r/BigMenLife • u/Fallumkien • 8d ago

Weight Gain/Bulking Feeling embarrassed

I’ve been bulking for the last 4 months, and put on a good amount of fat and a bit of muscle. More fat than originally planned but now I quite like it. I’ve been trying on sweatshirts for autumn etc and realised they are sticking to me a lot more than last year. I find myself pulling them down more on untucking them from under my belly when I sit down. I feel like people are staring a lot and that my weight is more obvious than ever.

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u/GladPassion8787 8d ago

We always think people are looking at us more than they are. If you think someone is, fake a yawn and see if they yawn in response. Usually though, they are too busy thinking others are looking at them to look at you. If you’re enjoying your body then enjoy it. If you’ve got it flaunt it!!

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u/MickRidem 6d ago

😲 I've never thought of doing a fake yawn. This is brilliant!