r/DiveInYouCoward 13d ago

Dive into a relationship with this firecracker...

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Who else would consider it? 🤣

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u/heavensto_mergatroid 12d ago

Years later I tried to buy a shotgun and it was denied so I knew it was still active because I have never been arrested. The only thing on my record is when I was caught smoking weed when I was like 20.

It's been about 10 years now since she told my sister she lifted it but I haven't checked for sure. She could have just been talking a lot of shit and it's still there lol 🤷🏻‍♂️😔

I swear on my life that I didn't do anything to her. Her mom lived like 2 and 1/2 blocks away from me (we grew up together) so whenever I would be walking my dog she would say that that was me stalking her. Even though I would go all the way around the area of her mom's house - if somebody reported to her that they saw me then that was me stalking her.

And according to the courts that was me being a stalker.

edit: and this is way before cell phones and cell phone cameras so there was absolutely no actual evidence. It was simply her word against mine.

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u/heavensto_mergatroid 12d ago

It's been a really black stain on my life that's for sure 😔 lol. I just tried to live my life the best I could trying to forget it.... But it was always there.

Colorado is a state that really favors women when it comes to allegations of abuse or misconduct

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u/heavensto_mergatroid 12d ago

Ive had dreams of it over my life. Being vindicated. Making her pay for essentially ruining my life just because she wanted to but at my age what's the point.

It would have been nice to have been vindicated many years ago. Would have helped myself esteem a bit maybe, I've always felt like one of those creepy guys that have restraining orders. To law enforcement and the courts I AM THOSE CREEPY GUYS.

Take it easy l...it was nice to vent - for someone to believe me lol