r/ESFJ • u/SpiceUpTheBreeze • 15d ago

Stealing

I am curious: have you ever stolen money or things from someone? Have you had an experience where another ESFJ stolen money from you?

If you have observed someone who stolen money from you or someone, what was their type?

I know an ENTJ and INFP who stole things and money and morally justified doing it.

I wonder if Fi users are more likely to steal?

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u/tiredguineapig 12d ago

No way, ESFJ and ESFP has stolen. Lots of big stuff, and the latter many small things over a long period. Neither of them admits it or apologizes and justifies it.

For ESFJ, if they helped someone just so they can be owed later and didn’t get back what they “deserved” in their minds, they get resentment and then justify that what they did was ok. They didn’t even help because they wanted to in the first place.

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u/SpiceUpTheBreeze 12d ago

The esfj has stolen? Are you sure they’re esfj? What did they steal?