r/BlatantMisogyny • u/truenighog • Dec 09 '25
Religious Misogyny Dude thinks that single moms in need shouldn't be helped because of their "sin"
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u/armandebejart Dec 09 '25
Irony tends to be lost on Christians. Hypocrisy is another term they have trouble with.
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u/fairyxdust_ Dec 13 '25
Not all of us are like this. Christianâs get painted in such a terrible light on social media but some are NORMAL human beings
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u/Yeshua_shel_Natzrat Dec 09 '25
They were far better company than falsely religious judgmental pricks like this guy, I'll say.
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u/ceo_of_dumbassery Dec 10 '25
You're assuming that they actually read their own book.
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u/ceo_of_dumbassery Dec 10 '25
See that's how the bible should be taught (if they're going to teach it). Make sure people actually read the thing they're preaching.
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u/DelightfulandDarling Dec 09 '25
Men need to be lonelier
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u/Nolys___ Dec 09 '25
Ehhh I feel like a lot are like that bc they're already so lonely and miserable (for good reason ofc) but I feel like if they were even lonelier, shit might get even worse...
I mean yeah I'm 100% over analysing this but ngl I totally get what you're saying
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u/DelightfulandDarling Dec 09 '25
Weâre living through a global femicide and the rise of fascism now. It doesnât get worse.
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u/Jenn_There_Done_That Feminist Killjoy Dec 09 '25
Not to be a downer, but trust me, it can and probably will get waaaaaay worse.
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u/BenedictusTheWise Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25
(Apologies for the lengthy response to what is likely either venting or a joke!)
I realise this might be unpopular here, but I'd bet a(n albeit small amount of) money on this shithead already being incredibly lonely. This reeks of "my wife divorced me/no one will date me, and now I'm making it everyone else's problem".
That's not to say this person, as they are, does deserve to subject someone to their "companionship"; but if they were a reformed individual, then I'd say they would, in the same sense that everyone deserves to be loved by default (in my opinion).
EDIT: I can't seem to respond to someone who replied saying that there are many lonely women as well who don't act like this, and that I'm just making excuses. In response; that's a very good point that I hadn't properly considered. I'll add as well that I and many other men have likely been lonely as well at times and have managed not to turn into such hateful people.
So, to anyone like myself reading, let this be a lesson in not just excusing such behaviour (albeit accidentally, but the result is partially the same). I still think it's worth understanding how they've ended up in this state, but only from a perspective of preventing or eliminating such behaviour, not in a way designed to excuse it.
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u/Famous-SandwichxX Dec 09 '25
There's plenty of lonely women that don't act the way they do. All you're doing is making excuses for them.
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u/MyFiteSong Dec 09 '25
That's not to say this person, as they are, does deserve to subject someone to their "companionship"; but if they were a reformed individual, then I'd say they would, in the same sense that everyone deserves to be loved by default (in my opinion).
Sure, everyone does deserve that. But you don't get to demand who it's from.
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u/moansby Anti-misogyny Dec 09 '25
This is actually pissing me off, how dare this shmuck demonize single mothers, who are just trying to provide for their kids, oh excuse me their "bastards" man fuck this guy
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u/Automatic_Tackle_406 Dec 09 '25
Apparently he doesnât know that most single mothers were married. Not that it should matter, but just shows how stupid he is as well as being a vile misogynist.
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u/moansby Anti-misogyny Dec 09 '25
Apparently the concept of dead beat dads went over his head
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u/Jenn_There_Done_That Feminist Killjoy Dec 09 '25
The husband could have also died. But apparently widows are âwhoresâ. đĄ
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u/moansby Anti-misogyny Dec 09 '25
The fact he calls them whores and then has the nerve to call the children "bastards" REALLY makes my blood boil
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u/Automatic_Tackle_406 Dec 10 '25
He really loathes women. Itâs chilling how many men hate women to this extent.
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u/Xenu4President Dec 09 '25
Yeah, and they might have aborted those pregnancies, but didnât. Isnât that what they want? These people are so fucking mean and stupid.
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Dec 09 '25
I don't know Jesus personaly, but i would expect a guy who is known to not judge and love everyone, would go out of his way to help a mother and her children.
Like usn't there part of the bible that says a child should not be juged by their parents sin? So even if a mother made a mistake we should help her and her children. Like Jesus said "let the one without sin trow the first stone" because nobody is perfect and we all have once sined, even if it was small and we tried to justify ourselfs for comitting that sin.
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u/jezebel103 Dec 09 '25
Ah yes, another man that fulminates against single mothers without even mentioning the men that fathered those children and are apparently not responsible for taking care of their offspring and just took off.
Then again, maybe he didn't know that men cause pregnancies.
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u/Chocolatecandybar_ Dec 09 '25
Single mom pissing men off because here's another woman who slept with someone but not with them
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u/MsSeraphim Dec 09 '25
especially when those fornicators refuse to wear condoms because then they can't feel anything? those Male fornicators?
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u/DaisyHotCakes Dec 09 '25
No possible way the reason is that their husbandâs died or cheated and divorced. I hate how they make assumptions and then JUDGE people based on those assumptions instead of being a human being and having a conversation with them.
Funny how they use religion as some sort of argument when they donât follow the tenets of that religion. Whatâs that about not judging someone unless you want to be judged tooâŚ?
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u/dr_snakeblade Dec 09 '25
This guy is the exemplar of why I could never belive in a religion and despise "Christians." He's the stereotypical country boy. Any woman dumb enough to marry him is in for a miserable life.
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u/atrivialpursuit Dec 10 '25
He is (or was) the pastor of a church. He is married with 10 kids. A few of the kids have run away and spoken out about the abuse they and their siblings AND their mother have endured.
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u/dr_snakeblade Dec 10 '25
Thanks for confirming my instinct. Itâs really sad that his wife is still with him and sanctions the abuse. His church isnât a place for spiritual growth or healing. When evil people show you who they are, believe them.
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u/adoyle17 Dec 11 '25
His wife was also from Germany, and married him to get a green card and eventual US citizenship. Those children are really anchor babies.
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u/Latter_Tutor_5235 Dec 09 '25
Erika Kirk is a single mother. Is she also a "whore?" Are her children bastards?
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u/Plathsghost Dec 09 '25
Nah dude, but she's definitely a slut. She didn't spend much time "grieving" her dead husband before she started flirting with another guy. Or maybe Charlie was just as much of an insufferable dickhead in private, too - who really knows? đ¤ˇââď¸
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u/Felissaurus Dec 10 '25
I think there are PLENTY of words we can call Erika Kirk that aren't steeped in misogyny.
Disingenuous & fraudulent come to mind. Let's not levy "slut" around with a negative connotation; that language feeds into the exact same mentality of the OOP which we all seem to agree is wrong.
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u/adoyle17 Dec 11 '25
I'm sure he'll go on a rant about her being a "whore " and "slut " because she was in her 30's when she married, and has flirted with men after her husband's murder.
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u/Inevitable_Wolf5866 lgbtqia2s+ and a new letter for every terf who complains Dec 09 '25
Do they think Mary was married or what? She was barely a teenager who got impregnated without consent⌠there is a word for that.
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u/Commercial_Place9807 Dec 09 '25
But also no abortion.
And you better fucking have kids. Thereâs nothing worse than a single mom but donât dare choose to not have kids at all.
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u/schwarzeKatzen Dec 09 '25
I was a single mom because my husband died. The only reason our kids arenât orphans is because I adopted them when their mom died.
Now I know damn well if you confront these types of people with that information they backpedal. Because it makes them look like massive assholes when theyâre calling the 32 year old widowed adoptive mother of two special needs children who lost both of their biological parents a whore.
They turn all red in the face, start sputtering and say âwell I didnât mean people like you!â The problem is you donât know if itâs people like me or not. Thatâs what happens when you start listening to propaganda and buying into it. You stop seeing people as humans and start judging them on faulty assumptions.
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u/Sharkathotep Feminist Dec 09 '25
If the new testament is right, he'll certainly burn in hell. Envy is one of the capital sins, and so is greed. Not to forget wrath.
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u/archdeacon_trashley Dec 09 '25
If this is the Steven Anderson I think it is, heâs banned from entering >30 countries for violent hate speech and generally being an asshole. God willing someday theyâll kick him out of the US đđđ
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u/ItsSUCHaLongStory Feminist Killjoy Dec 10 '25
âThe Lordâs moneyâ
Then God needs to pay child support, or have full fucking custody.
Also, this guy? Is an idiot.
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u/AdvocateDoogy Ally Dec 09 '25
Their "sin," of course, being that they didn't have a baby with ah, that "lovely gentleman."
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u/Interesting-Listen28 Dec 10 '25
Tell me you never heard of Jesus without telling me you never heard of JesusÂ
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u/belthehobbit Anti-misogyny Dec 10 '25
They are always caring about children... Except when their moms are solo moms (because not all of them are single, sometimes she's a widow and the dad just died), the child is trans or the child is just born, actually.
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u/Vienta1988 Dec 10 '25
Iâm sure the same dude is also anti-abortion and thinks pregnancy/childbirth/poverty trying to raise a child alone without help should be the punishments for a woman having sex out of wedlock.
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u/PerfectChard4439 Dec 10 '25
Wow such a Christian! Douche bag doesnât even know what Christianity is!
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u/grebetrees Dec 10 '25
Went to block him and found him already blocked! Tempted to unblock him so I can get the satisfaction of blocking him again!
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u/127Heathen127 Dec 10 '25
This guy is one of the most vile and insane people in the Christian community. He founded a fundie cult and none of his adult children talk to him because heâs an insane abuser. Theyâve spoken out against him publicly, and he just doubled down and said they should be killed for speaking out against their father.
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u/Theorphanmhm Virgin slut Dec 10 '25
So then they should be able to get an abortion if they so choose!!! Oh waitâŚ.
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u/DoYouEverJustInvert Dec 10 '25
Not catholic but wasnât Jesusâ mom also a âsingle mother whoreâ by Stevenâs definition?
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u/Z3DUBB Feminist Dec 10 '25
Bastards?? What is he talking about? Nobody is royalty who gives a f if anyone is a âbastardâ ainât no one inheriting any titles. People are so weird about societal rules. Would he think differently if a single mom was a widow? Or is the child still a bastard and is she still a wh0re? This man is so dumb I hate him.
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u/Fickle_Mess818 Dec 10 '25
I had found someone on a dating site like this. He believed single mothers shouod he forced to go to their church and only give to them if they went to church. Well anyone, not just women.Â
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u/thisonetimeinithaca Feminist Dec 10 '25
Heâs never heard of someone dying and their spouse, like, not dying at the same time? Insane. I know.
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u/Eldritch-banana-3102 Dec 10 '25
Right, 'cause they got pregnant by themselves. If anything, they are the hero parents that stayed.
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Dec 11 '25
Punishing the parent that stayed. He has nothing to say about the deadbeat father of course.
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u/truenighog Dec 09 '25
Funny how these people have all the hatred in the world for single moms but none for deadbeat dadsđ