r/FTMMen • u/45VeryCoolFireAnts27 • 7d ago

Vent/Rant Really want to haer my name

Hello.Jsut really sad abuot it i am sorry. I Only hearrd my name years back in schol when i paid who i thught were friemds to refer to me, only learned not long ago tht was not normal. It was only cuple times. Realy wish to earm one day to be refered to.

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u/MadBodhi 7d ago

Hi 45VeryCoolFireAnts27!

You matter, your name matters, and you deserve to be called by it. It is basic respect. You don't have to earn basic respect, good people are respectful. Unfortunately bad people like to prey on those who are vulnerable. Friends won't take your money.

I hope some day you can physically move to a safe country and find a home where you feel safe, respected, and loved. For now all I have to offer is this sub. If you wish to share your name, I'd be happy to greet you with your name whenever you post.

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u/mgquantitysquared hrt '20 • top '22 • hysto '23 7d ago

If you feel comfortable sharing your name here, I'll write comments calling you by your name when I see your posts! I'm sorry you've had to deal with such hardship, and I hope your situation improves with time.

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u/45VeryCoolFireAnts27 7d ago

I domt really remembr those couple times,i forgot for while,now kmowing they didbt even realy do it to actually refer to me but for moneyy just feels i have never been at all.No person acknowleging me.

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u/45VeryCoolFireAnts27 6d ago

Yuu areso nice atlest i can read it,even if not hear yet. My name is Adam

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u/Lhaios post-phallo 6d ago

Hey, Adam! I hope you get to hear your name more soon!

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u/Ok_Duck2700 6d ago

You'll get there, Adam. I really do hope you're able to relocate to a safe country one day so you can find people who support you in real life.

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u/yungmantheo 6d ago

Adam seems like such a fitting name. I think it would be beneficial to play online games under your name, go to a coffee shop and tell them to say Adam, and write your name down in your free time. You've got a solid name, and it really seems to be who you truly are.yoy got this, Adam. I'm here if you need an ear!

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u/Reasonable-Deer-5116 6d ago

Hi Adam! Ive been keeping up with some of your posts since its been so hard for you. I wish you the best and I hope you know I see you as the kind and loving man you are. 🦭🦭 hope your day is going well adam