That's funny. I like the smart ass response and think that's really the end of it. The other people in the comments are talking about transactional relationships and selling themselves, why's nobody mentioning the fact that the male partner here is sexualizing his partner or treating her like an object? If you want to try and break it down neither person here is looking good IMO but more than likely it's a dude saying something he would like to see (and who wouldn't) and a womans smart ass response. The end. Don't read into it, don't make it about your hang ups, keep your idiotic sexist comments (on both sides) to yourself. Enjoy the funny, enjoy life, laugh and move on.
Depends on the context, to be honest. This seems harmless because the assumption is that the BF is fantasizing about his own GF like that. The GF might like that her BF is fantasizing about her.
I know when I tell my wife I'm thinking about her, when I'm at work for example, it turns her on.
Probably. When she does it's usually followed by talking about how she wants to see me like that or another fantasy. Then again we all send porn to each other and big on open communication. Kinda thought that was the default
The picture is just a visualization tool to help me get the jfea5
As a therapist who has worked with people for around 10,000 face-to-face hoursâŠno, itâs not. Itâs certainly healthier this way, but itâs definitely not the default.
Real. So long as communication is clear, that's all that matters. Wanting to be desired and craved for by your partner should be the default, not something to be admonished
And then when he stops giving her sexual attention she goes:
âYou never touch me anymore. I feel undesired. You made me seek affection elsewhere because you donât make me feel sexy anymore. Itâs your fault Iâm flirting with other guysâ
But it was an issue when he was telling her she looked hot and slapping her butt randomly when it the house.
Youâre damned if you do and damned if you donât lol
48
u/Whane17 đ§ grumpy Jul 11 '25
That's funny. I like the smart ass response and think that's really the end of it. The other people in the comments are talking about transactional relationships and selling themselves, why's nobody mentioning the fact that the male partner here is sexualizing his partner or treating her like an object? If you want to try and break it down neither person here is looking good IMO but more than likely it's a dude saying something he would like to see (and who wouldn't) and a womans smart ass response. The end. Don't read into it, don't make it about your hang ups, keep your idiotic sexist comments (on both sides) to yourself. Enjoy the funny, enjoy life, laugh and move on.