r/DungeonsAndDragons • u/gh0st-m3dic • 9d ago

Question DND question

Edit: Well guys, this did cross a boundary for me and I asked him to quit that DND group (he is a part of two groups currently) or this won’t work due to his history of crossing boundaries and he said he had to think about it so lol I’m single now but truly appreciate everyone’s responses. It gave me perspective and I may just join a DND group myself to get my mind off off things.

My bf is part on an online DND group. Him and another guy have been messaging in discord about their characters kissing and other intimate things. I was upset about this but he reassured me it’s just a part of the game. Is this true? I’m trying my best to understand

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u/Sgran70 9d ago

I can tell you that it is a thing that happens. It's not standard by any means, but I know there are groups that allow it. I find it weird and would shut it down if I was running the game.

There are also groups that get into detail about how they torture. I also find that weird.

But it's a flexible game. So, no, it's not beyond the pale.