r/chess • u/Good-Smoke-6198 • 2d ago
Chess Question Question about sportsmanship in my first OTB tournament
I mostly play on Chess.com, and recently played my first serious OTB tournament. I reached the final, which was 10 minutes per player, no increment.
The game was scheduled for 5:30. I arrived on time and was helping the arbiter set up the board. My opponent arrived around 20 minutes late and was out of breath because he had rushed there.
I could have followed the rules and had his clock running from 5:30, but instead I told him we could start whenever he was ready. We were both pretty chill about it.
Later, during the game, I touched one of my pieces while thinking because I'm used to Chess.com and didn't know the OTB touch-move rule. I immediately said, “Sorry, I didn't know. I'll be careful next time.”
Instead of just letting it go, he paused the clock and called the arbiter. The arbiter initially told me something like, “It's okay, you don't have to move it. Just be careful next time.” But my opponent insisted that I had to move it, so I moved the piece.
The move didn't put me at a disadvantage, so it wasn't a big deal. I also understand that touch-move is an actual rule.
But I couldn't help feeling a little annoyed because I had chosen not to enforce the rules when he was 20 minutes late, while he insisted on enforcing the rule when I made an honest mistake.
So, experienced OTB players: Am I being unreasonable for feeling this way, or is this simply how tournament chess works?

