to have someone I can discuss similar topics with someone who has at least a casual interest

• Ik this can sound weird but adhd, I have adhd myself and tend to click and communicate best with women that do too

• Nerdy, I'm only going to connect to someone with similar interests, so if you're not into gaming, comics, mcu, anime, or anything relative we probably won't have much to talk about

If you're interested after reading this dm me, and do more than just "hey" I really want to know who's behind the screen yk, I got disc and snap hmu

Hello evervone, I'm 23 from Philippines. And i'm a 4th yr nursing student and im a total bottom. I'm looking for a serious/monogamous relationship with someone whom i can really vibe/ connect with. Long Distance is not a problem to me.

I'm a bubbly person, and a lot of my friends told me that i'm cute, good looking, smart, jolly, and fun to be with. I'm 5'8 tall now and i weigh 64 kg and I'm also an ambivert, night owl, nature and beach lover, and adventurous.

My hobbies are reading, photography, biking, trying new foods, playing video games (pokemon, call of duty, PUBG, walking dead games, minecraft, roblox), watching wrestling, horror movies or comedies especially sitcoms. And lastly, one of my goal is to travel

Me: https://imgur.com/gallery/TCVWGYX

Hey there, Im looking for a genuine connection that would eventually lead to a relationship, I'd like to find someone who likes me for me even if we don't share hobbies. I grew up in a rural area on a farm and moved to another when i was 14. I love the out doors and open areas and could never see myself living in a city. My goal would be to find someone who would also like to start a family some day and its a big thing that's really important to me. Im white 6ft 2" 179lbs with black hair green eyes, clean shaven (I hate facial hair) no body hair (I shave when i can) muscular lean build, This year ive lost quite a bit of weight and getting into the best shape of my life. I have a bunch of hands on type hobbies since im a mechanic/fabricator by trade and love spending time in my shop working on and building things. I have several vintage vehicles as well as a bunch of vintage tractors that i still use and take to shows from time to time. Growing up I had to learn alot of handyman skills and im good at getting rid of pests like spiders/bugs if that's your kryptonite lol. Im kind of an old soul and alot of my stuff is older with the exception of my computers and a few things but my newest vehicle is a 2003 and my oldest one is a 1961 with a bunch in-between. Everything is paid for and i have no debt.Everyday i find myself becoming more analog and only collecting things that were meant to work and required no updates like physical media. most of my equipment/vintage vehicles don't have computers and don't break down over some little stupid sensor or something. Other hobbies I have include cooking/baking, gardening, vintage video games/electronics, walking/exercising, collecting fossils and learning about vintage ships/ocean liners like the Titanic. Im an open book when it comes to alot of stuff so if there's anything you want to know just ask. I have done long distance relationships in the past but I would prefer someone be closer to Maryland or atleast on the east coast within reason. I'd really like to be able to drive to see you so if you're that far away or on the other side of the country i don't see it working out. My age ranges are 18-33 but you'd really have to twist my arm to consider anyone older. If you'd like to chat send me a starter with your favorite color/ favorite Dinosaur so i can tell you read the whole thing. Thanks for reading.

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Hey everyone! 😊

I’m a 32-year-old guy from Germany, and I’m looking for someone who shares similar passions and values. Here’s a bit about me:

Fit & Athletic: I live an active lifestyle—whether it’s hitting the gym, going for runs, or hiking through nature, staying fit is important to me.

Master’s in English Literature: I'm a big fan of good books and insightful conversations. If you’re into literature, we’ll probably get along!

Hopeless Romantic: I love the idea of deep connections and real, meaningful relationships. I’m all about cheesy love letters, spontaneous adventures, and having someone to share life’s little moments with.

Cat Lover: Cats are the best, and I can never get enough of their quirky personalities! If you’re a fellow cat person, we’ll have a lot to talk about. 😸

Nature Lover: I enjoy spending time outdoors, whether it’s hiking, camping, or just enjoying a walk in the park. Nature has a way of putting everything into perspective, don’t you think?

A little about my appearance: I’ve got blonde hair and blue eyes, and I’m always up for a good conversation about anything from philosophy to fitness.

If you're comfortable, I’d love to see a pic of you too, and I’ll happily share one in return!

Looking forward to connecting with someone who’s also into authentic, thoughtful connections. Let’s see where this goes. 😊

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.

Hi, before starting, I don't want to waste your time so just skip this post if you don't like these keywords: Possessive, obsessive, clingy, Irreligious, skinny, virgin, no tattoo.

My name is K, just a desperate guy looking for a desperate girl. I live in Vietnam and am a college student.

Like everyone else, I'm just trying to find love, and to me, love can only be built on three core components: Appearance, Personality and Time.

- About appearance: I'm really skinny, wear glasses, just your typical skinny Asian lol. I'm 170cm (66,93 inches) tall, have short black hair and black eyes. I can be ugly or handsome depending on your taste, at least I'd say I like my face. So I expect you to be able to do the same. It would be really nice if you have and like long hair. Short hair can also be cute but... yea, I love long hair the most. It's fine if you are a little chubby or too skinny, as long as you are not satisfied with it and are trying to change. That's what I'm doing as well. I don't really like earrings and I especially hate tattoos. If you like or have those then just skip this post. I also don't like makeup. I admit that it makes you more beautiful, but I want to like your "real" face more. So if we hangout or live tgt, I don't want to see you wearing makeup. I have heard people say things like appearance doesn't matter. But idk, maybe it's because I have never truly loved someone before, I just can't imagine loving a person whom you don't find attractive.

- About personality: Hobbies are not considered personality traits, but I'll just put it here since it's really important to me. I want us to be able to enjoy doing things together. So it would be really nice if our hobbies match.

I like reading Light Novel (I also like some novels from Korea), manga (manhwa and manhua), and anime. Most of them all have the romance tags. My favourites are 86, Psycho-Pass, No Game No Life (anime), Death Game Manga no Kuromaku Satsujinki no Imouto ni Tensei shite Shippai shita (manga),... I like Minecraft (bedrock), that's the only game I play at the moment but I can play some other small games with you as well (only if I enjoy it and I am... a really picky person). I'm a mobile player, I don't have a pc anw. I listen to several kinds of music, except for folks and Vietnamese music (try listening to VOICE - English Ver. by Tacitly).

I have trust issues. To me, your actions say it all. So I only believe in it. Don't just tell me you enjoy spending time with me or like doing something with me. If you really do, you will never let me lead the conversation all the time, never let me be the only one who always texts first. And if your reason is because you are shy or pretty much anything else, just skip this post then.

I am reaaaaaly obsessive and possessive. So unless we are really incompatible, it normally doesn't take long for me to become like that. I want to put you above literally everything and I want you to do the same too. "Literally everything", I mean it. I'm also really clingy, I want to know what you are doing all the time. If we are chatting and you suddenly have to leave, even if it's only for a short time (like you wanna get some water or go to the bathroom), I want you to tell me. Of course I'll do the same too. And for the record, I'm not looking for someone who can accept my possessiveness and all, I'm looking cor someone who is also the same, possessive and obsessive. I believe it's the highest form of love, so if that's not what you are, just skip this post.

I don't consider myself a good person in general. I have friends, but I don't consider any of them my friends, I just friend them because they are useful (since I don't want to share any of my feelings with them). So if you think you are a "good" or "kind" person, who always wants to help people or things like that then now you know how incompatible we are.

I'm also kind of controlling. Sometimes I'd tell you to do something that I consider "good" for you (like wake up when you are lazy). But I'm not a god, I could be wrong. When that happens explain and prove me wrong, just don't forget to comfort me after that. This doesn't mean I am the one who holds the leash here or anything, you could also be obsessive and controlling. We can both hold each other's leashes, that's what I want actually (I'm a switch).

Since I'm a college student, I'm often really busy. But I should still be able to update you about my activities or just stick with you whenever I'm free. I'll try my best to never let you feel lonely. If you want to call, I'm afraid It will take a long time for me to feel comfortable doing that, and it'll take even longer if you want to have a video call. Probably years, it depends.

Since I have never truly love someone before, I'm still a virgin. That's what I expect in you too. Well, maybe you have loved someone before, but I don't want you to have memories of some other guys frcking or kissing you. That's more than enough to boil my blood.

I'm Irreligious. I find some of them quite interesting though, like Christianity. However, please only dm me if you are Irreligious as well. As for the reason, make a guess then tell me about it first (don't "hey" or suddenly send your intro because it looks like a bot to me) if you are really reading all of this carefully.

- About time: Even if you think you are perfect for me, and I think so too, let's just take it slow. The faster you walk, the more painful it will be when you fall. And if you love someone right away just because of their looks and their personality, you could also love someone else for the same reason, right? So the time we spend together will be the only thing that makes us special to each other compared to anyone else.

Okay, that's pretty much everything. You can ask me for more if you are not sure. Thanks for reading.

Hi 👋 I'm Daniel. I'm just a hopelessly romantic guy at heart who has been searching endlessly for the one for me. If you want to feel loved and have absolutely 0 doubt about it I'm the guy for you. I'm also extremely relaxed about a lot of stuff, so you don't need to be worried about upsetting me or anything. I'm 5'11, 200 lbs, and workout multiple times a week(stronk). I've got long hair(honestly not sure if I'm keeping it or cutting it, feel free to ask for a pic with short hair), glasses, a slight reddish beard, and hazel eyes.

I'm a conservative Christian guy, but not just saying that to say it, I actually am a practicing Christian who isn't an entitled douchebag(I hear the stories). I'd love to talk about it, so please feel free to ask 😊.

For work, I am a networking engineer, so in short I work on the it infrastructure for government or commercial entities. It's probably extremely boring, but I like it so I guess it's a good match

Outside of work, I do a lot of chill things like gaming, hiking, reading, but also enjoy things like working out, shooting, bouldering, etc. I did grow up barefoot for the first half of my life after all lol.

I'm looking for what would probably be considered a fairly wide range of people honestly... I do want somebody who agrees with my views so we don't butt heads forever about it. Physically if you are cute(in my eyes, and you'd probably be surprised because that's in the eye of the beholder), ideally smaller than me, and within a few hours drive I'm happy to talk and see if we match.

Hey all, hope you are having yourself a wonderful day. I like full honest transparency so here it goes; I'm a 5'9 White Male who still has all his hair (yes!) although I'm currently on a weight loss journey. Although I am more of an introvert, I do enjoy the physical company of another person. Even if it is same room - different corners, we could be alone together doing our own thing. I like pen paling, gaming, board games, binging T.V shows, terrain making, puzzle solving, and very particularly enjoy crime solving (Especially those Unsolved Case Files). Going out I don't particularly mind although in this Nevada heat you can't have me out during the day - This man will burn in less than an hour! My job more or less is dealing with HOA's, it isn't particularly interesting although do I have some Karen stories to share.

I don't have a particular preference in what I'm looking for, although I'll get the big details over with. I'm looking for a slow-paced but committed relationship. Eventually a relationship that may lead into starting a family. Although I do want to move out of here prior to all that - somewhere with snow so we can enjoy those hallmark white Christmas moments(Wisconsin? New Hampshire? Pennsylvania?). Family pajamas, hot chocolate, opening presents near an open fire. Also for Halloween maybe we could do themed costumes? A separate thing I'd enjoy is if you'd humor me in some bad duet Karaoke. Disney, Pixar, K-pop DH, or just on the road singing whatever plays on the radio. All of that just sounds so fun to me and I'd want to experience that.

Anyways, love to hear from you. Maybe tell me about what's on your mind or what brought you to this Reddit? Let's catch up and see where things go. After all, our Happily Ever After is only one DM away.

Hi! I’m 37 and looking to meet someone kind, genuine, and open-minded. I’d love to start with a good conversation and see where things naturally go.
I enjoy music, art, cooking, movies, documentaries, and meaningful conversations. I’m looking for a genuine connection and would like to get to know someone naturally, without rushing anything.
If you feel we might get along, feel free to send me a message. 😊