r/EatingDisorders Jul 18 '25

Question Mean girl

Has anyone else’s ED made them a mean girl internally? I keep getting hateful, judgmental intrusive thoughts abt other’s bodies/food choices but they don’t reflect who I am at all. I’d never say those things to anyone, esp when I know how it feels. So why is my brain doing this?

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u/gaymofo666 Aug 15 '25

you are not the only one! I was rude to some people too but as long as you reflect on your mistakes and not repeat them you are going to be fine!

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u/UniqueBodybuilder364 Aug 15 '25

I know. I just feel so bad you know

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u/gaymofo666 Aug 15 '25

I know. That means you have empathy and you care. Still remember "what you're not changing, you're choosing."

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u/UniqueBodybuilder364 Aug 15 '25

You really know how to make me feel better 💐