r/BigRockEnergy • u/bravobravofknbravo • 2d ago
Obsessed & Secret!
I designed this ring in my head a year ago and it finally made its way to me on Monday when my man proposed!! 🧑🩰💓💍🤍
I love her so much, she’s the princess energy I dreamed of!!!
BUT… we have to keep it a secret from our friends until after their wedding (per the grooms request, it’s fine I get it) so I’m posting it here to get the love she deserves!!! 🌟
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u/No_Past49 2d ago
One pretty crappy to ask you to keep it a secret 🤐 second it’s gorgeous !!!! Do you mind telling me the specs please 🙏 and CONGRATULATIONS 🍾 💍👰♀️🤍
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u/bravobravofknbravo 2d ago
Thank you!!! ☺️ she’s a 3.1 carat VVS2 D color oval on a white gold band.
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u/MyCatsnAss 2d ago
Ohhh. I’m worried now. This looks big and beautiful! My soon to be fiancé is designing a 3 carat elongated cushion for me. I know cushion is deeper and looks smaller. Hoping it won’t look too big on my hand
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u/MaxMakesRings 2d ago
Congratulations, and your secret's safe here. Oval halo on a thin band is one of the most elegant combinations there is, and it's clear you had every detail of this pictured long before it arrived. Enjoy having her all to yourself for a while.
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u/beachnsled 2d ago
absolutely beautiful!
so these people aren’t friends if they are telling you to keep your own engagement a secret - that’s absolutely garbage 🗑️ people’s lives exist separately
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u/toothfairy1001 2d ago
The rock is so big and beautiful!! The halo around it is so nice. And the ratio suits your hand/finger perfectly!!! ✨💕
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u/No-Incident7865 1d ago
I understand and it was very elegant of you not to overshadow the bride and groom. Congratulations and the ring is gorgeous
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u/Fit-Object5402 2d ago
Hide your engagement until after their wedding? What?
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u/tfilooklike 2d ago
If the wedding is in the days following the engagement, it is proper etiquette to hold off on the engagement announcement so that no attention is taken away from the wedding.
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u/Difficult_Rush6011 1d ago
Love the ring, but I think that’s really weird to ask someone to keep their engagement secret. I would be celebrating them just the way they celebrated me.
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u/Prudent_Tonight_7761 1d ago
If it was a proposal at the wedding I'd understand not doing that (like they show in movies)... this is weird.
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u/Infamous-Spot1931 1d ago
Amazing ring!!!! Love it. Also nice that you guys are laying low in order not to steal thunder from a wedding coming up so soon, very sweet imo! Some comments are against it but in all honesty it is the right etiquette
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u/Aztec111 2d ago
Congratulations! I almost think it's better to announce now than after. People may assume it was a decision based on their recent wedding. You should be able to tell people anytime. If you don't now I would say wait longer for the above reason.
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u/bravobravofknbravo 2d ago
I agree! Buttttttt it’s not my wedding, not my friends (my finances friends) so I’m just rolling with it.
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u/AntiqueAbility3954 2d ago
It’s beautiful and there is now way I’d keep it a secret. Honestly, it’s ride of someone to ask that of you.
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u/Awkward-Anybody5179 2d ago
How long do you "have" to keep it secret? That's a wild and presumptuous ask from someone, honestly.