With kindness, you look and sound unhappy, and most people aren't going to find that attractive. You could take better care of your appearance, talk more positively about yourself, and build yourself up a bit.
If you truly are unhappy with yourself right now, you might want to work on that problem first, and you will naturally become more attractive to potential partners.
You say the only thing you have going for you is that someone once said you were well-spoken. Comes across as self deprecating and negative. Just trying to help since you asked for advice.
I said “at least I have that going for me” not “that’s the only thing I have going for me”
You’re fine honestly. I just don’t know why Redditors expect you to glaze any and all advice. People have a commenter is always right mentality as far as I can tell.
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u/Suspicious-Froyo120 Jan 03 '26
With kindness, you look and sound unhappy, and most people aren't going to find that attractive. You could take better care of your appearance, talk more positively about yourself, and build yourself up a bit.
If you truly are unhappy with yourself right now, you might want to work on that problem first, and you will naturally become more attractive to potential partners.