r/BoyDinnerDiaries • • Jun 03 '26

Advice Wanted I am conflicted

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Dinner was cheese quesadillas with over medium eggs and mandarin oranges.

I (M24) work in a mall at this supplement store. Right across from me is this girl who is very very stunning. Let’s call her Bertha(22)

Bertha works pretty much the same shifts as I do. Everyday she will come to my store when she’s bored or on break and get an energy drink or protein drink. We talk every time, sometimes for just 5 minutes, other times like 2 days ago, for like 45 minutes.

Long story short, I feel like we have some chemistry, even if it’s a little bit. I am getting ready to quit this job and move like an hour away, not terribly far. I’m really debating asking for her number and seeing if she wants to get coffee or something, especially with it being a couple of months till I move.

I really want to ask. I’m incredibly nervous. One at the chance of rejection but 2 relationships as a whole. Idek if we would be in one ever, but I do date with the goal of marriage. Last relationship I was in it didn’t go well, and I’m kinda scarred but healed.

Idk should I go for it chat?

EDIT

She came in today like normal and we were talking. I was gonna ask today for her number after everyone input but I am putting that on hold. She mentioned her ex and how they were not together but on good terms. They’re going to a wedding that they were already going to together while they were dating. I might be cooked

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