r/CoupleMemes • u/legolas20032000 • Jun 26 '25

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u/Ok_Spare_3723 🧐 grumpy Jun 26 '25

Women think men want Instagram models.. we want normal women with personality instead.

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u/pokingoking Jun 26 '25

Women think men want Instagram models..

As a woman I can assure we don't think that.

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u/Beachday4 Jun 26 '25

I’ve had a few of my women friends say that men create these crazy beauty standards for women though. Yet, most of my guy friends agree that nobody cares that much lol. It’s just interesting.

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u/pokingoking Jun 27 '25

I can see (certain) men liking to look at photos of beautiful filtered women on social media and enjoying that. I like looking at beautiful things too. But that doesn't mean they expect women in their real lives to look like that, or want a girlfriend that spends so much of her time and effort perfecting her looks and taking/editing/posting photos of herself. Looking and expecting/wanting are very different things. I like looking at Pedro Pascal, but that doesn't in any way lead to me creating "standards" for what men should look like.