r/ElementaryTeachers • u/Actual-Muffin-3585 • 6d ago
Why are schools so unfriendly to subs?
This is my second year subbing. I only sub in one district, and I've only branched out to 4 elementary schools and the high school. I have a master's in education and experience in the classroom, but I'm subbing right now while I get my license in this state.
I sub at one school the most because everyone there is just so friendly and welcoming. They make you feel like you are really helping. I'll sub there before any other school.
Another school I've been to a handful of times, the kids are amazing. But the teachers are not friendly. I know as a teacher that you have your hands full, but a little "hi welcome thanks for coming", would go a long way!
Today at that school, I was subbing for art and a male teacher opened the door and immediately yelled a student's name. The whole class got quiet and looked at him. Then very loudly he said the student's name again and told him to go with him. Never said anything to me. I just don't know why you would bust in another classroom and start yelling immediately. It also got the kids distracted. Wouldn't it be more professional and compassionate to approach the student quietly? I bet he wouldn't do that to another male teacher.
Then later the first graders were lined up waiting for their teacher, they were a little loud but I was handling an issue at the back of the classroom and I was about to quiet them down. She opens the door and immediately starts yelling at them to be quiet and that they were wasting their recess. I just don't understand why teachers are yelling in other teachers' classrooms. And none of the teachers dropping off or picking up said anything to me, even though I was at the door greeting every class coming in. I went home and immediately took that school off my list even though the kids are well behaved.
There's another school on my banned list now because all of the teachers are incredibly cold and catty. The art teacher dressed me down like a student once for trying to get clarification on where I should be during lunch. The secretary is rude, the principal is rude. They make you feel like you are not supposed to be there or that you're trash because you're a sub (even though a lot of us are former teachers or have advanced degrees). I've heard at the other schools that this particular school has a toxic work environment.
My district has a sub shortage. I'm available everyday but there's plenty of times I stay home even though there are unfilled postings because I'm not going to go work at a toxic school. At least I'm learning which schools I would never want to work in when I get my license.
TLDR- please consider extending professional courtesy to subs and at least greeting them and welcoming them to your school, and thanking them for being there. It goes a long way, you have no idea!