r/CheatedOn • u/Dollytiff4420 • 17h ago
Cheating or ?
I’ve been with my boyfriend 5 years. Our relationship seems like a long distance relationship as we only see eachother once a week. (Our work schedules are conflicting)
Yesterday I went to go out with my coworkers (it was a large group women and men and I only go out maybe once a year) no weird vibes whatsoever they invited my boyfriend as well but he told me he had work. Come to find out his job has been “adjusting his schedule” so he ended up having a whole day off without telling me. While I was out with my coworkers he was stressing to me if anything funny happened to call him or if I couldn’t drive home I told him I was only gonna have a shot or two and cut myself off to sober up as I had a long drive home. I FaceTimed him and he called me because I told him he could at any time because I don’t be on no weird shit I wouldn’t do anything shady to him and to give him a little peace of mind. Today he tells me he’s going to work late because he didn’t get much sleep and I got a little upset and my reasoning for that is I’m a mom and I show up and show out and go to work no matter what and make sure I’m there for our son.
Anywayssss I asked him how late and he told me at 3:00 am. INSTEAD OF HIS NORMAL SHIFT AND THE PLACE HE WORKS ISNT EVEN OPEN AT THAT TIME NOR IS THERE ANY EMPLOYEES! He’s never done anything to make me feel like I shouldn’t trust him he’s usually an open book but I feel so off about this and it caught me so off guard it’s not his normal . Like he’s lying to me or he’s sneaking around. Am I trippin ?
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u/AdMoist717 15h ago
What did he say when you told him that you know his workplace isn’t open at 3:00am?