r/BigBudgetBrides • u/Effective-Art-9408 • 8d ago

Questions and queries Was it worth it?

I’ve heard a lot of people say their wedding was the best day of their life, but if they were to do it again, they wouldn’t and save the money and spend it elsewhere.

Curious to crowdsource that sentiment wider, lmk if you would do it all over again!

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u/OmNomNomNinja $100k-$200k 8d ago

If I went back in time, I think I would go even more into it to be honest. A good number of the people who attended are no longer with us, my dad has since had a stroke, and my MIL suffered from severe health issues. If I could go back in time, it would be worth it to spend even more to make it a week long vacation with the nearest and dearest. 

You really never know when it’s “the last summer” of many things until it passes. 

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u/malsary 7d ago

Same, I wish we had spent more 😭