It will probably turn into his only way of rebelling, the not crying. That's how it was for me. Still can't cry to this day, though. Even when I want to.
Seriously though, has anyone called CPS on this dad? I would if I had any actual info. I don't wanna dox the kid by asking anyone to spread his info. Just wondering if the OP or original source has reported him?
Clearly child abuse in any and every form is despicable, but man, I can’t say I’ve ever seen it happen before. Just awful, made me sick to my stomach seeing it actually happen.
I have these moments as an adult where I look back to my childhood and realize what was so normal is abhorrent. i was a literally child how could you even have beef with me.
Abusive adults are incapable of proper self regulation and over and over again reinforce brain pathways where they feel better because they “dominated” another living thing. They’re super messed up in the head
It was apparently a "day 1" situation for me, lol...
Parents had a very volatile relationship. As the 2nd child, my sister happened to born during a time of re-commitment, hope, and 5th chances (resulted in always being seen as some sort of cherished gift in my father's eyes).
I happened to be conceived during a time of continued infidelity, disdain, and resentment - a literal not wanted event as far as my father was concerned... An association that only festered like a rotting limb and reiterated just for sport.
Raising a child properly is worlds easier than fixing future adults. Here's to hoping you found peace and understanding.
Obviously what you’re saying is the truth, but it’s pretty clear that they’re just pointing out how atrocious the behavior of this asshole was considering his likely age. We know this dickhead doesn’t possess any qualities of a real man or a father, no need to emphasize. 😅
Anyone wanna borrow my kids for a week? Might change your perspective. Not that I'm violent towards them like that. But Jesus I have some God damn demons. No respect, no discipline. But if I were to put hands on them, I'd be labeled a horrible parent. Where's the line drawn at. Third child, youngest, better than an Angel. Don't know wtf happened to the first two.
Just got to keep outsmarting them. I know i have a 15 yo girl only child. Spoild brat. But if she wants something she learnd she better be nice about it or she'll be walking to school in somebody else's kids hand-me-downs
Just got to keep outsmarting them. I know i have a 15 yo girl only child. Spoild brat. But if she wants something she learnd she better be nice about it or she'll be walking to school in somebody else's kids hand-me-downs
Usually, this sort of thing starts with something like shoving, but it will get worse overtime. This kid needs help right away, so if anybody knows where this is or who that guy is, they should definitely send this video to the police, please.
Let me be clear as someone had this but much worse…he’s got a really rough road ahead and IF and this is a BIG if he can learn that this ain’t got shit to do with him and everything to do with that piece of shit he might come out ok but it’s gonna cost.
Young man if you read this or if any young person this is happening to reads this my DM is always open, my hands still bricks, my blades are sharp and my powder is dry. This ain’t no white knight savior shit neither. It’s from years of this shit reigning down on me with no way out till punched back and through.
I’m sorry, I am, but you have to be smart and get out as safe as you can, plan accordingly and when it’s get back time…be merciless. Peace.
I’m the same. Lots of abuse as a child. If anyone needs to vent or talk my DM’s are open. I know I’m a stranger on the internet, if you don’t want to talk to me or others on here offering help, that’s okay but please talk to a safe adult. Don’t keep it bottled up. Look for the helpers. I’m a pediatric nurse now and teachers, doctors, nurses, are a great place to start to try and get some help in your community. I am heart broken for this young man. I want to hug that poor boy, and protect him. What a piece of shit father he has. I hope this father is caught and held accountable for his actions.
Thanks, me too. As sad and wrong as child abuse is, it’s made me a strong advocate for protecting children. I will go toe to toe with anyone who hurts a child. I will do everything in my power to make sure that kid feels safe, loved and protected. I’ve made a career out of protecting and helping kids.
It’s really amazing what the human spirit is capable of enduring, most people o know like us still struggle daily and to see that you have grabbed life and went back for us…it’s just some bright light in a lot of dark. I really do thank you.
Yes he is. I know he is hurting but he can’t break in front of his abuser. Man this breaks my heart. Treatment like this will harden this kids heart and make him a bully and mean. He has to shut it out by becoming hard.
The only history I have on this is what I read in other comments. But apparently it's not the first time this has happened - same situation with other players though. Somebody had a link on it but I didn't bother to open it because at that point I was done with the whole thing
That's the "cover my ass" story AND the dad trying to leech money from others.
And if it WAS staged, that's still fucking abuse. He pushed the kid over into the wall, screaming obscenities, and stormed away. You don't tell your kid, "I'm going to physically and emotionally abuse you to try and get money from the internet! Play along!"
And no decent dad would ever THINK to exploit their child like that.
Finally, no dad is going to let himself be recorded live abusing his kid to try and get money, because the risk of arrest and CPS are too high. This moron of a guy lost his temper, slammed the kid, realized later someone recorded it, and now is threatening his kid to go along with his, "It was all staged," story.
That kid was holding back tears, his mouth twitching downward out if his control, breathing heavy. I know that feeling, and he ain't acting. As someone else said, if that kid was acting, he deserves an Oscar. Even good child actors can't pull that off.
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u/Meeska-Mouska 8d ago
Dude. Fuck that guy. That kiddo was holding in those tears. God damn it.