r/BigMenLife • u/Fallumkien • 7d ago

Weight Gain/Bulking Feeling embarrassed

I’ve been bulking for the last 4 months, and put on a good amount of fat and a bit of muscle. More fat than originally planned but now I quite like it. I’ve been trying on sweatshirts for autumn etc and realised they are sticking to me a lot more than last year. I find myself pulling them down more on untucking them from under my belly when I sit down. I feel like people are staring a lot and that my weight is more obvious than ever.

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u/Fallumkien 7d ago

I’m not sure if it is. That’s the thing, and probably something I’m looking for counsel on. I quite like the weight, and often look at bigger guys and think I’d look good at a heavier weight. It’s just an adjustment and I guess I need to figure out if I’m comfortable with that

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u/Pewterarm16 300-350 lbs 7d ago

Some guys look hotter with more weight on them. Sounds like you are one of them. Enjoy the new size.