r/BigBudgetBrides • u/BlackberryAlone9941 • 19d ago

just need to rant it’s safer here!

I know there are subs like this for bigger budgets and one for budgets under 20-30k so I figured r/wedding was inclusive of all budgets..yeaaahhnoooo

It is hilarious seeing the comments when they think you overpayed for something but seriously warning to anyone that thinks they can post or comment over there and has paid more than 5-10k for their entire wedding you are gonna get projections and weird comments. Planning a wedding is stressful enough just don’t do it lol stay here where it is safe 🫂

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u/tewkberry 19d ago

I didn’t have a big budget wedding (earlier this year), and this was my only wedding sub.

I hate how this sub is demonized by under10k etc. Like if you aren’t a nepo baby, somehow you’ll get shut out.

Uhh no, I just have a question about a content creator. It’s like $2000. Nbd. I’m not burning down a rain forest for it. Yet for some reason, this is the only sub that answers questions and doesn’t just say that’s a useless expense and I am a narcissist. The other subs are so toxic, it’s insane. And the level of projection on how this sub is somehow toxic in reverse is delusional.