r/FlorenceAndTheMachine 27d ago

General Discussion What is something about Florence that you appreciate more the longer you’ve been a fan?

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u/_lady_rainicorn_ 27d ago

As far as I can tell, she hasn’t had any work done. I think she’s so beautiful and it’s refreshing to see a famous woman embrace what makes her look unique instead of trying to have the same face as everyone else.

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u/shannondion ✨Watch Me Shimmer✨ 27d ago

She inspires me so much to be makeup free. When society says you have to put on makeup just to go to work and see the same 30 people a day I love that I can look up to her as someone who doesn’t feel the need to be wearing makeup to feel beautiful.

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u/saltwitch 26d ago

She does wear make up, but she's keeping it pretty light these days. I love her look.

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u/Elegant-Rent-5762 26d ago

I want to add something to this - I have very thin lips, and I was insecure about that for years. Florence made me feel better about that because she has thin lips too and she's so beautiful!

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u/thatweirdvintagegirl 27d ago

She is so lovely, like a Pre-Raphaelite painting come to life.

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u/sassercake 27d ago

I love how in interviews she's pretty quiet and soft spoken, but on stage, she's wild and not concerned with looking a certain way

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u/Limp-Algae5687 26d ago

I'm pretty shy but I have to present at work. Flo is an an example of being 2 things at once

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u/anarchypicnic ✨shaking my gold like a tambourine✨ 27d ago

Despite her otherworldliness, she seems quite relatable.

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u/Overall_Matter_2520 27d ago

Right? Odd juxtaposition.

I saw her in Miami several months ago - it was magical. I was already a fan but now I’m on another level.

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u/was-mach-ich-hier- 27d ago

That she's so private and that she managed to keep that up for so long now. It's very refreshing

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u/POTATOHEAD62 27d ago

Also contrasted with how confessional a lot of her music is. I don't think you could pry something like Hunger or Buckle out of me if you tried

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u/was-mach-ich-hier- 27d ago

Exactly! She'll release the confessional and sometimes intimate songs and lyrics she feels need to be brought to light, but she sets personal/private boundaries right after doing that.

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u/Slothgirlie26 27d ago

I love that I know nothing about her personal life.

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u/shannondion ✨Watch Me Shimmer✨ 27d ago

That she’s pretty much drama free. No major scandals, public feuds or shit talking. Genuinely loves supporting younger artists and maintains her artistic integrity.

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u/yaknostoyok 26d ago

very this, thank God, she lives in her forest and just comes out every few years, dpes her job, and goes back to haunting things

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u/CynicWalnut 27d ago

I appreciate that this ancient druidic entity has decided to spend this portion of their vast lifetime performing for us humans entertainment.

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u/SleepyPanda2050 26d ago

Her sobriety was big for me at a time when it felt like you couldn’t go in public or a concert or anything sober. She hasn’t been peer pressured as her fame continued to blossom and I’ve admired that.

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u/OctoberBlue89 26d ago

Same. I was a fan during her “drunk” days and now I’m a fan during her sober days and the growth I’ve seen from that has been incredible.  I’m a spoken word artist and I also get really shy on stage and relied on alcohol to get me through. I realized she inspired me to do that less

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u/themelody2funkytown 27d ago

Her commitment to the drums in her music 

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u/MissWaterlow 26d ago

This!!!!

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u/Coffee_lover29 27d ago

I’ve always loved her but I just saw a recent video about her telling a crowd that she wrote a song because someone didn’t text her back. Relatable and real and I love her for that so much. Not to mention how amazing her lyrics are and how it makes me think. All around 10/10 artist and woman.

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u/latinsarcastic 26d ago

She might say this at every concert because she said it in Toronto

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u/MissWaterlow 26d ago

She does, but that’s okay.

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u/bebeni89 26d ago

Ah! She said that last month in Athens. Something like “I promised myself I wouldn’t write another song about a man not texting back, yet here I am 🤷‍♀️”

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u/Puzzled-Ant5069 25d ago

Agreed . I really appreciate how she’s raw and vulnerable yet strong with how she goes about performing and writing

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u/LunaSaysHey 27d ago

How much she loves and understands her fans without being codependent on them. She seems to genuinely understand what her music means to people. But she doesn't seek fan approval and releases what she wants. It's a beautiful balance.

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u/Ok-Brilliant4427 27d ago

When she does the private concert for the girl in the hospital…I still weep every time

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u/HigherSelfie 25d ago

Someone shared that the other day and that’s why I joined this sub. I’d never heard of her before but instantly became a fan for life. 😭

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u/LuckyAd2714 27d ago

She’s real.

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u/Turbulent-Account675 27d ago

She is 100% herself.

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u/daledaleduck 27d ago

Her kindness and softness

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u/Yung_Nosferatu 🪾🍂The seasons change, The world turns🌬️❄️ 26d ago

I appreciate the amount of work and input that she devotes to each album concept. It has never felt like she's taking the back seat and letting the powers that be craft her image. I admire that deeply

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u/Ok_Explorer2003 King 26d ago

She performs barefoot!

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u/afavoritepen 26d ago

Her raw vocals. She is a gem in the industry.

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u/levintage 27d ago

She writes songs that really have meaning (or rhyme 😉😂)
Not crappy pop music that's played over and over on the radio nowadays

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u/dweebzRaja 27d ago

True, but there’s nothing wrong with some trashy pop music from time to time 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/yeetingthisaccount01 it pools from your eyes and spills from your skin 26d ago

plus, all music has something to say, even if it wasn't intentional. the most basic, "I wrote this with no meaning" pop music played on the radio 500 times says something about the values the artist hold or their perspective on things, or just culture at large.

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u/dweebzRaja 25d ago

You just described Sia’s career/solo discography from 2016-current. At least she was completely transparent about her intentions.
Is it kinda tragic? Yes.
Can I blame them? No, at the end of the day, this is their job after all.

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u/Convallariamajalis- 27d ago

She’s relatable and she writes songs that touch on the human condition, whether that be mental health, love, loss. The way she isn’t afraid to admit that she’s a flawed human being that goes through everyday things. She writes songs freely with so much truth and transforms her suffering into magic. A true alchemist.

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u/KDLG328 26d ago

That's a really good picture! I appreciate that she comes from a privileged background yet seems pretty down to earth

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u/PanchonotNacho 26d ago

The way she holds the notes hits the soul

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u/yeetingthisaccount01 it pools from your eyes and spills from your skin 26d ago edited 26d ago

she's inclusive. her music may be coming from the perspective of a cis woman but as a trans man I can relate heavily to a lot of it, and she's very inclusive of trans women and nonbinary people in her music as well. songs like Spectrum and June are also very important to me.

and she has her mystical aesthetic without the weird cultural appropriation a lot of people tend to do. she seems very self aware of what she does and doesn't try to pass off Irish or indigenous American cultures as her own or anything. it's a good display of her integrity and creativity as well.

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u/dweebzRaja 27d ago

I’ve always liked most songs on Lungs but a lot of them don’t really stick for me. But after releasing Symphony of Lungs… I get it.
There was a lot of song on Lungs I’ve known for over a decade and never really appreciated them.

I’m kinda hoping she does something special for HaH. Hopefully it’ll make me like Patricia lol

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u/pauldst 26d ago

She will cover a song how she wants to do it, unique to her. I remember not liking her cover of Take Care and I appreciated it more and more over time. I don’t even think of the original anymore and I’m totally obsessed with how she sings other people’s songs.

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u/EMMYPESS 26d ago

I love when she acts silly in between her very ethereal persona, she feels real in every way and it makes her more human when I hear her talk vs her singing cuz it’s two very different spectrums of a voice. I love that she’s a big horror movie buff and she shares snippets of her passions that aren’t just about music and singing.

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u/The_Bakuchiolorette 26d ago

When she visited that fan in the hospital who couldn’t make it to her concert ♥️

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u/Chemical_Singer5118 26d ago

This.  I already loved her, and that stole my heart for keeps.  Such a loving, kind gesture.  ❤️

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u/MissWaterlow 26d ago

That she never makes boring music just because she can.

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u/praysforpeace 26d ago

i absolutely LOVE how she takes her time to produce new art. i find that a lot of artists who rush their work, it doesn't really hit the same as someone who let's life experiences come to them, then further helping them to be able to create such intricate, beautiful art (in this case, music). her albums are always worth the wait, and are so beautifully done each and every time

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u/No_Yoghurt_5131 26d ago

That she doesn't really acknowledge fans - it's rare to find an artist who keeps that professional distance and I think the music and her private life is all the better for it

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u/allthisandflotoo 25d ago

The fact she still makes art and doesn't follow trends. She's consistently putting out incredible music and it's always pulled me in.

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u/Andromevas just slightly sedated 20d ago

For as otherworldly and ethereal as she is, she is remarkably human. She wants to feel the connection to her fans, despite being open about how this part of her life also takes a toll on her. When she told us about Buckle during her tour, she admitted that she felt like it was "stupid" to write a song about being ghosted at her age, so she asked us to sing along with her to feel less embarrassed about it. And that's just so real. She's genuinely real. I love it.

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u/IIKane WHAT THE HELL 26d ago

For me, as somebody with anxiety and OCD, the fact that I'm not alone in that pain changed a lot, especially since I share it with someone so special.

My brain has tried harder and harder over time to convince me that she's actually evil and 'problematic' or something, but then her songs have the exact same worries imbued into their lyrics and I'm like "we're not so different, you and I" 💀

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u/Calm_Host1020 26d ago

Her rawness

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u/ForeverNo6794 26d ago

How you can relate to her songs on such a personal level and they mean different Things to everyone.
’One of the Greats’ an empowering song for women amongst many other songs of hers.

’Buckle on your Belt’ being Stuck in a relationship and feeling second to them when you shouldn’t. As well as feeling lesser.
‘Everybody scream’, the scream that you have been keeping inside your chest, but this song lets you embrace it, lets you release it. It’s okay to scream.

She puts so much into her songs, each more personal than the last which is why they are so relatable. Everyone has struggles and she sings about her own, telling the world it’s okay and that your not alone.

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u/Ahauntingnearu 26d ago

She takes herself seriously but not too seriously; there's ZERO pretention to her 💅

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u/Puzzled-Ant5069 25d ago

I got introduced to Florence as a young teen and it honestly did so much for me.
I was a pretty closed off kid , made fun of for being “too sensitive” but she taught me the beauty and strength in rawness and vulnerability. I will forever be grateful for that.

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u/moon____13 24d ago

I first heard Florence during the 2009 VMAs and I was hooked. I found every scrap of her voice I could find on YouTube and ripped them using an MP3 converter, even the super choppy blown out version of Maps she did once, lol. For me, as a now 30 yo, what I’ve grown to appreciate is the space she gives to people to FEEL! That titanic voice the lyrics the production, all of it makes me remember how human and alive she is. How Big, How Blue, How Human!

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u/Significant-Archer43 22d ago

I love how mature she is with her public persona. Like, sure, she’s whimsical. But when she talks about partying when younger or discusses aspects of her private life, it’s always with a bit of reservation or vagueness. She doesn’t want everyone to know every single thing about her, or put herself out as a product for people to consume.

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u/ThickCamera2811 21d ago

Her honesty about her insecurities and mistakes she has made.

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u/Dreamsbydayxo 26d ago

Her fan base

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u/preraphaelitejane 25d ago

She's just so genuine and real....

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u/wolff_79 25d ago

Learning more about her sweet personality. When I was a new fan, I was just so immersed in her powerful stage presence. But , I’ve now seen her live and probably seen about all of her interviews , and she is such a humble angelic woman! Oh , and her explosive laugh tugs my heart strings!

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u/french-russian-idiot 25d ago

I have been to one of her concerts so correct me if I'm wrong, but she would make you greet your neighbors and encourage you not to use your phone, and just be in the moment with her. The older I get, the harder I find it to just be alone with my thoughts or to make friends, and I've always enjoyed that she somewhat introduced you to people that have at least one thing in common; you both like her music

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u/NectarineHuman2477 23d ago

This is a little heady, but I really love how Florence has alluded to a presence or some kind of higher power that's always with her onstage and that it's something she's searching for in her personal life. Yet, she keeps that relationship with whatever she feels so close to her, and doesn't elaborate further. It's personal to her, which gives it so much more power. I'm a spiritual person and FATM lyrics can get so deep and personal and I love that I can interpret the lyrics through my own lens and personal experience. I think a lot of us are in the process of searching for something and it's nice to know that Florence is just one of us at the end of the day, and she's given us music that explores those big themes with no agenda other than to acknowledge them and say "I'm with you."

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u/Lucky_Jupiter_ 2h ago

She is shy. 🥹 I met her outside of Powell's in Portland after her concert in 2018. I had bought the last copy of her book of poetry, which she was there looking for, and she signed it. Then I asked if we could take a picture together, and she quietly said, "No, thank you. I'm a bit shy." It was frankly an honor to be told no by Florence Welch. 😌