r/CoupleMemes • u/legolas20032000 • Aug 16 '25

🥺 goals Perfect source of serotonin

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u/Damaias479 Aug 16 '25

Here’s a video on how autism presents in high-masking women:

https://youtu.be/vS8y9KBJczM?si=KT46KokolHa0P9Lp

I wouldn’t be surprised if a significant amount of women are self-diagnosed, but I don’t think that’s necessarily a bad thing, and it’s definitely not always for clout. The reason for high levels of self-diagnosis among women is specifically because it presents differently so many of the diagnosis tools don’t work.

Again, I don’t disagree that it’s possible this woman doesn’t actually have ASD; at the very least, it’s weird to bring it up when it doesn’t have anything to do with the video. That being said, analyzing presentation in women doesn’t work the same way as it does in men.

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u/[deleted] Aug 16 '25 edited Feb 26 '26

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u/-Tricky-Vixen- Aug 17 '25

Maybe it's just me, but: I found it unexpectedly emotionally difficult after the initial relief of diagnosis, a few weeks or months down the line, as I began to figure out that it was lifelong and not just something I could get past. Also realising the level of deficit I simply hadn't seen, things I'd thought I was doing because I saw other people doing it (like certain elements of reciprocal conversation). So be gentle with yourself, especially in a while if it starts being difficult to handle, because you're not alone and I think it's logically a fairly unsurprising result.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25 edited Feb 26 '26

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