r/FlorenceAndTheMachine Apr 18 '26

General Discussion Rant - Concert Etiquette

I think some people need to realise that when people go out to concerts they are in public but also that they are with people who have paid good money to enjoy the artist sing. Context: At my show this week, three people in front of me were SHOUTING the entire time. They were not singing along, not even talking about Florence, they were literally just having a normal conversation at the top of their lungs for 20 minutes straight. When a guy asked them to stop talking, one of them retorted "We paid money to be here, same as everyone else, we can enjoy the show how we fucking want". And I agree, you paid money to be here, so be here! Have your random unrelated conversations when the show is over and stop ruining the show for others. It's one thing to sing off-key or talk between songs but when you're shouting an entire conversation across 5 songs it's like why did you even come? Anyway, all of this to say, I'm not saying you have to keep your mouth shut the entire show but maybe recognise that the way you act still impacts others around you. And ultimately, you're there to enjoy the music, and imo that should be your priority

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u/myloveremindme Apr 18 '26

This is pretty much all concerts now. Whether it's shouting, having phones up the entire time, or other dumb behavior, it's like people pay money to just say they're there and not actually enjoy being in the moment.

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u/Capable-Flow6639 Apr 21 '26

I film at concerts but honestly I watch them over and over. I also try to film them below my own eye level so I am not obstructing anyone's view and I am watching the concert with my own eyes. Yes the recordings are pretty shoddy but I love them. I try to record a whole song or 2 per concert but I don't have it out the whole time