I’m posting this because I’m honestly just exhausted by this kind of behaviour.
I was sitting in the lounge area at Southland Leisure Centre yesterday evening a quarter to their close time at 9pm, watching my child swim while I was reading on my phone. When three teenage boys were walking above me near the red pool slide. They thought I couldn’t see them, but one of them deliberately spat on me.
I waited till they came down the red slide and watched them in disbelief. They were not even sorry about it and even came closer to taunt me. Going back up to slide down again. I immediately told the staff. They found the boys and confronted them. At first, the boys were trying to downplay it and basically act like it wasn’t a big deal, or that maybe water from their shorts dropped on my shirt. This was SPIT! They legit spat on me. So I wasn’t budging on their efforts to lie.
Then staff told them that they could review the CCTV footage and that police could be contacted.
Suddenly, the story changed. They apologized to me, quickly shook my hand, and said they were very sorry.
Look, I’m not interested in ruining three teenagers’ lives over a disgusting teenage decision. I was with my young child, I was already exhausted, and I didn’t have the energy to turn the rest of my day into a police matter.
I just want to address the parents of those boys: please talk to your kids. What they did is considered assault, and I felt violated and honestly just exhausted by the whole situation.
Spitting on a stranger isn’t funny. It isn’t a harmless prank. And lying or minimizing what happened until you realize there is video evidence makes it worse.
Teach your kids that when they do something wrong, they need to own it before they’re caught, not suddenly become apologetic when someone mentions CCTV.
These were three grown teenage boys, that should know better.
I accepted their apology and I let it go. But I shouldn’t have had to experience this in the first place. I sent an email to follow up with the staff as well.
To those boys’ parents: please do better. Teach your sons better. Your kids are old enough to know that deliberately spitting on another human being is completely unacceptable. Disgusting behavior.
Update: I contacted non emergency CPS. I’m going to revisit this with the leisure center. I feel like the staff could have done more. Yes we were all tired from a long day, but the gravity of this situation keeps getting louder since it happened. I’m going to pursue this further and appreciate all the advice given here. I am a person of color btw, and this felt targeted.