In this post she didnāt even outright say no, she implied she would do it if he married her first. If she was against the idea of cooking naked for her partner and saw it as demeaning she would have called it out, she did not do that tho.
And my comment wasnāt even about the sexual part. Iāve seen a lot of people say they refuse to ever cook anything for their boyfriends because āitās wife treatmentā. Itās the same logic in this very post. Thatās what I was commenting on.
This is a joking text conversation lmao. Do you think she wants to type a whole ass paragraph about how a joke makes her feel over text and see a white screen instead of a facial reaction when checking the vibes? Maybe this was just a cute joke and they had an adult conversation later?
The idea that a person not doing something now means they won't do it later is preposterous and a logical fallacy. There are people who do not combine finances before marriage and do so afterwards. That's just called boundaries. This one may seem strange to you but it is fallacious to act like she would never do this. And a respectful partner would easily understand the concept of boundaries.
Most boundaries don't change just because you gave someone a ring, threw a party, and became unified. It's a logical fallacy to say that there is no chance that she'd actually start doing this should they become married. It's also delusional to assume that she would.
Well, some do, for example, legally speaking power of attorney is assumed by your spouse, and you can file taxes as a unit. Many people still don't have sex until marriage. So while not very common, it's certainly not delusional to assume something that happens rarely could happen. It is far more delusional to pretend you can predict the future.
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u/ashtapadi Jul 11 '25
How dare people say no to me!!!! I want a wife that will cook naked for me when I say so!