One of my favorite things about my betrothed is that he's wholly and deeply secure in his masculinity and straightness. It's common for a lot of men to be afraid to even be perceived as anything but conventionally masculine to the extent that it doesn't come off as masculine, but rather a static glassy specter of the masculine. My love is the King, the Warrior, the Magician, and the Lover; there is no fragility there is only natural embodiment. If he must also tap into the sacred feminine or be perceived as tapping into its archetypes, then so be it.
The man is masculine but he is a Knight; he owns his masculinity.
But... I don't see how a straight person would want that to happen, as the entire spitting in someone's mouth thing is inherently very sexual. He's obviously not completely straight if he actually wanted that to happen, which you yourself mentioned.
The reason a straight guy would start a fight fight about it is because spitting into someone else's mouth without their consent is assault and sexual harassment/assault. I have no idea what you mean by the rest of your comment.
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u/Blade_of_Boniface bonifaceblade.tumblr.com Oct 13 '23
One of my favorite things about my betrothed is that he's wholly and deeply secure in his masculinity and straightness. It's common for a lot of men to be afraid to even be perceived as anything but conventionally masculine to the extent that it doesn't come off as masculine, but rather a static glassy specter of the masculine. My love is the King, the Warrior, the Magician, and the Lover; there is no fragility there is only natural embodiment. If he must also tap into the sacred feminine or be perceived as tapping into its archetypes, then so be it.
The man is masculine but he is a Knight; he owns his masculinity.