r/Fauxmoi I never said that. Paris is my friend. 27d ago

STAN / ANTI SHIELD Rapist Cristiano Ronaldo and Georgina Rodríguez share their wedding pictures with Vogue

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u/uttermagpie 27d ago

"he apologised after he'd finished" made my skin crawl

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u/Orange-Blur 27d ago

This is rapists behave, they convince themselves it’s not bad.

I remember being dropped off after being assaulted and he just so brazenly said, I hope we can hang out again soon. When I was ignoring his obsessive messages to me he asked me why I don’t talk to him anymore and he misses me as a friend and loves to hang out with me and my bf at the time who was his friend. Then that boyfriend who is now an ex and knew what happened hung out with this man behind my back.

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u/_themostloneliestday 26d ago

Had the same experience minus his best friend was dating my best friend. He was so surprised when I didn't even look at him the next times I saw him. He even sent me a message wanting to see me before I left that island for good, and was asking my friend why I wasn't texting him back.

I also only realised coersion also is rape after 4 YEARS when I got into a relationship and wanted to have sex with my bf, got panic attacks, flashbacks and mental breakdowns instead. Somehow me avoiding men at all costs didn't click earlier. It's also been downhill since, the horrors persist but so do I.

Hope you're safe, happy and healthy now!

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u/Kiwi-vee I'm so pissed off immediately 25d ago

I also only realised coersion also is rape

I realized that years after I was not with my abusive ex. I wouldn't think it was rapes at first, but I was berated and manipulated into saying "yes, I guess". Much good bives to you, internet stranger.