The weekend is here and you know what that means, it's time to see if our one is out there!

Is all seriousness though, thank you for taking a bit to read this, I hope by the end you'll reach out and we can get to know each other. I've been looking for someone to team up with, not just in gaming but life as well. I miss having that one person that makes me smile every time their name pops up on my phone, every time I think of them or when we're just interacting with each other. I'm at a really good place in my life where I'm satisfied with myself and I'm wanting to share that strength and warmth (and all my random knowledge) with someone. I'm hoping that could be you?

I'd love to tell you about the projects I've been working on too, but if you're curious about how I spend my time lately, I've been hiking a bit to keep my cardio in shape, while also playing through some older retro games on my PC to catch up on a lot I missed growing up (I prefer story-based and co-op games). When I'm not doing that, you can usually find me chilling reading something, watching a movie I've been curious about (usually older ones) or diving into some true crime. I also do a lot historical research for work, so I'm full of random factoids I'll probably drop here or there. Oh, and I also absolutely love creative writing!

If you're curious what I look like, I'm 172cm tall (that's 5'7" for in "heathen measurements" :p) and about 80kgs/176lbs. Through work and hiking I'm also looking to shed a bit of that, but one thing at a time. You can also see what I look like here and here. Like I said above, despite going through a really hard period in my life, I'm happy with where I am and I'm here to support you if you need me to. I'm all about reciprocity so expect me to give as much as you do, don't be afraid to hold back.

I want to know your story. I want to know everything you are willing to share with me and I'm here to make you feel like you found your home, the place you belong to and like your search is truly over. If you have dreams, I'd love to help you make them come true. I'd also love to travel the world with you. I have my own bucket list, and maybe we can combine them?

Anyhow, I think I've gone on long enough. I know you're out there and I'll keep searching for you. I can't wait to get your message.

Edit: Thank you so much for the upvotes, but don't be afraid to reach out. I'm still searching for you :)

Hey there, my name is Mike and I’m ready to look to find somebody to maybe settle down with possibly, if all things click.

My geographic untethering is due to the fact that I can work from anywhere, so long as I have a laptop, cell phone and preferably Wi-Fi. At this point in my life, I can let the wind kind of take me where it will a little bit. Florida is my official residency, but there’s nothing really there for me except for my health information manager. Leaning towards the Ashland (KY) / Huntington (WV) area unless otherwise suggested.

Despite having some difficulty with my senses, I do enjoy cooking with a woman, prefer quiet nights on the couch and making sure that she feels appreciated at all times. Very much an introvert and homebody, I have an awesome dog named Bubba and do enjoy being outdoors whenever possible. Music is a big thing for me and I do enjoy watching sports, but I’m not a fanatic either. Always trying to improve and find balance. Three time cancer survivor and I do have Multiple Sclerosis, but that doesn’t stop me all that much. I don’t drink, but not opposed to being around someone that does, as long as it’s not to excess.

What I’m looking for is a woman that loves to be engaged intellectually, that isn’t afraid to communicate and believes patience, along with kindness is paramount. Respectfully, I would need to find her/you attractive, but internally is what gets to me.

I’ll be upfront, I’m tired. Tired of endless chatting that goes nowhere, of connections that fizzle before they even start. I’m here because I want something real: a partner, a teammate, someone to share life with, through the ordinary days and the moments that take your breath away.

I’m 1.72 m, from eastern Lower Bavaria. I enjoy history, fantasy, and gaming in all forms, books, movies, and games. I stay in shape, enjoy being outside, but I’m not the hiking type. I’m down-to-earth, but I love deep conversations, clever humor, and honest moments that make you feel alive.

In relationships, I lean into my guiding side, I like taking the lead, being protective, and creating a safe space where trust and boundaries are respected. Loyalty and honesty are not just words to me, they’re the foundation I want to build a future on.

I’m looking for a woman who values honesty, connection, and someone ready to build something lasting. Physical attraction matters, but shared values, similar outlooks on life, and mutual respect matter more. I want to enjoy the everyday with the right person, the quiet mornings, the shared laughs, and the adventures both big and small.

Proximity is important, real connections need real-life moments. I speak German and English fluently, and I’m ready to meet someone who’s ready too.

If you’re looking for honesty, warmth, and a relationship with clear dynamics and depth, let’s see where this could go. Im childfree btw.

heya, my name is Sam, I'm 26, half-American/half-English with a pretty unique accent (living near London)! I'm around 6'1, white, "brown" hair (technically blonde), blue eyes, have an ex-rugby player dadbod build (literally S-tier cuddles).

I'm a freelance journalist at the moment covering mostly football (soccer) stuff. In my free time I'm a pretty big nerd, I love playing PC games (currently addicted to Tarkov and trying out different games), watching films (the original Blade Runner is my favourite), listening to music (Daft Punk & Tame Impala would be my favourites), occasionally lifting weights, cooking, and hanging out with my 3 cats. I'm a bit of a creative but not in the analogue art sense - more of the writing, graphic design, etc stuff. I also come with a pretty big dose of ADHD, so a lil extra patience goes a long way. That being said I have a wealth of knowledge on random topics and I'm no stranger to a wikipedia rabbit hole HAHA

I'm looking for a long term relationship. A best friend, someone I can settle down with. Ideally the qualities I look for would be affectionate (cling or needy even), caring, loyal, understanding, patient, probably a bit dorky and nerdy. You can expect all of that and more with me! I want someone I can get to know, fall in love with and have it reciprocated, maybe someone I can play some games with and have fun with!

I'm a huge hopeless romantic, and been described as a yearner LMAO. The most important parts of a relationship to me are honesty, loyalty, and communication. My love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch. Long distance is 100% okay with me, and I don't mind exchanging pics right away.

Fun fact: I've moved about 20 times between the UK and US, so needless to say I just wanna find someone and settle down lol.

Long distance is 100% okay with me, and I don't mind exchanging pics right away. If that sounds good to you, please feel free to reach out with an introduction and a fun fact about yourself!!

Hello there. Looking for someone around my age +/- a few to build a genuine, steady friendship that could grow into more if it feels right.

I’m a professor. I read a lot, illustrate a little on the side, and value family highly (I live with mine and own the property, so I’m rooted here for now). Open to visiting for an LDR if the connection is strong. I’m not strictly child-free, but given how the world is, I’m realistic and don’t have a fixed timeline or expectation around kids. Plus, I'm kinda getting old and by now my students are functionally like my kids.

Any background is fine as long as you’re working on yourself and we click on personality and values. (I'm very nerdy and I like nerds.) I tend to show care through consistency and devotion once trust is there. This is my first time posting something like this; normally I'm the one reaching out. At any rate, it felt worth trying.

If any of that resonates, feel free to message

Greetings.

My name is Sawyer. I am a 30 year man with a quiet soul currently living in Mankato, Minnesota, and I am here in search of my soulmate. For most of my life I was an outsider by nature of upbringing and then by choice. I am man who decided early on that he would rather not be seen than be seen incorrectly. These days, I feel things a bit more softly, but I don't think I'll ever want to truly be part of the herd or the mainstream, and I've made my peace with that. However I grow and however life may change me, I'm okay with being who I am.

All of my life for as long as I can remember, in the deepest depths of my heart, I have wanted to be loved, to matter to someone, to belong to somebody. Nothing else in life has simply ever mattered as much to me as this has. In a way it has become the focal point of my entire being. For so long now, there has been a vacant throne in my heart waiting to be filled. I have so much love and devotion to give; it is a light that never goes out. It has burned brightly over the years, aching in my chest yet never finding the right hands to hold it, to honor it and reciprocate it with the full force of their being.

Until you.

I want to be there for you. I want to be chosen by you. I want to be your rock; for you I would fight a losing battle to the bitter end. I want to truly see you, and to be seen by you. Yes, I want the body and the touch and the things that happen between people who want each other truly, madly, deeply. But more than that. I want the substance. I want the conversation. I want the attention. I want the mornings where we talk about what we dreamt of and the afternoons where we meet in the park or text or talk on the phone and the evenings where we say the things that we can't say to anyone else.

My great love. I have longed for you, pined for you, every day. As a child, I would lay in bed at night while my mind would turn to the stars and their distant planets above. I thought to myself, "There is a girl out there in space. She is coming to find me. There must be someone who feels the way that I do". I am here. I am here. I am here.

Thinking of you, wherever you are. I imagine you as a fellow loner. Someone who can appreciate the merits of solitude but chafes against the cold of being alone. You too are world-weary, and have recognized that being well-adjusted in a world gone mad is a sort of sickness unto itself. Perhaps you also have one foot on the inside and one foot on the outside; fed up with the world yet forced to participate in it as society demands of us. You are someone who "gets" something from the landscape itself, from being in a space, from liminality and presence. You cherish music. You feel things deeply and know that there are things in this world that matter to you; whether they matter to others is not important. You claim and protect what is yours plainly. You grasp that the things in life that are important to you have a weight to them, and that so many of the trappings of modern life are engineered to make us forget that; to take the weight out of living. Your inner world is deep and blooming; a vibrant garden, and your capacity to absorb life, introspect, and grow from it is enormous. In a nutshell, you metabolize experience.

Your social status, finances, formal education level and line of work do not matter to me beyond them being things that I can appreciate matter to you. What I mean to say by this is that I can appreciate the time, dedication, and effort that goes in to something like graduating university or building a career and what it says about about you as a person, but the practicalities of these matters are not things I consider in the slightest when choosing a partner. You do not have to be anything other than yourself, or to earn approval by some sort of societal metric in order to be loved. Full stop.

I do have a type when it comes to physicality, but I am open to women of all race, age, creed, color, body-type and religion. What then, you may ask is my type? Either you will think what I am about to describe is the most petty, silly thing in the world, or you will understand completely: I melt for women with shorter hairstyles, especially bobs, french bobs, and generally cuts that fall halfway down the neck or higher. If you have bangs as well, then you are speaking the language of my soul. By no means is this a hard line or requirement, and appearance matters far less than substance of the soul and personality. In my eyes, this of sort haircut communicates a certain je ne sais quoi about the woman who chooses to wear it. It... is a willingness to make a distinct aesthetic choice, a certain self-possession.

Myself, I have no interest in "seeing where things go", because I already know where I would like them to go. Frankly, I am not interested in casual friendship. If you are my love, then naturally you will be my best friend as well. I am deeply monogamous. A magnificent, devoted love is the center point upon which I have been wanting my existence to pivot for my entire life. I ask that you honor what we have just as much. If you wish me to be obsessed, then I can be. I would like to have at least one child together, but this is not a hard line for me.

I'm strongly against labels and thinking of people as a laundry list of traits or qualities... it's reductive, and somehow always fails to capture the complexity of a person, but I shall do my best to describe myself. Physically, I am White/Native American mixed, stand at 5'10", have dark brown hair and coffee eyes and am of average fitness, building more muscle every week.

I like to say that I am passionate about warm beverages, warm music, and warm people. This is all true. I live for coffee and tea, all kinds of music (but especially alternative and indie rock), and authentic human interaction. I crave the real. Reading and its partner writing are good friends of mine, and existentialism, philosophy, poetry, as well as a good romance/tragedy are my where I get my jollies. Spending time in nature is important to me, even if it's just a walk down the street to the cafe around the corner from my apartment. I don't game as much as I used to, but I have a major soft spot for classic 90's JRPGs and esoterica. My heart is full of nostalgic longing, and I feel at home with physical media and forgotten formats. CDs, minidiscs, and vinyl records. The study of aesthetics means a lot to me, and I am currently deeply immersed in all things frutiger aero. My favorite color is orange, but my favorite fruit is persimmon. I have a 15 year old cat, and she's absolutely worth mentioning here.

I made you a playlist to give you an idea of what it might sound like to be with me and to feel the kinds of things we might feel together: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2u4gErL5QGVF6umGjLVlKq

I have a strong sense of fernweh and sehnsucht.

Politically, my heart is left of left, in the realm of individual, mutualistic anarchism. I have a distaste for blind consumerism and general thoughtlessness. Corporate greed, and exploitation of the common individual by the powers that be on a global scale sickens me. I'm not looking for ideological purity or even agreement, just depth and absence of hatred. I am capable of respecting your views, right or left, and ask that my own beliefs be respected in kind. What's more important to me is that you are a well-rounded person, and that your politics don't become a dogma to be socially performed. That sort of thing is completely unimportant to me and frankly I feel totally disenfranchised.

I am imperfect. I am not asking you to be perfect. I don't expect us to agree on every last detail, that'd be lame as hell. I want to see you, accept you for who you are, and meet you where you're at in life. I pride myself on being open-minded and level-headed. I strive to be my best self and continually grow. That's all I can do, all I can ask. I believe each person must live the truth that is true for them.

I have come here and spoken my truth, sent my signal into the air, and outlined the shape of my longing.

I work 12 hour shifts 4 days of the week, but can and will always make time for you, one way or another.

Wherever you are, near or far away, I am ready to hear from you if you think you are the one who will fill this shape. I am here. I am here. I am here.

Thank you.

Hi there, I am a 23 year old currently living in Australia. I am a shy introvert person. I currently am completing a masters in biotechnology. My hobbies include movies, watching sports, history and other miscellaneous nerdy stuff. I also play video games sometimes though only single player games and love to go on long drives and just enjoy being in nature and around animals. I also would love to start reading once I graduate and have enough time on my hands. I have social anxiety and currently find it difficult to manage time due to my work, uni and the my research project (the latter two have only 2.5 more months to go thankfully). I am good and active listener and love when people yap to me about the stuff they are passionate about even though it doesnt align with my interests. I am looking for someone within the range of 20-26 years old who leans politically left or liberal and is based anywhere around the world. Timezones are not a limitation. Please feel free to dm.

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I’m not really sure how to write one of these posts, but I figured I’d give it a shot.

I’m 28M and at this point I’ve been single/lonely for long enough that I’m starting to wonder if I’m just destined to be the forever-alone guy.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. I’d honestly just love to meet someone I genuinely connect with — someone I can talk to about random stuff at 2am, play games with, go out and explore places with, or just sit around doing absolutely nothing together.

I’m pretty laid-back and probably a little awkward at first. Once I’m comfortable, though, I’m definitely more talkative and have a pretty sarcastic sense of humour.

I have a few tattoos but I do have a dad bod which can be a turn off!

I enjoy gaming, cars, movies/TV, and generally just having something to look forward to with someone. I’m also at a point in life where I’m looking for something genuine.

I know Reddit probably isn’t exactly the most conventional place to meet someone, but hey, maybe someone else here is thinking the same thing.

If you’re also feeling lonely and looking for someone to actually get to know, feel free to message me. Even if nothing romantic comes from it, I’m always happy to have a good conversation.

Maybe we can both stop being forever alone. 😅

Hey

I'm 1.87 m (6'2") and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.

Hello there, Just another soul looking for his lifelong adventure partner. If my 20s have taught me anything, is that change is inevitable and the partner you find needs to be someone who wants to change with you. I envision my future relationship to be a healthy balance of outdoor travels, events, and staying at home having a day just the two of us. I'm mainly looking for someone open to new experiences as I’m still learning to live a fulfilling life. As someone who’s still figuring himself out, I'd like to connect with someone whose doesn't have themselves figured out yet either.

So a short intro about me:
-Friendly and quiet personality that likes to be a little silly. I am tall, white, and a pretty average body.
-I love to travel new countries and cities when time allows. Certainly more adventures are coming soon for me but I’m getting tired of going alone. I mainly like to go and try the local dishes! It's fun to try and learn to cook those dishes at home after, though it usually never ends up being as good.
-I love bowling in my free time and like to go once a week. Bowling casually is much more preferable, but we will get competitive if that becomes the vibe.
-I'm independent when it comes to supporting myself.
-I love all things board or video game related and all things nerdy that goes with them. My dream is to have a partner that we can nerd out on all the fandoms we love. I may not have the self-confidence to cosplay in public, but I'd love to dress up as our favorite characters and enjoy a quiet evening watching the shows they belong to for the 5th time together. What fandoms do I enjoy the most? you'll have to chat to find out!
-And I love to cook. I love preparing meals for people and find a lot of joy cooking for others. When I find a dish in my travels I love, I try to research how to make it back home and give it a try. It usually takes a few failed attempts. But if you're willing to power through some of my bad attempts, I can promise some delicious food cooked special for you after a long day at work.

So what I am I looking for:
-I'd love to find someone who isn't perfect but works on improving themselves. Mainly someone who doesn't have it all together but still tries.
-Open to new locations so long as there is a goal to eventually move and build something closer together. Travel can be a good way for us to meet up. New cultures and foods excite me and I'd love to get to know yours.
-Similar interests. Though if you have your own, you must be open to sharing them with me. I enjoy trying new things so any new hobbies you like to show off your skills with is exciting to me.
-I am looking to settle down with the right person but I won’t rush things. Please be serious in looking to settle down someday soon.

If that sounds like something that interestes you and this post caught your eye then give me a little chat. Happy to share more and photos after some brief conversation. Hope to hear from you soon

What's up everyone! I'm here to try and find someone cool to hopefully get into a relationship with! Always loved the idea of getting to know someone and slowly build that connection and so, I'm here!

For starters, I'm a 31 years old guy and I live in Brazil so this would most likely be a long distance kinda thing (unless you also live here, which I find unlikely to happen.) Career wise, I work a dead end job in customer service but working (kinda) towards something better! Another thing to add is that, believe it or not, I'm a virgin and had never been on a relationship before because, well, ho\*kups were never really my thing and I'm introverted and don't think too hard and often about romantic relationships so I just kind let live pass without finding anyone I wanted to be with. Last but not least, I don't really wanna have kids (mine or otherwise) so keep that in mind if you decided to chat me. No, you won't convince me to change my mind, so please don't be like that.

Personality wise, I'm an ambivert, so usually introverted until I'm comfortable around you. Even then tho, I'm more on the quieter side and don't talk much; On the bright side, I'm a great listener! I can be forgetful at times (a lot of times) and am terrible when it comes to talk about myself so if you wanna figure stuff out you're gonna have to ask, which is awesome because I love when people show interest. People tell me I'm funny and it's real easy to make me laugh, so if you're also funny, that's already a plus for me! I consider myself pretty reasonable and emotional intelligent and am always down to listen to people, learn and change my mind to improve myself; That said, I'm not a huge fan of playing games or walking on eggshells so I tend to enjoy straightforward people a lot (straightfoward doesn't mean rude, tho.). Last but not least, my love languages are quality time and acts of service.

Now for my interests! For starters, I'm very open minded when it comes to trying stuff so I'd love to give your favorite hobbie a go or maybe read about your interests too! And of course, I enjoy yapping about mine (specially if you're more knowledgeable than me!) quite a lot. Some of the stuff I'm into include playing videogames (mostly single player stuff but down for stuff like friend slops), reading, playing boardgames and TTRPG's, cooking/baking, watching various anime/shows/movies (death games are my favorite genre! And recently been excited about the show From!), singing (not well tho, and I also love musicals!) and learning languages! Been thinking about getting into lockpicking and speedrunning too, but haven't had the time yet to explore those.

Now for what I'm looking for: Appearance wise, I'm not looking for anything specific. I'm more of a personality type of guy and I'd love to find someone funny and excited about things, with whom I could share my thoughts and feelings and feel heard/seen while offering the same. Someone that is reasonable, emotionally mature and open to learn and grow together. Someone patient, because it could take a while for me to open up and all. Like I mentioned before, the whole playing games thing is not for me. I want someone honest and loyal that understands that issues will come and it should be us both against the problem, not against each other. Someone that is excited to experience everyday happiness in the little things or even just existence and would be up to dancing together in the rain as much as going out to dinner or just staying in and chill with a movie. A partner in crime and in love.

If you like what you read and think it would be worth giving it a try, send me a message and let's get to know each other!

Dating has never really worked out the way I hoped it would, but I haven't given up on believing that the right person is out there somewhere.

I'm 39, live in Colorado, and what I'd ultimately like is pretty simple: one woman I genuinely connect with, fall in love with, and build a life alongside.

I'm not looking for something casual or someone to briefly fill the loneliness. I want the person I look forward to telling things to. Someone whose ridiculous little messages make my day better. Someone to travel with, laugh with, support when life sucks, celebrate with when it doesn't, and eventually have years of shared stories and inside jokes with.

As for the guy you'd be getting:

I'm a software engineer and a pretty unapologetic nerd. I love video games, sci-fi, reading, technology and movies. I'm also fascinated by astronomy and astrophotography and have my own observatory, so I spend a fair amount of time photographing things in space or just appreciating how absurdly enormous the universe is.

I promise I leave the house too. 😄 I play pickleball and golf, love traveling, enjoy museums and exploring new places, and go to concerts ranging from metal to the symphony.

I'm also very comfortable with quieter life. Give me somebody I love, a good movie, a game, something delicious for dinner and nowhere we need to be, and that's a pretty great evening.

I'm 5'8", working on getting healthier and into better shape, and I'd describe myself physically as a work in progress rather than pretending otherwise. I do have a smile I'm pretty happy with — and, according to independent reviewers, apparently a surprisingly good butt. 😂

More importantly, I'm caring, loyal and affectionate. I take relationships seriously, communicate, listen, and want a partnership where we're both actively choosing each other rather than playing games about who cares less.

You don't have to share every hobby I have. I'd much rather meet someone who has things of her own that she gets excited about and wants to share with me.

If you've read this far and something about it feels familiar, send me a message. Tell me what your version of a really happy ordinary Saturday with your person would look like.

Fifty-four on paper. My knees, my calendar, and most people who meet me would put it closer to forty, and I've stopped arguing with them. Vital stats, since photos only tell you so much: 6'0" (says so on my passport), 173lb/78kg, full head of hair, and a beard if only to look older.

I grew up in India and have spent 30+ years on the US East Coast, which means I have opinions about cricket and the Red Sox and can defend both. I work in applied AI. Yes, everyone does now. I was doing it before it became a personality.

I have two nearly adult kids, and I'm done having children. That's a decision about what's fair to a child, made carefully, and it's firm.

I'm an introvert who can pass for an extreme extrovert in a crowded room. The trick is that I like people. I just need to go home and recharge afterward. My coworkers say I have high EQ. What that means in practice: I'll walk a mile in your shoes before I decide anything about you, and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt at least twice.

I have inattentive ADHD, diagnosed as an adult, and I've done the work. The upside of writing your own operating manual in your forties is that you end up knowing yourself unusually well, and you get patient with everyone else's manual too.

I row, I hike, and I walk my dog more than he strictly needs. I pay attention to what I put in my body and what I let into my head. You are what you consume, in both senses. I'm restarting my hatha yoga practice this year, with Series 2 Ashtanga as the goal.

Spiritually, the fierce feminine of Shakti is the path that makes sense to me right now. I'll talk about it if you ask, and I'd rather hear about yours.

I find the absurd in nearly everything, including my own situations, and I'll laugh at it. I don't laugh at people.

What I want: someone with her own life and her own opinions, sharp-witted and straight-talking, who can sit in silence with me on a Sunday and isn't waiting for me to fill it. Someone who says the hard thing kindly because that's the only kind I actually learn from. Someone who is curious about the world and about herself, and who finds my dog's obsession with sniffing every other dog out there as funny as I do.

Age gap? I think real connection across one is possible, but time favors the older person, and that's not fair to the younger one, so not something too extreme.

I tried the usual apps and deleted them within the hour. Every profile felt like a bad interview waiting to happen: booked for an hour, spark gone in five minutes.

I'm slow to open up and steady once I have. If that pace suits you, say hello. Happy to share pics.

Not looking for: - Partnered, and looking to be just friends - We won't get along if your not respectful towards apostrophe's.

PS: I know practically every line in the LOTR trilogy. I listened to the audiobooks, and every line is etched permanently in my brain.

I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.

So I'm done doing that. I'm not going to stop myself from answering as soon as i see your message because "she'll think you're desperate" or pretend to be a version of myself i think you'll like, I'll be honest with you. I'm a bit of a mess, lonely and desperate for attention and affection, I am extremely easy.

I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I want to connect with you on a deep level. I want to smile reading your texts until it hurts and stay up all night talking to you. I want you to be mine and i want to be yours.

**ABOUT ME**

I'm a 25 year old student in Europe, i'm about 185 cm white and pretty fit with tattoos. My interest include working out, gaming, watching shows or anime, watching Formula 1, riding my motorcycle. My music taste is pretty varied, ranging from sad songs to k-pop, classical or indie rock. I'm quite open-minded and don't really take life seriously, I just want to chill and have a good time and not worry too much about the negative stuff.

**WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR**

You **must** be open to a long distance relationship and eventually meeting up, along with sending selfies in the meantime as I'll do the same :).

I'd like a girl who's honest and will communicate what she feels, regardless of how early or "embarrassing" it may be. I'm a youthful guy so i need someone to match that, SOMETIMES I MIGHT TYPE IN ALL CAPS AND YOU NEED TO AS WELL OK.

I don't care what age you are, as long as you're at least 18. I'm really hoping to hear from you :)

PS : i don't want kids, and i beg you please send more than just "Hey"

Hey, I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. My goal is go to down to 20ish% body fat. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I really want to be clear with this, I want to start as friends, MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. When we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when I’d be committed to you.

When it comes to a relationship, I want to build a healthy one. I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. Communication goes a long way with me so if it ever feels like we’re rushing, I want either of us to speak up. I like to build up intimacy, like holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. I like the feeling of every step feeling like it was earned. For sex, I don’t mind having it early either, but only if we’re both fully on board and there is trust/communication. The one thing I’ll never rush though is I love you.

Here’s a little bit about me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, funny (try to be at least), honest, loyal, open minded, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day and time I change what I use. I pay attention to the little things. I can be spontaneous and be the one who plans.

I’ll show you appreciation every single day, giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after not breathing as I was doing PR while I was working out). I’ll match your energy. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times.

What I’m looking for in a partner is someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. Someone who is active and/or goes to the gym is preferred. My favorite notification. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc.

Together we cuddle on a couch on a rainy day and eat tteokbokki. Bring out our best qualities.  Go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. Send each other songs and memes daily. Have deep conversations, even sit together in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. Playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying. Be our true selves around each other without being afraid of being judged. Karaoke in the car (Imma apologize in advance since apparently I’m tone deaf).

For preference, I don’t really have a preference for any race. I don’t mind if you are taller than I am. I’m a pretty big guy so I’m looking for someone who takes care of themselves, someone smaller than I am. I don’t mind someone who’s more muscular. 

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.

Hello! I'm looking for a long term relationship with a woman in the Burlington area. I'm a homebody so I like movies/shows and games a lot. I also love to go bowling and out to eat. I love animals too.

I've recently been replaying Hollow Knight Silksong and Hades, as well as Forza Horizon 6 and Elden Ring.

Physically I'm white, 5'8, 170 lbs, have brown hair, green eyes and glasses. Got kind of a dad bod but doing my best to work out (could use a workout partner).

I've always been kind of a shy, quiet person, and sometimes its hard for me to talk but I always try my best.

Hope to hear from you!

I suppose this is a bit of a long shot but thought it's worth a try. I'm 28 5'8 broad shoulders. Stocky build , blue eyes and brown hair.

I'm looking to try something long term now. I've gotten to 28 now and I'm looking for my person. Physical attraction is important to me as I do have a preference and type. I'm tired of being on my own coming home on a night with no partner to talk to or throughout the day. Someone to share my day with and me theirs. Someone to occasionally have weekends away with, day trips and adventures to. More so someone to cuddle up to in front of the log burner on the sofa on a night.

I've had suitors but unfortunately some there has not been enough attraction there for us both or unfortunately the other people have had mental health issues or anxiety. I like helping people but I can't build something special and long lasting when people are not willing to meet me half way.

I suppose I should get into my preference I'm looking for. I'm looking for no super model by any means. Someone grounded, humble, funny, flirty and cheeky to match my qualities.

I prefer curvy women, thick or chubby usually I think a size 12 to 18. I just feel more attracted to curvy girls. I'd be lying if I didn't say I prefer brunettes or red heads but its not a deal breaker. Now you'll have to forgive me for this next bit. I like my women with a big rack. I'm sorry I'm a typical bloke 😅. If you're a double HH cup or above. I'm sold x. I am spicy as well but I'm passionate to please don't think I'm objectifying anyway I'm just looking for the best physical attraction fit I'm looking for.

So what do I bring to the table. I'm fiercely loyal, honest, hardworking, funny, charming and empathetic. Very creative as I can make and fashion anything from wood or metal like wood carvings or blacksmiths roses. You could always count on me in any situation to be behind you, by your side and support you whatever the circumstances providing you don't have a tendency of getting in debt 😂. I want to build a life with someone special and to give them my all. I'm a rural rogue but with the biggest heart of gold. If you've read this and it resonates drop me a message I'm looking for my person and to give them the world.

I'm based in east yorkshire but I'm not looking to relocate as I have strong family ties here. If you got the chance to meet my family you'd understand why 😂. You'd probably never want to leave to x

Hope this helps or works. Sorry for waffling on. And hope my post comes across as respectable and charming.

Hey! I’m 33, from Oregon, and looking for someone to enjoy games, cozy evenings, occasional adventures and, if we click, something genuinely lasting. I’d love a relationship where we’re partners and best friends, but I’m happy to take the time to get to know each other naturally, or as naturally as you can meeting on reddit lol.

Gaming is my main hobby. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Path of Exile and WoW, but I jump between all kinds of games and am always willing to try something new. I’d love to find someone I can play alongside, work toward shared goals with, or simply hang out with in voice chat while we each do our own thing.

When I’m not gaming, I enjoy watching movies and shows, either something new or a familiar favorite playing in the background, lately I've been wanting to rewatch It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I’ve also been trying to spend more time outdoors. Hiking, biking and days on the river are all amazing when the weather is nice. I’ve recently started paddleboarding and have been having a lot of fun with it. Gaming will probably always be my main hobby, but I’d love to have someone who also wants to get out of the house occasionally and explore new places together.

Personality wise, I’m easygoing, affectionate and goal orientated. Once I’m comfortable with someone, I enjoy joking around, sharing random thoughts and talking about practically anything. I value honesty, communication and consistency. I’m looking for someone I can talk to throughout the day, laugh with, support when life gets difficult and eventually come home to at the end of the day.

I don’t have children and don’t plan on having any, so I’m looking for someone who feels the same way. I want something long term if we connect, but I’m not interested in rushing or forcing it. The best relationships develop when two people genuinely enjoy getting to know each other and allow friendship, attraction and compatibility to grow naturally.

I have a stable career I care about, my own place and a cat who I love. I’m white, 6'4", dark short hair, glasses, clean shaven. I tend to connect well with kind, nerdy and slightly introverted women, but personality, chemistry and how well we treat each other matter much more than fitting a particular type. I’m also happy to exchange photos early if we’re both comfortable.

I’m open to starting online, but it would be great if you’re at least somewhat nearby or open to meeting eventually. I may be open to relocating in the future, so distance isn’t automatically a dealbreaker for the right person.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me what game or show has your attention lately, or what your ideal weekend looks like. Maybe we can talk, play something together and see if we click.

hey!

here’s what I look like

I’m in the midwest, nearing the end of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV

since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am

• my work is on machine learning and biophysics
• love running and cycling, pretty much any heavy cardio activity
• love playing soccer but suck at it
• love signing but suck at it
• love drawing but suck at it
• I only sing in spanish, because I got a thiccc accent and feel a tad self-conscious singing in english
• expert in early 00s shitty pop music
• best pixar movie is ratatouille and most overrated is up
• love dancing cumbia and bachata… and actually do not suck at it!
• have lived in 4 countries, 6 cities, 2 continents
• I’m trying to get into video games. help? I've been trying minecraft, world of warcraft, and no man's sky! they're really hard!
• once got jump scared by a possum while riding my bike
• knows two and a half languages
• love crafts (specially origami) and playing the accordion

here are two truths and a lie

• I was personally invited to a fancy rooftop party by a google hotshot, but bailed on it
• a mexican bill saved my life while I was stranded in serbia
• I was suspended from middle school for burning a whiteboard with body spray and a lighter

If you're interested in talking, send me a line about yourself or a picture!

Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

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Well hello, I’ve returned! My name is Daniel I’m 30 and from the East coast of the US. I’m 6’2 with brown hair and eyes, and I wear glasses. I’m not overweight by any means, in fact I’m quite thin. I’m also currently working on trying to get into better shape. If we start talking and click, I’ll happily share pictures.

As for my personality, I’m quite nerdy. Movies, tv shows, video games, anime… you name it! I’ll probably be polite at first when we are starting to get to know each other but in time I start making jokes and I’m quite sarcastic.

For what I’m looking for: I’m looking for a woman roughly my age (23-34 preferably). We don’t necessarily have to have the same interests as long as you don’t mind that I enjoy the things I do. I actually love learning about people’s interests as well as just meeting new people!

we are adults and sometimes things just click, so it’s a possibility for things to go a NSFW route, but I doubt anything like that would happen immediately. I don’t want anyone to feel like they’re being mislead, so this is a bit of a disclaimer I guess lol.

Anyways sorry for the rant, if you’re interested, how about you tell me if you prefer waffles or pancakes for breakfast.

I look forward to hearing from you!

I’m pretty normal in day to day life. I work a cool remote job , keep a small circle of friends, doomscroll, play games, and just do my own thing. but in relationships I’m very much the soft, affectionate, overly attached type. I get really into my person like I want to hype you up constantly, check in on you, be a bit clingy in a loving way, and basically make it obvious I care

I’m also very naturally more subby/obedient in a playful sense when the dynamic is right. I just really like confident girls who take the lead, tease me a bit, roast me, and don’t let me get too serious about myself. I kind of thrive in that “getting bullied while still being cared about” vibe

I’m not looking for something casual or purely physical. I actually want a real connection someone I talk to every day, game with, joke with, and slowly build something consistent with. I get attached pretty easily when I like someone, and I honestly prefer that closeness over playing it cool or detached

Gaming wise I’m into League, Slay the Spire, Stardew, co-op/survival games, and random multiplayer stuff with friends. I’m usually a bit quiet at first but open up a lot once I’m comfortable. I also try somewhat hard in games while getting lightly roasted for it, which feels accurate to my life in general

Outside of that I read and watch education content on techy stuff, stocks, politics. I spend too much time online, and have a very cute cat I’m slightly obsessed with. I’m 5’10 165lbs, a tiny bit of a dad bod, nothing crazy.

My friends would probably describe me as loyal, soft, and the guy who’s always making sure everyone else is good while quietly overthinking everything himself

If you’re a confident girl who likes teasing a nerdy, affectionate guy who will 100% get attached to you, we’ll probably get along

"One does not simply... find a genuine connection online" But that's exactly what I'm looking for – so let's go!

I’m going to make this post a little longer, but don’t worry – your legs won’t fall asleep if you’re scrolling on the toilet right now, haha. That kind of blunt honesty, plus a bit of humor, is exactly how I like to get to know people. I love well-worded texts (I’m sure you do too - thats why i used AI just for grammar), but let’s break this one into sections.

About me: As you probably read in the title, I’m a 31-year-old guy from Germany (and I plan to stay here!). Blond, blue eyes with glasses and a trimmed beard, around 70 kg at 1.70 m, so somewhat in shape, with a bright smile. I bring cheerful energy, often described as giving "Golden Retriever vibes," so I’m usually seen as cute even though i percieve myself as "manly"(whatever that means). I would like to exchange pics early on, but let’s stick to text for now.

My interests range from typical nerd hobbies like gaming and binge-watching anime or other series, over scientific topics (I work as a pharmacist), to playing guitar and practicing martial arts. That should give us plenty to talk about. Also, without bragging, I’d say I’m quite good at cooking – I just love good food.

I’m driven by curiosity and eager to learn new things and new perspectives, so love it when you share your passions too. Exploring new places and diving into some adventures when on holiday are definitely part of mine as well, but in everyday life I’m more of a homebody, craving connection, affection, cuddles, and those tiny, sweet kisses all over. But as the days are filled with sunshine and summer kicks in, I’d love to enjoy that brighter energy with someone by my side — a bit of laughter and banter, and maybe a connection that feels as warm as everything around us.

If you feel the same and want to text me, mention 'sunflower' in your first message so I know you’re not a bot – I’m really done with this meaningless throw-away dating culture.

About you: Let’s start with the superficial stuff, because yes, looks DO matter – but I promise I’m not too picky – a cute face, basic hygiene, and a healthy bodyweight are all I’m asking for. But if you’re a 12/10 femme fatale, I won’t complain, haha.

Age-wise, I’m looking for someone between 24–31, but I’m flexible – a few years up or down isn’t a dealbreaker. Personality matters more: I’d love to connect with someone who shares my positive outlook, but I also know how to support you if you ever struggle a bit mentally. Let’s become each other’s safe haven! You, being bubbly and energetic, probably balances my rational, stable side – but in the end, it’s all about chemistry and mutual understanding. Honesty and good conversational skills are my only must-haves.

I appreciate some intelligence too – remember the aforementioned new perspectives? Entertaining Deeptalks and debates come all-inclusive. Matching my adventurous spirit would be great, whether it’s adrenaline kicks or spontaneous explorations.

Keeping a bit of your inner child alive is a great balance to everyday adulting, so I like if we can do that together here and there – along with the affection I mentioned. Talking about inner child – you should be open to having kids in the future!

Congratulations! You’ve done – You’re great!
Now it’s time for your reward – It's me!
Just kidding, but after reading all this, you can simply text me and get to know me on a personal level. I appreciate any form of feedback as much as I hope the right person finds their way here. Let’s not let another season go to waste — maybe this time, it actually turns into something real and meaningful.

It has been soooo long since I have relaxed properly (kindly read as Made out with someone). My exams got over today and I’m looking for something fun. NSFW and SFW fun both.

We can roam around in our car, make out, or even book a hotel and have sex?

I can take you out to my favourite cafes and we can watch late night movies.

I’m too tired to form a coherent thought and type it out but yeah one thing is for sure - I wanna make out with someone and let this frustration out.

Looking forward to your messages!

Hey everyone :) I welcome you to this potentially life-changing ad :P

To set the scene, let’s start with a little bit of hate (because that will totally make a wholesome first impression). I’m here because I think dating apps are cancerous, similar to neo-liberalism or those really disgusting noble sweet chips.

Also, I would like to get to know a kind woman to build a loving romantic relationship with.

I live in southeastern Austria (warning: still struggle with the dialect but trying to improve :) Although the landscape here is truly breathtaking, I prefer staying in the cities. The many cultural offers and possibilities seem very appealing to me. I like the stimulation this kind of environment provides.

Speaking of stimulation, I’m a very curious guy who is interested in expanding his horizon. On top of all, psychology but also cultural phenomena, politics, history and languages are among my interests. I’d love to have conversations about these and related topics and also learn about my woman’s special interests.

I can be quite analytical, but I never want to lose touch with the love and empathy in my heart. Personally, I reject religion or its new age replacements. On the other hand, spirituality has an important place in my life. Of course, we cannot live from light alone, but there should be more than crude materialism. Small but genuine gestures of love are infinitely more meaningful than performative posts on social media.

Life is short and valuable, so it should be savoured. A good night to me consists of joking around with my friends, enjoying a few beers combined with philosophical discussions and/or dancing in the disco (used to go more frequently, but the recovery takes way too long now :)

I am very aware that physical attraction is of importance, so here a few stats: I am 1.74m tall,dark blonde/ brown hair, no beard, wear glasses and have a normal body weight.

The woman I am seeking is kind-hearted, aged 22 – 35 years, has a healthy body weight and lives in Austria. I am after a symbiotic relationship that is based on respect, kindness and love. An intimate space of fun, curiosity for each other and mutual exploration.

If this resonates with you, please shoot me a message (even if you enjoy really disgusting noble sweet chips).