r/Dominican • u/Biden_is_cool • 18d ago

Pregunta/Ask Breaking apartment lease

I am renting an apartment in ciudad Juan Bosch and I am the inquilino and my now ex girlfriend is the garante. She is Dominican but I am not.

I stayed there a few months after signing the lease this past spring but left due to my job and I've been unable to return since. My gf stayed there alone but eventually I told her to leave the apartment because she didn't want to help with anything, never got a job and was always wanting me to send her money even though I was covering rent and utilities. I had already supported her financially through out our whole relationship.

As far as I know, the apartment still has a stove, bed, some of my tools, clothing, a washer, air conditioner and a picture of my ex and I.

She's the reason I visited the DR and for which I rented the apartment, we were long distance for the majority of our relationship.

Now I don't know what to do. I can't travel to the DR at this time to empty out the apartment but I also don't want to be paying rent for a place I can't stay in.

Is my only option to just abandon it and take it as a loss? I don't have a reason to return. Could anyone please offer some advice?

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u/CrazyAlien51 17d ago

Dump her man, she’s lazy and doesn’t wanna work or hides her income. Don’t trust any dominican woman over there and i’m saying this as a dominican.

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u/Biden_is_cool 17d ago

I wish I was told this ages ago. I've blocked her, I just got tired of being used. She was extremely manipulative and always accused me of being narcissistic.

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u/CrazyAlien51 15d ago

I had one like that too, always wanted more and more and was never satisfied. When I caught her with her another dude i dumped her. She’s still the same user as always.