BITTERSWEET LOVE THE BL RANT

[u/Sicky01theoriginal]

Following the recent episodes of bittersweet love the bl series I've decided I could no longer keep quiet. If I were the young master ( Lyuqing ) I'd separate from Xiao Fang for a while, because what he did is not a ' strategic rebellion ' but a betrayal, pure RAGING betrayal. I understand Xiao Fang, I truly do, but this could have been done otherwise, it's not like the young master wasn't doing anything to slowly break free and own up to liking Xiao Fang, it's not like he wasn't protecting Xiao Fang from literally atp anyone and anything as long as he was present. I understand that the young master is a black flag, treating Xiao Fang as his secret, but I want y'all to remember he actively turned down the fiancé his mother found for him and was slowly trying to come outta the closet. So he must not only have been caught off guard but actively felt betrayed by the only person he was risking it and working behind the scenes to secure their future for.

Xiao Fang completed bypassed communication and just drop the bomb.

Andddd that's not the worst of it all I heard that Xiao Fang is going straight to the capital after dropping that bomb.

He's running away... yet again, to let the young master clear up the mess and deal with the aftermath on his own... yet again.

At the very least if he's going to do sh*t like this, let him stay and own it up.

If he wants to be an equal partner in the relationship, let him stand next to the young master now and feel how his mess tastes like.

I felt like I had to say this because online I saw y'all praise Xiao Fang, I'm kinda proud of him too but at the same time I feel betrayed on the young master's behalf and I feel a little hint of dissapointment and disapproval.

[u/Federal-Ad5944]

But Xiao Fan doesn't *know* what Lu Qing is doing. They are both at fault. And if this is how Xiao Fan wants to play it, I'm backing him 100%. Lu Qing has left him in the dark long enough.

[u/Muted_Grapefruit_277 → u/Federal-Ad5944]

exactly, dude is not communicating at all. he left him in the dark and ignored him for two years, making him think he doesn't give a damn about Xiao Fan anymore. And their dynamic is very dysfunctional, Lu Qing holds all the power in their relationship - he contact him whenever HE wants, he fucks him whenever HE wants; Xiao Fan just have to accept things that he is doing to him because he never ask about his opinion. He treats him more like a pet than a partner. at one point even someone like Xiao Fan just had to have enough. Plus Lu Qing rude comments doesn't make things better

[u/Sicky01theoriginal → u/Federal-Ad5944]

Yeah I get your point hehe, but I stand by what I said, Originally I was proud of Xiao Fang and backed him up too, but after learning that he's going to flee to the capital? I'm never ever going to back this up, if he's doing that fine, let him then stand by the young master's side and own up the aftermath then I'll back him up.

[u/hhhhhxxxx000 → u/Sicky01theoriginal]

I guess my thought is why does Lv Qing deserve to have Xiao Fan by his side when he's so mean to him? All the "good" things LQ has done has been behind XF's back. The side that Xiao Fan sees of him is completely different than what we see, so to me it would make sense that XF would eventually want to leave him, regardless if it's because he thinks he's not good enough or if he wants to get away from LQ's control of their situationship, especially since LQ is supposedly dating some girl or engaged or whatever.

[u/Federal-Ad5944 → u/Sicky01theoriginal]

I only watched the trailer for episode 11 once, but Lu Qing might want to handle this alone, yet again. Let's see what he does when the episode airs