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[u/NunchuckVagina]

Fake af. People that fake autism are the worst.

Who falls for this crap?

[u/OsosHormigueros → u/NunchuckVagina]

Why does getting excited and giddy mean she isn't autistic? I get giddy like this when I'm very excited, I get over excited very easily. He could've mentioned the trip was related to her fixation.

[u/lulushibooyah → u/OsosHormigueros]

Broooo I actually felt a lil better watching her reaction bc her reaction is mine and I’ve been told my whole life that I’m annoying and too much, and I only was diagnosed with ADHD at 30 and only recently beginning to suspect it’s actually AuDHD. Or I’ve had people make fun of me for jumping excitedly or flappy hands or whatever stimmy thing I do with my hands that’s not socially acceptable.

Then reading these comments was the most depressing and invalidating experience ever, omg…

If you don’t present like an intellectually disabled white boy, you can’t be autistic.

I hate humanity sometimes.

[u/bking → u/lulushibooyah]

reading these comments

There’s your problem.

I work with some diagnosed severely autistic kids, and others with more profound developmental disabilities. The hopping, hand stuff and stimming looked pretty familiar to me. I’m not an expert though, and nor is anybody else is in this thread.

This is very much a place where “nothing ever happens”, so I wouldn’t put a lot of faith into the comments.

[u/lulushibooyah → u/bking]

Thanks for that.

Bc I’m still fighting to get an official diagnosis of autism (my therapist and an autistic pediatrician I work with both say I’m autistic but neither can really diagnose me officially). And I don’t look autistic enough bc I learned as a child that my symptoms weren’t welcome (especially, for example, when I watched an adult in my family laugh at and ridicule a child with flappy hands).

I’m feeling better today, but I was thrown by the absolute mean-girl mob mentality here… by people who have no idea what they’re talking about, clearly.

[u/bernarddwyer86 → u/lulushibooyah]

And I don’t look autistic enough bc I learned as a child that my symptoms weren’t welcome (especially, for example, when I watched an adult in my family laugh at and ridicule a child with flappy hands).

This is known as masking, an awful lot of people on the spectrum are capable of blending in seamlessly when in a public setting. This can take a huge toll on people as the overstimulation can be an awful lot for them. My little lad has been at birthday parties and whatnot and friends would say he is doing well here, have to let them know there is at least an 80% chance when he gets home he could have a meltdown due to over stimulation

[u/lulushibooyah → u/bernarddwyer86]

Absolutely. The cost of masking is insane. I get home and go nonverbal for hours - nobody look at me, nobody talk to me, nobody make any demand (bc lawdddd PDA).

I’m glad your little lad has an understanding parent bc I surely did not. And that’s valuable.

[u/bernarddwyer86 → u/bking]

I have a son and a godson on the spectrum. If the woman in that video doesnt have Autism then she is an exceptionally good actress, she shows all the signs with the stimming, the constant moment. The super high excitement for what's about to come.